Anthu omwe amakonda kuphunzitsa ena kukhala ndi moyo, amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi ufulu wochita izi, chifukwa ali ndi zolemera pamoyo wawo m'mapewa awo, amatha kupereka zitsanzo za zosiyana ndi makhalidwe abwino. Koma kodi malangizo amenewa angakhale othandiza?
Nchifukwa chiyani tikusowa zochitika pamoyo?
Pafunso limodzi, yankho la funso ili liri pamwamba, moyo wathu umakhala wofunikira kuti tikhale ndi mwayi wopeza chidziwitso, luso ndi luso. Musakumbukire chomwe chimachitika kwa ife, ndiko kuti, ngati sitidzakhala ndi chidziwitso ichi, nthawi zonse tifunikira kuphunzira kuyendanso mwatsopano, kugwira supuni, ndi zina zotero. Zochitika pamoyo zimatithandiza kuti tipeze chidziwitso chatsopano, komanso kuti tikumbukire zolakwika zathu kuti tisasowe kubwereza. Kupanda chidziwitso nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa mantha a anthu, nthawi zambiri, mantha olephera. Ngati munthu ali ndi chidziwitso chochita ntchito iliyonse, ngakhale kuti ndi yosafunika, ntchito zambiri zingathetsedwe mofulumira ndi zosavuta kusiyana ndi anthu omwe alibe luso la ntchito yotereyi.
Motero, zochitika pamoyo ndi njira zamphamvu zomwe zimatithandiza kuti tithe kugwirizana ndi zowona.
Kodi moyo umakhala wabwino nthawi zonse?
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri moyo wanu ukhoza kukhala wothandiza, ungakhale wopanda ntchito nthawi zonse, ndipo ngati uli ndi funso la munthu wina, nthawi zambiri sitingathe kuzizindikira. Pali zitsanzo zambiri pamene mayi, wotsogoleredwa ndi moyo wake wolemera, amaphunzitsa mwana wake zoyenera kuchita ndi zomwe sali. Kodi mwanayu amachita chiyani? Nthawi zambiri nthawi zonse zimatsutsana ndi mawu a amayi, nthawi zina amatsutsana, koma nthawi zambiri chifukwa zomwe ena, ngakhale akuluakulu, sizikuwoneka nthawi zonse, tonsefe tiyenera kuyesa tokha.
Pokhala okhwima, timatha kumvetsera maganizo a ena, koma kumvetsera malangizo a anthu ena, ndiko kuti, kutenga zida zokhudzana ndi moyo wa wina aliyense zingathe kokha ngati tikufuna.
Ndizochitikira pamoyo wathu, sizili zophweka kaya-tikuzifuna, koma nthawi zina timadzipeza tokha. Kukhala mu moyo wofananamo, zikuwoneka kuti ife tidzakhala kuti zonse zidzachitika, chifukwa inali nthawi yotsiriza, choncho timachita moyenera. Vuto apa ndilokuti mikhalidwe yofanana siilipo, ndikuyang'ana dziko kudzera mu ndende zapitazo, timataya mwayi wakuwona njira zina. Chomwecho chidziwitso ndi chinthu chabwino, koma simukuyenera kuiwala za moyo uno.