Kuyanjana pakati pa anthu kumachitika nthawi zambiri kudzera kulankhulana . Munthu amapanga mawu ake opatsirana kwa ena, pogwiritsa ntchito zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Chofunika kwambiri mwa iwo ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, zenizeni za chilankhulo ndi miyambo, kulera ndi mlingo wa chitukuko ndi maphunziro a munthu.
Zizindikiro za khalidwe la kulankhula
Kulankhula sikupezeka chifukwa cha mawu okongola ndi zomangamanga. Cholinga chake chachikulu ndikuthandizira anthu kuti agwirizane. Kuchokera pa izi, zigawo zazikulu za khalidwe la kulankhula ndi:
- Nthawi zonse mawu amalankhula kwa omvera;
- kulankhula nthawizonse kuli ndi cholinga;
- chikhalidwe cha mawu chimatsimikiziridwa ndi mkhalidwe;
- Makhalidwe amodzi amatsimikiziridwa ndi malamulo, koma nthawi yomweyo amakhala ndi khalidwe laumwini.
Makhalidwe Akulankhulana
Khalidwe lakulankhula liyenera kumabweretsa zotsatira zomveka. Kulankhulana kosamangika kungachititse munthu kuti asakwaniritse zomwe akufuna. Khalidwe lakulankhula limatanthawuza kuzindikira momwe zinthu zilili ndi kufufuza malangizo kuti akhudzidwe nawo kuti athe kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo .
Njira zowonongeka zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri pakulengeza ndi malonda. Iwo amatsatira malamulo a logic ndi psychology a mphamvu.
Mitundu ya khalidwe la kulankhula
Mitundu ya chilankhulo cha chilankhulo imatsimikiziridwa ndi msinkhu wa kukula kwaumunthu, zochitika za maganizo ndi psyche. Malingana ndi
- ogwira ntchito - ali olondola m'mawu, monga zifaniziro, zimakhala zovuta kuchitapo kanthu pa kusintha kwa chikhalidwe;
- oganiza ngati akuwonetsa, amatha kuganiza mozama, koma nthawi zina amachotsedwa pa mutu waukulu wa zokambiranazo;
- olemba ndakatulo - amalankhula momasuka m'zinenero zosiyanasiyana, amatha kunena nkhani zokongola, koma n'zovuta kuti amange malipoti ndi malipoti;
- atsogoleri - nthawi zonse azikhala omvera awo m'masomphenya, amatha kuwonetsa bwino ndikutsimikizira kuti ali ndi ufulu.
Ngakhale makhalidwe abwino a malemba ali ndi malamulo omveka bwino, mtundu uliwonse wa awa udzawagwiritsa ntchito mwawo womwewo, poganizira zolinga zawo ndi makhalidwe awo.