Munthu ndi umunthu wokondweretsa, wololera komanso wofulumira. Munthu aliyense ali ndi zizolowezi zake, luso ndi luso lomwe liri lapadera kwa iye yekha. Mudziko mulibe awiri ofanana mofanana, ife tonse ndife osiyana. Komabe, asayansi amagwiritsidwa ntchito kugawa anthu ku mitundu ina, malinga ndi malingaliro awo ndi khalidwe lawo. Kotero mu dziko lathu lapansi munayamba lingaliro la introvert ndi extrovert. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa introvert ndi extrovert sikuwoneka poyang'ana poyamba, chifukwa kufotokozera ndikofunika kuti mudziwe bwino munthuyo.
Kodi mawu akuti introvert ndi extrovert amatanthauzanji?
An extrovert ndi munthu wolankhulirana komanso wotseguka. Amakonda mabwenzi atsopano ndi misonkhano, nthawi zonse amakhala pamaso. Anthu oterewa amadzipatulira kumanja ndi kumanzere popanda cholinga chilichonse .
An introvert ndi wotsekedwa ndi wobisika. Iye amadzidzidzimutsa mwa iye yekha, sakonda kuyambitsa zokambirana zoyamba, kapena kuti, sangayambe, ngati safuna zotsatira zake zonse.
Kodi introtain angakhale wodabwitsa?
Chimenechi ndi chotheka. Anthu ena pa nthawi ya unyamata ankachita mobisa komanso osalankhulana, ndipo okhwima kwambiri anayamba kutsegula mbali yatsopano. Kusintha uku sikophweka kwa munthu, chifukwa ayenera kusintha yekha ndi zizoloŵezi zake. Koma, kusintha kumeneku kumakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pamoyo wa munthu m'tsogolomu. Pafupifupi asayansi onse atha kuganiza kuti extroverts amakhala m'dziko lamakono mosavuta kwambiri.
Kuti mumvetsetse yemwe ali wolengeza ndi wotsutsa, munthu ayenera kuphunzira zambiri kuti amvetse anthu. Kwenikweni, sikovuta, mumangomupatsa ufulu wa kukambirana, musamusokoneze ndikufunsa mafunso ena. Mwa njira, ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti kawirikawiri anthu ndi otsogolera, sangapeze chinenero chofala ndi zovuta. Zimatuluka chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chosiyana. Iwo amayang'ana ndi maso osiyana pa dziko ndi mavuto ndipo sadzasintha mu chimodzi. Maukwati pakati pa anthu oterewa ndi osatheka.
Zizindikiro za introverts ndi extroverts
Zomwe zimatchulidwa sizipezeka pa nkhaniyi, koma kawirikawiri, extroverts imayandikira ndi makhalidwe monga:
- kusagwirizana;
- chisangalalo;
- chiwonongeko;
- chisokonezo;
- kulimba mtima;
- chidaliro.
Ngati mumaganizira munthu aliyense payekha, mndandandawu ukhoza kubwereranso kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu, chikhalidwe cha kupweteka kwapadera kumawathandiza kuti azikhala otchuka m'dera lirilonse, zomwe otsogolera amatha kuziganizira.
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi zizindikiro zotsatirazi:
- bata;
- chipiriro;
- chikhulupiriro;
- chiwonongeko;
- kudzikonda.
Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti ubwenzi ndi munthu wotere ndi wamphamvu, chifukwa sungathe kumupandukira. Koma, chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chawo, anthu omwe ali pafupi amakhala nawo.
Nthawi zina, munthu mwiniwake amadzifunsa yekha momwe angamvetsetse, iye amalankhula, kapena wotsutsa. Zimakhala zovuta kuyesa khalidwe lanu m'magulu amasiku ano, koma kutsatira zonsezi, ndizotheka. Choyamba, muwerenge chiwerengero cha anzanu, omwe ndi kuchuluka kwake, osati khalidwe. Kumbukirani momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere ndipo yankho lidzabwera lokha.
Zilibe kanthu kuti ndinu anthu otani. Chinthu chachikulu sikutaya ulemu ndi ulemu, ndiyeno kumalo osungiramo zinthu zomwe mungapeze makiyi anu, komanso mabwenzi okhulupirika, ndi kampani yosangalatsa komanso zinthu zina zofunika kwambiri masiku ano.