Zolinga zaumunthu zikhoza kukhala zosiyana, ndipo malingaliro awo angathe kutenga zaka, miyezi mwina mwinamwake masiku angapo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi malingaliro ake ndi zolinga zake, kotero musadzifanizire nokha ndi ena ndi ofanana ndi zikhalidwe zina zomwe zimadziwika ndi anthu.
Mu moyo, tonsefe timayesetsa kuchita chinachake, mwana m'manja mwa mayi, mayi - kusunga poto, ndipo bambo amafuna ntchito ... nthawi zambiri, tonsefe tili ndi izi kapena cholinga. Komabe, palinso anthu omwe amakhala mosamvetsetseka kuti amvetse izi, ndikwanira kuti ayang'ane moyo wawo wonse. Iwo amalephera kupita kukagula, kutsogolera zokambirana zopanda pake kwa anthu ambiri ndipo alibe zolinga zaumwini.
Kuti asakhale pakati pa chiwerengero cha anthu oterewa, lero ayambe kulembetsa mndandanda wa zolinga za munthu. Yang'anani zolinga zanu zofunikira ndipo, monga momwe mungathere, ayambe kuziyika.
Kodi zolinga za moyo ndi ziti?
Mtengo wa zolinga za moyo uli ndi nthambi zinayi izikulu:
- Zolinga za moyo wa nthawi yayitali.
- Zolinga za moyo wapakatikati.
- Zolinga za moyo wa nthawi yaitali.
- Zolinga za moyo wapadziko lonse.
Munthu akakhala ndi cholinga, amaponya mphamvu zake zonse kuti azitha kuzigwiritsa ntchito ndipo, monga lamulo, sakusamala kwambiri za njirayi, amafunitsitsa kupeza zotsatira zake. Komabe, pofuna kukwaniritsira cholinga chake, nkofunika kuti tikhale ndi khalidwe lachikhalidwe ngati cholinga , ndicho chomwe chimathandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga za munthuyo. Kotero, kuti mumvetse momwe mungakwaniritsire zolinga zanu za moyo ndi kumene mungayambire, tiyeni tione bwinobwino aliyense wa iwo:
- Zolinga zam'tsogolo zokhudzana ndi moyo zitha kukhala ndi zolingazo, zomwe sizidzatenga miyezi itatu. Zimaphatikizapo ndondomeko zathu za tsiku ndi tsiku, zinthu zomwe tikukonzekera kuchita mkati mwa sabata kapena mwezi. Mwachitsanzo: pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena mukakumana ndi anzanu. Choyamba, poyamba zidzakhala zovuta kukwaniritsa zolinga zake zazing'ono, komabe, zidzakhala zophweka ndi nthawi, ndipo mudzamva kuti ngakhale zotsatira zake, monga momwe mungakwaniritsire cholinga chanu, ndizosangalatsa.
- Zolinga zam'katikati , monga lamulo, zikuchitika kwa chaka. Ndipo ngati ziri zovuta kuti mupite ku cholinga chanu, gawanizani zomwe zikukwaniritsa muzigawo zingapo. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono, yesetsani kukhazikitsa. Chitsanzo cha zolinga zapakatikati zingakhale kuphunzira za zinenero zakunja kapena chikhumbo chochoka kudziko lina.
- Zolinga za moyo wa nthawi yaitali zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuposa zolinga zapakatikati ndi zazing'ono. Iwo akhoza kutenga kuchokera chaka chimodzi kufika khumi, kapena ngakhale khumi ndi zisanu. Chilichonse chimadalira chilakolako, umunthu ndi ndalama za munthuyo, monga akunena, yemwe ali pazinthu zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, zolinga za moyo wanu zikuphatikizapo: kulemba buku, kumanga nyumba kapena ntchito yopambana mu kampani yaikulu.
- Zolinga zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi ndondomeko ya nthawi yaitali zimatchedwa zochitika zapadziko lonse . Musati muwopsyezedwe ndi mawu oopsya akuti "dziko lonse", chifukwa ichi ndi cholinga chomwe chidzakutengerani nthawi yochuluka, koma chidzabweretsa chisangalalo chochuluka kuposa zonsezi. Kuti mukwaniritse zolinga za moyo wanu padziko lonse mudzafunikira zaka zambiri komanso njira yothetsera vutoli.
Lolani nokha kusangalala ndi zomwe mukuchita ndikusangalala ndi zomwe munachita. Zolinga za moyo wapadziko lapansi ziyenera kukhala zolinga za moyo wanu, kukhazikitsidwa kwa zomwe zidzakhala moyo wanu wonse.
Zolinga za moyo nthawi zambiri zimadziwika ndi anthu amphamvu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa chilichonse m'miyoyo yawo kuti alamulidwe. Komabe, mphamvu ndi kutsimikiza sizitsimikizira nthawi zonse kuti zolinga za moyo zidzakwaniritsidwe. Mungathe kukonzekera kupita pamwamba pa phiri, ndikukwera kumeneko kuti mumvetse kuti izi sizomwe zili pamwamba panu. Zolinga zofunikira za munthuyo zimamupatsa chidaliro ndi kutsogolera. Chimene nthawi zina chimakhala chokwanira.