Zoonadi, aliyense amayenera kulankhulana ndi mwamuna yemwe akuwombera mkangano. Ngati wina wothandizana nawo angathe kukhala chete, ndiye kuti kuthetsa vutoli n'kotheka, mwinamwake kusagwirizana pakati pa anthu sikungapeweke. Koma kodi maziko a khalidweli - kusasangalatsidwa ndi munthu kapena interlocutor kapena pali china chake?
Mtsutso
Kulepheretsa kuthetsa maganizo awo komanso kuyankhulana, aliyense akhoza, ndipo zifukwazi zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri - chifukwa cha chisokonezo m'banja komanso kudwala. Koma izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika zosawerengeka, koma ngati mikangano imakhala yoyenera kwa munthu, ndiye chifukwa chake chimakhala chozama komanso chimakhala mwa munthu amene akuyesera kuchepetsa zokambirana. Chifukwa chake, pokhala ndi interlocutor wotere, muyenera kukumbukira kuti iye samakwiya ndi inu, akukwiyitsa dziko lonse lapansi, ndipo mwangotembenuka. Nthawi zambiri, chifukwa cha khalidwe losalekerera ndikumenyana kwapakati pa munthu, ndiko kuti, munthu, motsogoleredwa ndi magulu awiri ofanana, sangachite kusankha motsatira njira imodzi. Mwachitsanzo, munthu akufuna kupanga banja, koma safuna kutenga udindo kwa wokondedwa. Pachikhalidwe ichi, ubale wa nthawi yaitali sungamangidwe, ndipo ubale wa tsiku limodzi sungathe kukwaniritsa zosowa. Zotsatira zake ndi mikangano yosagwirizana ndi anthu, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu azikhumudwa kwambiri komanso asokonezeke.
Chinthu china chakumenyana kwa mkati mwa munthu ndi gawo losafunika. Chitsanzo chingakhale wophunzira wanthawi zonse yemwe wakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi banja. Pa mbali imodzi, zofunikira zake zimapangidwa, ngati yunivesite yophunzira, ndi zina - ziyenera kukwaniritsa udindo wa woyang'anira nyumbayo. Zili zovuta kugwirizanitsa mfundo izi, nthawi zambiri mumayenera kupereka zina, komanso ngati zofanana za moyo wa banja ndi maphunziro a nthawi zonse, kusagwirizana kwa umunthu kumapezeka - msungwana sangasankhe pakati pa udindo wa mkazi ndi wophunzira. Aliyense ankakumana ndi kutsutsana kotero, wina anatha kuthetsa iwo okha, wina anathandizidwa ndi akatswiri, ndipo wina akadali ndi mphamvu. Choncho, pokhala ndi munthu wotsutsana, munthu ayenera kuganizira kwambiri za maganizo ake ndi kulola "kusiya mpweya", ndiye kukambirana kungapambane. Ngati mkangano wochuluka ndi vuto lanu, ndiye nthawi yoti muthetsepo, popeza khalidwe ili ndilo cholepheretsa inu kusiyana ndi oyankhulana anu.