Chikhalidwe

Kuti mumvetsetse, m'pofunika kulankhula momveka bwino.

Demosthenes

Pali zifukwa zitatu zofunika kuti munthu aphunzire kulankhula molondola.

1. Anthu amakuweruzani ndi zomwe mumanena, ndipo ngati mungathe kuchita bwino, mukhoza kuwatsogolera kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake okamba amapanga chizoloŵezi cholankhula mawu aliwonse molondola, ndi kuyankhula mosamala ndi ulemu ndi maziko a chikhalidwe cha kulankhula.
2. Ngati simukudziwa kulankhula, omvera anu sangakumvetsereni. Nthawi zina zolakwitsa ndi zolephera kuyika maganizo awo zimayambitsa zotsatira zovulaza.
3. Kulankhula sikungolankhula bwino, koma kungakhalenso kosavuta komanso kokongola kufotokozera malingaliro anu. Chikhalidwe cha kulankhulana kwachinsinsi ndizovuta; Kukula kwa gawo limodzi lakutanthawuzira kutanthauza kuti ungwiro wa winayo.

Chikhalidwe chimalimbikitsa anthu ammudzi kukhalabe ndi kukambirana ndi kulankhulana, kuthetsa mavuto omwe akukumana nawo, kusintha malingaliro ndi kulimbikitsa miyoyo ya wina ndi mzake. Ndicho chifukwa chake kukhazikitsa umunthu wolemera sikungatheke popanda kupanga chikhalidwe cha kulankhula.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi luso loyankhula?

Choyamba, werengani mabuku pazokambirana. Iwo tsopano ali ochuluka kwambiri, chifukwa cha kukoma konse ndi nthawi ya nthawi yaulere. Pakuwerenga mukuchita luso lomwe mwapeza, yesetsani kuyambitsa kukambirana kokondweretsa pa mutu womwewo mwa anthu osiyanasiyana.

Musamachite manyazi ngati mupemphedwa kulankhula; musati mukhale ngati vuto lapadera, koma ngati chifukwa china chochita.

Mungagwiritse ntchito mapepala obwereza, ganizirani zovuta zachiyankhulidwe. Pamapeto pake, lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu za chinachake chomwe simukuyembekezera, zomwe sizikukhudzani inu kapena moyo wanu, koma zosangalatsa zonse. Njira yabwino yowonjezera malingaliro ndi kukumbukira masiku oyambirira omwe mwalumikizana nawo kuti mukhale ndi mapepala osangalatsa.

Dziwani zambiri za chinenero chanu. Tsopano mabuku ambiri abwino a zilankhulo, olembedwa mwatsatanetsatane. Mungathe kutenga nawo mbali masewera achilendo, kupatula, iyi ndi nthawi yachilendo yosonkhana ndi anzanu-olemekezeka ndi njira yowesera dzanja lanu pazosazolowereka, ndipo mwinamwake kuti mudziwe bwino.

Chinthu chofunikira kumvetsetsa ndi chakuti chikhalidwe cha munthu chilankhulidwe chake sikuti chimakhala chiphunzitso chokwiyitsa sukulu. Uwu ndiwo mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chaufulu mwaulere, kuwonjezera kudzidalira, ndi zina zambiri - mwayi wophunzira mosavuta zilankhulo zakunja. Kotero, uwu ndi "khomo" la dziko losangalatsa ndi latsopano!