Osati kokha mu bizinesi, komanso m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, nkofunika kuti aliyense akhale ndi luso loyankhulana ndi ena. Kupambana kumaphatikizapo, choyamba, iwo omwe ali ndi kukhoza kuwatsimikizira anthu ndi luso luso. Pali zizindikiro zambiri zothandizana, ndipo chotero kupeza chinsinsi chomwe chimagwirizana payekha ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali. Kodi mungamulimbikitse bwanji munthu? Choyamba, werengani zotsatirazi.
Momwe mungaphunzire kuwatsogolera anthu - utsogoleri
Pali chidziwitso chotsatira cha oyankhulana:
- Osayanjanitsa, phlegmatic.
- Wokwiya.
- Osakayikira.
- Kudzidalira.
Zoona, mitundu imeneyo ndi yosaŵerengeka, koma onse ndi magawo azinayi awa. Kulondola kukangana, kupanga malingaliro kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungaphunzitsire anthu molondola, mutatha kuyang'ana wothandizana naye, khalidwe lake , ndi zina. Tiyeni tiwone mwatsatanetsatane mitundu iliyonse yapamwambayi.
- Anthu opanda chidwi sangawonetsetse maganizo omveka bwino pa mutu womwe akukambirana. Kuchokera pazimenezi ndiye kuti simusowa kuti mukhale wolimbika ndi cholinga chokopa munthu woteroyo. Chinthu chachikulu mwa izi ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake alibe chidwi. Kotero, kapena kuchokera pa chimene alibe chodandaula nacho. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kumusangalatsa kuti avomereze. Pangani mkhalidwe woterewu kuti wogwirizanitsa aganizire kuti mutu womwe mukukambirana udzikhudzire yekha komanso kuti zomwe mumapereka zimapindulitsa kwambiri. Pachifukwa chachiwiri, ziyenera kutsimikiziridwa kuti, chifukwa cha kuvomereza pempholi, zidzangokhala pamalo opambana. Mukuyenera kumanga umboni wabwino kwambiri, kuchepetsa mavuto ndi kupititsa patsogolo zowonjezera. Khalani omveka ndi osagwirizana muzitsutso zanu.
- Otsutsa amamvetsa chilankhulo cha nkhondo basi. Kumbukirani za zofooka zanu. Chida chachikulu pa zokambirana ndizovuta zomwe zimateteza mphamvu zake. Khalani linga losalephereka, lomwe silikukhudzanso kukhudzika kwakukulu kwa munthu woteroyo. Kuwongolera ndi kophweka pokhapokha ngati simukusonyeza kusatsimikizika kwanu.
- Poyambirira, kumangokhalira kuvomereza zonse zomwe mumapereka, koma pakapita kanthawi ndikukana mwatsatanetsatane, kumalongosola kuti "si kwa ine", "Sindingathe kuyendetsa." Musayesere kutsimikizira kuti munthuyu angathe kuchita zambiri. Ndi zopanda phindu. Kusamvetsetsa pa mbali yake
imawonetseredwa pamene mwatopa zonse zotsutsana ndi mikangano. Mukangozindikira kuti wolumikizana akubwera kwa inu ndi manja, funsani funso lakuti "Kodi ali wa mtundu umenewu?". Adzipereka yekha pamene umamupangitsa kulankhula. Kuti mumuthandize, khalani osayenerera kwa kanthawi. Mufunseni kuti akuthandizeni. Chifukwa cha zokambirana, adzikhulupirira yekha. - Mtundu wodzidalira . Psychology imapereka malangizo otsatirawa, kumathandiza kumvetsa momwe angamulimbikitsire munthu woteroyo. Onetsani mnzanu yemwe mumamukayikira, mu mphamvu yake. Kuponderezedwa ndi munthu woteroyo-kumudziwitsa kuti mwa iye wina wakayikira. Chifukwa chake, amalephera kuthetsa vutoli.