Masiku ano, m'bale ndi mlongo sakwatira, ngakhale msuweni wa msuweni wake akhoza kutsutsidwa, m'malo movomerezedwa. Ndipo chikondi chachikondi pakati pa bambo ndi mwana kapena mayi ndi mwana ndi chigwirizano ndi uchimo. Komatu nkhani ya zibwenzi komanso zachibale zosagwirizana ndizofunikira.
Kodi incest ikutanthauzanji?
Kuti mudziwe chomwe chimayambitsa chibwenzi, muyenera kutembenukira kwa mawu akuti etymology. Mawuwa amachokera ku liwu la Chilatini lotchedwa incestus, lomwe limatanthauza "wochimwa, wolakwa". Ndipo kugonana ndi achibale ndi kugonana pakati pa achibale ake apamtima:
- makolo ndi ana;
- abale ndi alongo;
- amalume / aakazi ndi anyamata / ana.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti kugonana ndi achibale ndi kugonana pakati pa achibale, omwe ndi ochimwa komanso olakwa. Inde, chidziwitso cha incest ndi chilengedwe kwa pafupifupi midzi yonse. Komabe, lingaliro la chiyanjano mu zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana lingakhale losiyana:
- Ku Taiwan, China, North ndi South Korea, maukwati pakati pa msuweni ndi alongo amaletsedwa.
- Ku UK, chilakolako cha asuweni kuti akwaniritse mgwirizano wa banja sichidzakumana ndi zopinga.
- Kazakhs ali ndi lamulo loletsa kulankhulana ndi achibale mpaka kufuko lachisanu ndi chiwiri.
Chipwirikiti - psychology
Malingaliro a psychoanalysis, kukula kwa kugonana kwa ana a zaka zapakati pa zitatu kapena zisanu kumakhala ndi zilakolako zopanda pake kwa makolo a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sigmund Freud adapatsa izi ziyembekezo maina a maganizo kuchokera ku masoka achigiriki akale:
- Oedipus complex . Anyamata achichepere amakumana ndi kugonana kwa amayi awo, ndipo kwa abambo, omwe amawaona kuti ndi otsutsana, ndimadani. Pokhala ndi maganizo apadera a umunthu, mantha a kubwezeredwa ndi abambo, omwe amatenga mawonekedwe a nkhawa, amachititsa mnyamatayo kusiya zilakolako zake zoletsedwa.
- Electra Electra . Atsikana ali aang'ono amakopeka ndi bambo awo, ndipo amayi amawoneka ngati oopsya.
Zifukwa za incest
Chifukwa chakuti amaikira akazi kuti azigonana ndi amuna, amatsenga ambiri amayesa kumvetsa. Iwo amaphunzira mbiriyakale, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi maumwini pa zochitika izi. Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti chigololo nthawi zakale sichinali chonchi. Ndipo ku Igupto wakale, maharafasi ankalumikizana ndi amayi, alongo komanso ana aakazi okha kuti akhalebe "oyera mtima".
Anthu otchuka ambiri anali mabanja okwatirana:
- Wolemba Johann Sebastian Bach anakwatiwa ndi msuweni wake Barbara Barbara Bach.
- Mlembi wa chiphunzitso chotchuka cha chisinthiko Charles Darwin anakwatira msuweni wake Emma Wedgwood.
- Wolemba Edgar Allan Poe anatenga msuweni wake wazaka 13, Virginia Klemm, kwa mkazi wake.
Komabe, chifukwa chachikulu cha zibwenzi ndizovuta chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kwina ku psyche ndi chitukuko. Kulemala kwakukulu sikungapulumutse ana ku Oedipus ndi complex Electra . Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri ana amazunzidwa ndi makolo awo:
- Mwamuna akhoza kugonana ndi mwana wake wamkazi ngati mkazi ali wotanganidwa kwambiri, amamupatsa nthawi yochepa kapena kusintha konse, kubwezera. Funsolo ndiloti, n'chifukwa chiyani salinso pambali? Pano pamakhala mbali yosiyana-siyana ya maganizo - chilakolako choletsera ndikulephera kukana, zomwe zimangokhala zokwanitsa pokhudzana ndi mwanayo.
- Mzimayi nthawi zambiri amawopa kuti ataya mwana wake, "apatseni" mkazi wake wina yemwe amamukakamiza kuti agone naye. Zili ngati njira yokhala ndi katundu.
Banja lachibale limakhalapo chifukwa cha kusiyana kolakwika pakati pa makolo, achibale ndi anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, chilakolako cha msuweni kwa wina ndi mzake chimafotokozedwa ndi kudzipatula kuchokera kwa anzanu ali aunyamata ndi kusakhumba ndikulowetsamo miyoyo yawo kukhala "mlendo".
Akatswiri ena amaganizo amasiyanitsa zifukwa zitatu zazikulu zomwe zimayambitsa incest:
- Kulephera pa chitukuko cha maganizo.
- Chikhumbo chophwanya zoletsedwa, zomwe zimagwirizananso kwambiri ndi maganizo.
- Chiwerewere. Ophatikizidwa ndi zoopsa za chiwerewere, analandira kuyambira ali mwana.
Mitundu ya zibwenzi
Amayi ogonana ndi abambo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chiwawa, komanso amasiyanitsa zibwenzi mwachinsinsi. Pali zachibale pakati pa:
- akulu ndi ana;
- pakati pa abale ndi alongo;
- azakhali / abambo anga ndi abambo aakazi;
Kodi choopsa cha kugonana ndi zibwenzi ndi chiyani?
Chimodzi mwa ntchito zothandizira anthu omwe ali ndi zibwenzi ndizoletsedwa kuti zibwenzi zikhale zochepa. Ambiri amadziwika kuti ana omwe ali ndi zibwenzi amatha kubadwa moipa, ali ndi zilema zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo . Kuyandikana kwa magazi kwa makolo, kumapangitsa mpata woperekera padera, mimba yokhazikika, kapena kubadwa kwa mwana ndi umbuli. Matenda opatsirana amtundu wambiri ndi owopsa pa matenda aakulu monga:
- wosamva;
- albinism;
- hemophilia;
- Matenda a Thea-Sachs (idiocy ya ana).
Zotsatira za zibwenzi
Kugonana kwa achibale apamtima sikuti nthawi zonse kumabweretsa mavuto. Koma kuopseza kwa matenda opatsirana ndi obadwa kumene kumakula ndithudi. Mpata wotsatizana ndi majini "odwala" omwe ndi odwala omwe siwawadziwa si abwino, mosiyana ndi achibale ake apamtima. Choncho, madokotala amaletsa zibwenzi.
Kodi chibwenzi cha ana omwe agwiriridwa ndi makolo awo ndi chiyani? Izi ndi zotsatira zake:
- kudalira pa mowa ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimasintha kuzindikira;
- kudzipha;
- kukula kwa phobias ndi kuvutika maganizo pakukula;
- matenda;
Nanga bwanji ngati chiwerewere chimachitika?
Chiyanjano chilichonse chotsutsana ndi zotsatira za abambo kapena amayi omwe adasokonezedwa ndi mwana wawo, zotsatira za kusintha kwa maganizo ndi kudzipatula. Kugonjetsa ndi koipa, makamaka pankhani ya chiwawa, ndi mavuto onse omwe amachititsa kuti azithetsa okha. Chotsatira chake ndi moyo wopanda mavuto komanso mavuto omwe munthu amakhala nawo payekha. Zikatero, thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo limalimbikitsidwa.
Kuthamangitsidwa mu Baibulo
Malinga ndi malamulo achikhristu, chigololo chiri tchimo, ndipo chigololo ndi tchimo la kugonana. Ngakhale molingana ndi Baibulo, chigololo choyamba padziko lapansi chinapangidwa ndi ana a Adamu ndi Eva . Koma popeza adakakamizidwa, anali wopatulika. Palinso nkhani ina yochokera m'Malemba Opatulika onena za kugonana. Pambuyo pa kuwonongedwa kwa Mulungu ndi mzinda wochimwa wa Sodomu, Loti ndi ana ake aakazi awiri anapulumutsidwa. Iwo ankaganiza kuti anthu onse anafa. Atatha kumwa vinyo wa abambo ake, atsikanawo adalumikizana naye kuti apitirize banja.
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