Kodi zinakuchitikirani inu kuti mukudzuka tsiku la sabata, mmalo moyamba kukonzekera ntchito, mwabwera ndi chifukwa choti musapite kumeneko? Ndipo osapezekanso, tsiku lonse la ntchito liyenera kuganiza kuti: "Fulumira madzulo, sindikufuna kugwira ntchito" ndikuganiza zoyenera kuchita, kotero kuti kuonekera kwa ntchitoyo kwakhazikitsidwe, koma sikugwira ntchito. Koma atabwerera kunyumba, anali kufunafuna yankho la funso lakuti: "Chifukwa chiyani sindifuna kugwira ntchito?" Chikhalidwe chodziwika? Tiye tiganizire pamodzi kuti tichite chiyani, ndipo kuchokera "Sindikufunanso kugwira ntchito!" Posakhalitsa anzanu onse adzabalalitsa.
Chifukwa chiyani sindifuna kugwira ntchito?
Kuti mumvetse zomwe muyenera kuchita ngati mulibe chilakolako chogwira ntchito, muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake maganizo amenewa akugwira ntchito? Kwa anthu okalamba, funso loti munthu sakufuna kugwira ntchito sizingakhale zovuta, amaganiza kuti achinyamata safuna kuchita izi motero, amakhala omasuka pamphuno ya makolo. Izi ndi zoona, komatu sizowona, osati wophunzira aliyense wa dzulo akufuna kudyetsa makolo ake, ambiri amafuna ufulu ndi kuyesetsa.
Kufunsa funso lomweli kwa bwana, mudzamvapo phunziro pa mutu wakuti "palibe amene akufuna kugwira ntchito, kupatula ine."
Ndiye ndani ali wolondola? Pambuyo pake, malingaliro onse sakugwirizana ndi vuto lanu, chabwino? Kotero tiyenera kuyang'ana chinthu china. Mwachitsanzo, chilakolako chotchuka kwambiri pakati pa amayi "Sindikufuna kugwira ntchito, ndikufuna kukwatira." Msungwana aliyense wachitatu safuna kugwira ntchito, koma maloto ofuna kupeza wopereka thandizo. Chabwino, mayi wachikulire akufuna kugwira ntchito, osakumbukira tsiku lobadwa la ana ndikumbukira chakudya chamadzulo cha mwamuna wake? Inde, ayi, ndi zaka zambiri amayi amadziwa kuti cholinga chawo ndikulenga, kukhala ndi malo, ndipo safuna kumva za mpando uliwonse ku ofesi. Ndipo palibe chigawenga mu zilakolako zoterezi.
Nanga, sichoncho? Nthaŵi zonse ndimadziwona ndekha mu udindo wa katswiri wodziwa bwino, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhalenso mzimayi wa bizinesi, koma tsopano chirichonse chikudulidwa, kodi simukufuna chirichonse? Mwinamwake izi ndi zotsatira za kuvutika maganizo? Chabwino, kumbukirani momwe mumagwirira sabata lanu - ndi abwenzi, abwenzi, kuchita ntchito zapakhomo, kudziyang'anira nokha, mwachimwemwe, mokondwera ndi mokondwera, mpaka Lolemba atabwera? Ngati mulibe mphamvu komanso mukufuna kuchita chilichonse ngakhale pamapeto a sabata, ndiye kuti mwakhala mukuvutika maganizo, mukulimbana nawo, ndipo chikhumbo chogwira ntchito chidzabwerera. Koma ngati kufotokozana kumagwirizana, ndipo kuchepa kwa mphamvu kumawonedwa kokha pamasiku a sabata, ndiye palibe chokhumudwitsa, ndi china - ntchitoyo yasokonekera chidwi kwa inu, kotero inu mumayenera kudzichotsa nokha kuchokera pabedi kwenikweni ndi tsitsi.
Sindikufuna kugwira ntchito - Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Sizosangalatsa kugwira ntchito, kotero simukufuna kuchita, momwe mungagonjetsere dziko lino? Choyamba, tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake okondedwawo kale, ntchito yomwe inabweretsa chisangalalo inakhala yonyansa kwambiri.
- Mukuona kuti simukudziwa zambiri, nthawi zambiri mumayenera kupeza uphungu, choncho kusadzikayikira, kutopa ndi kukana kuchita zinthu zomwe simukuzidziwa bwino. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti tifunika kusankha ngati mukufuna kupitiriza kuchita izi, ngati yankho lanu liri lothandiza, mavuto anu angathe kuthetsedwa ndi kudzikonda. Izi ndi kuwerenga kwa mabuku apadera, maphunziro ndi maphunziro.
- Simukukonda ntchito chifukwa mulibe mwayi wakukula, iwo apuma "padenga." Nchiyani chingachitike pano? Kuwonetsa luso lawo ku utsogoleri ndikupempha kutsimikiziranso izi mu malo atsopano (katswiri wamkulu, woyang'anira polojekiti, etc.) komanso mu malipiro.
- Simukufuna kuchita zomwe mukuchita ndikutsatira zomwe simukuzifuna. Izi zimachitika, patapita kanthawi mumamvetsa kuti ntchitoyi si yanu, choncho simusangalala nayo, ndipo ngakhale malipiro abwino sangathe kubweza izi. Ndipo nchiyani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kuti muyambirenso? Musawope izi, kusowa chidziwitso kumatha kudzaza, koma chikhumbo chomwe sichidzapezeka sichidzawonekera. Wogwira ntchitoyo amapereka mwayi kwa munthu yemwe sadziwa zambiri, koma ndi maso oyaka, osati katswiri wabwino yemwe alibe malingaliro ake ndipo sakufuna kupereka ntchito yake yabwino.