Chifukwa chikhalidwe chabwino? Mwachiwonekere, zonsezi ndizofuna kufuna kukondweretsa. Kuyambira ubwana, timaphunzitsidwa "makhalidwe abwino," chifukwa cha zoipa, timakhala ndi chidziwitso chathu. Lingaliro la chabwino ndi choipa kwa aliyense ndi losiyana. Makhalidwe abwino kapena oipa a khalidwe, zochita, zochitika, munthu aliyense amadzipangira yekha. Choncho, sikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi thupi. Kupatulapo ndi malamulo a Baibulo, ndithudi. Sitidzayankhula za kusunga msana kapena kuseka mokweza - ndizoipa. Tidzakambirana malamulo a makhalidwe abwino pa milandu yeniyeni.
Banja
Ndi munthu wokondedwa muyenera kukhala wachikondi, woona mtima, komanso wofunikira kwambiri wazimayi. Moyo wa banja sudzayenera kuwonetsa nthawi zonse zapamtima. Choncho, mukamapanga chimbudzi cham'mmawa, mutseke chitseko cha kusamba (pokhapokha ngati mutasamba pamodzi). Chotsani chovala ndi chovala. Musaiwale kuti mumapereka chitsanzo kwa ana anu.
Chakudya cham'mawa chimakhala nthawi yomwe banja lonse likusonkhana. Musati muzisunga nthawi ngati ndinu mayi wa nyumba ndipo simukusowa kuti muchite ntchito. Aloleni mwamuna atenge ana, pamene mukukonzekera zokoma zikondamoyo kapena fritters. Kumbukirani kuti munthu wokhala ndi makhalidwe abwino pa kadzutsa amakhala ndi maonekedwe abwino. Onetsetsani kuti muzitsatira banja lanu.
Chotsani pa tebulo ndikugwiritsanso ntchito mbale nthawi yomweyo. Kuzoloŵera banja lanu ku ukhondo ndi dongosolo.
Gwiritsani ntchito mwamuna wanu kuti azigwira ntchito, "kumukakamiza" mwamtendere. Njira, pankhaniyi, aliyense ali ndi zake ...
Limbikitsani ana anu kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino. Ayenera kuona mu chitsanzo chanu ubale wathanzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Lemekezani wina ndi mzake, kuseketsa bwino, kuthandizira, kugawana maudindo - izi zonse ndizofunikira kuti chimwemwe ndi tsogolo la mwana wanu likhale lofunika kwambiri. Mlengalenga yomwe imakhala panyumba imathandiza kwambiri popanga psyche wathanzi. Ubale pakati pa okwatirana umakhudza thanzi labwino la ana. Choncho musafulumire kuchiza chimfine ndi mankhwala, muzichita bwino pa ubale ndi mwamuna wanu.
Muzilemekeza makolo anu. Anakupatsani moyo, musanyalanyaze chisamaliro chawo ndi chidwi chawo. Kusokoneza akulu ndi kopanda malire. Phunzirani kumvetsera, ngakhale simudalolera uphungu ndi khalidwe. Mukhoza kufotokoza malingaliro anu ndipo ndikofunikira, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuchita izo mu mawonekedwe olondola ndi unobtrusively.
Ntchito
Makhalidwe abwino ndi oipa adzadziwika ndi ogwira ntchito limodzi. Aliyense adzaweruza malinga ndi zomwe akumana nazo komanso maganizo ake. Kwa wina, khalidwe lanu ndi akuluakulu a boma lidzakhala loipa (mwachitsanzo, chiyanjano ndi wotsogolera), ndipo wina angakuganizireni kuti ndinu munthu wotsutsa. Kuchitira ulemu mwachidwi kungasewere nanu. Mudzapeza mbiri ya munthu wofooka, ndikuyesera kukondwera ndi akuluakulu ake.
Mukasintha malo ogwira ntchito, pamene mukubwera ku gulu latsopano, musayese kuwoneka bwinoko kuposa inu. Kuwonetsa mopitirira malire ndi kusayenerera kwa khalidwe lanu kudzawululidwa mtsogolomu. Kutaya chikhulupiriro kuchokera kwa anzako kuli kosavuta. Khalani achibadwa ndi kudzidalira nokha.
Mukhoza kuphunzira makhalidwe abwino monga luso lililonse. Tayang'anani pa mafilimu a mbiri yakale, a heroines omwe amakondwera ndi chisomo chawo. Momwe amachitira m'magulu a anthu ndi osungika komanso osamvetsetseka. Mseka wokongola ndi wowona mtima, wokongola, womvetsera komanso osasokoneza - phunzirani zachikazi ndi ulemu.