Mwinamwake, aliyense, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo, akuzindikira kuti akanakhala bwinoko. Pamene zimakhala zovuta kwaife ndi ife, zikutanthauza kuti tikukamba za khalidwe lovuta. Zomwe zilibe, palibe anthu ophweka, chifukwa aliyense wa ife ndi wapadera, kutanthauza kuti ndi kovuta kumvetsetsa wina kuchokera ku "belltower" yathu. Koma ife timakhalabebe pa nthawi yomwe ndizovuta kumvetsa nokha.
Ngati makhalidwe ena amtundu wanu amalepheretsa anthu, pangani anzanu atsopano, ntchito, kuphunzira, mapeto, kukhala ndi moyo wonse, mumadzitcha munthu wokhala ndi chikhalidwe chovuta. Zili ngati cholepheretsa moyo wabwino.
Mukadzipindula ndi mawu awa, muli ndi zisankho ziwiri:
- poyankhulana ndi anthu kumatsimikizira mawu akuti "Ndili ndi khalidwe lovuta";
- Pezani mphamvu mwa inu nokha ndikusintha zomwe zimalepheretsa moyo.
Popeza njira yoyamba ndi yophweka kumvetsa komanso yambiri, tidzakambirana ndime yachiwiri.
Mmene mungagwirire ndi chikhalidwe chovuta?
Ndikofunika kuonetsa kuti mtsikana wokhala ndi khalidwe lovuta, ziribe kanthu momwe angakhalire wokongola komanso wanzeru, adzakumana ndi zovuta zambiri pamoyo wake.
Tikufuna kuyamba ndi kuzindikira. Dzivomerezeni nokha kuti pali zina (mndandandawo) zomwe zimasokoneza moyo wanu ndi omwe akuzungulira. Musamenyane ndi inu nokha, koma dziwani kuti ndinu ndani.
Ndiye muyenera kuyamba diary. M'menemo mudzalemba zochitika zonse zoipa zimene munaziwona masana. Kotero inu mudzakhala osamala kwambiri ndipo patapita nthawi, mudzatha kuletsa kuphulika kwa kuphulika uku, kumverera kuti "tsopano izo ziyamba." Khalani ndi chithandizo cha okondedwa anu. Afunseni kuti asakunyozeni, tcheru khutu lanu pazomwe zikuchitika, panthawi yomwe izi zikuchitika.
Yambani ndi zabwino. Yesetsani kulankhula ndi anthu abwino omwe alibe khalidwe lovuta. Ndipotu, khalidwe lathu limapatsirana ndipo mumatha kulankhulana, phunzirani kuchita mosiyana.