Munthu aliyense amalembedwa mu dongosolo lokhwima ladziko lapansi, akusintha ndi kusintha yekha. Ndipo zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi zisonkhezero zakunja zimakhala zowawa, zomwe zimapangitsa zochita zowonongeka. Iwo ndi osiyana, chotero kuphunzira dziko la maganizo la munthu ndi chimodzi mwa nkhani zochititsa chidwi kwambiri. Ndipo ngati muli ndi chidwi pa mbali iyi ya munthu wina, mutha kudzipezera nokha pafupifupi zifukwa zonse zomwe zimayambitsa zochitika zake, ngakhalenso kulongosola zomwe akuchitazo.
Dziko laumtima la munthu
Anthu onse ndi osiyana: wina amakhudzidwa ndi misonzi pakuwona chiguduli chofewa, ndipo wina wopanda kuyesayesa kooneka akugwira chigoba cha mwala, akuyang'anitsitsa chifukwa cha mwazi wamagazi. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti munthu mmodzi ndi wabwino ndipo winayo ndi woipa. Iwo ali ndi zikhalidwe zosiyana, zochitika ndi njira zozindikira dziko lowazungulira. Ndipo mchitidwe uliwonse wa khalidwe uli ndi ubwino wake ndi ubwino wake.
Zabwino ndi zamwano za munthu wamtima
Makhalidwe okhudzidwa amachititsa munthuyo nthawi zingapo zabwino:
- zowala ndi zolemera;
- Fleur of kukopa mwa kuchitapo kanthu;
- gwero la kudzoza kopanga ;
- chilakolako chotsegula nthawi yatsopano, kupereka zodzaza ndi zochitika zosangalatsa;
- kusakhala ndi nkhawa pamtima, chifukwa munthu atangoyamba kuchitika mwamsanga amadza kuchitonthozo.
Chokhumudwitsa ndi zomwe zimachitika pa zochitika zonse, nthawi zina ngakhale zovuta, zomwe nthawi zina zingakhale cholepheretsa.
Zochita ndi zamwano za munthu wosungidwa
Munthu yemwe amazoloŵera kusunga maganizo ake, nayenso, pali nthawi zosangalala:
- iye akhoza kulingalira moyenerera mu zovuta;
- moyo wake suli wosiyana ndi zowonongeka ndi zowonongeka, zomwe zimasankhidwa zimapatsidwa kukhazikika.
Kulephera kuthetsa maganizo awo kapena kutumiza ku njira ina. Choncho, munthu wotereyo akhoza kuvutika maganizo chifukwa cha kusonkhana nthawi zonse. Ndipo izi zimabweretsa kupsyinjika ndi kupsinjika maganizo, zomwe zokha zimakhala zovuta kuthetsa.
Zomwe zimakhudzidwa mtima kwambiri
Ngati tilankhula za momwe munthu akumvera mumtima mwake, sitingathe kudziwiratu kuti ndi chiti chomwe chingawathandize kuti zikhazikike.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku, ndi 25% okha omwe ali ovuta kwambiri omwe angathe kuchita mogwirizana ndi momwe zinthu zilili.
Kusokonezeka maganizo kunachitika zonse, koma:
- 20% amatha kudzikoka okha pamodzi;
- 70% anapeza maola angapo kapena masiku angapo;
- 10% zinakhala zoyenera pokhapokha atatha thandizo lapadera lachipatala.
Koma ponena za kukwanira kwa khalidwe la anthu omwe ali ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya machitidwe a m'maganizo, palinsobe zotsatira zodalirika. Choncho, kuyeserera kuyenera kuchitidwa payekha, kuyesa kukamaliza maphunziro kungapangitse zifukwa zolakwika.