Kuda nkhawa ndi kulanda - momwe mungakhalire ndi blackmailer?

Munthu aliyense ali ndi malo ofooka, ndipo "pedal control" yoteroyo ikuyang'ana wopambana. Kusokonezeka ndi mantha enieni, omwe lamulo limapereka chilango chenicheni. Koma, ngakhale ndi chitetezo chonse cha nzika mwalamulo, aliyense akhoza kuchitidwa nkhanza, chifukwa mu webusaiti yonse ya padziko lapansi, blackmailers ndi hackers ali luso kwambiri.

Chidale - ndi chiyani?

Kusakanikirana ndi chigawenga chomwe chikugwirizana ndi kuopseza kufotokozera mfundo zowonongeka (mfundo, zithunzi, kanema, ma audio) pofuna kupanga ndalama kapena kupeza zofunikila, kuvomereza. Kusasitala ndi njira yabwino yowonetsera anthu, ndipo aliyense wa ife akhoza kuchitidwa manyazi

Psychology of blackmail

Kuti mukhale wokonzekera kukakumana ndi zolaula, ndikudziwa zoyenera kuchita ndi chithunzithunzi, muyenera kumvetsetsa maganizo oyamba a zochitikazi. Mphamvu pa wogwidwa! Izi ndizo zotsatira zowonongeka, motero kuopsezedwa ndi vuto lalikulu ndikuthamanga, zomwe zimakulolani kuyendetsa wokondedwayo pa ngodya ndi kudzigonjetsa nokha, kukukakamizani kuti muchite malamulo anu. Pachifukwachi, a blackmailers samaima, amapeza zomwe akufuna, ndipo amapitirizabe kupondereza munthu, kufunafuna kukwaniritsa zokhumba zawo ndi kudzipindulitsa yekha ndi ndalama zake.

Kusokonezeka maganizo

Imodzi mwa mitundu ya kusokonezeka kwapakhomo ndi vampirism ya mphamvu ndi kukhumudwa kwamtima, zomwe zimabweretsera chinthu chimodzi chokha - kupeza zomwe mukufuna ndi njira iliyonse. M'mabanja ambiri pali achibale awo. Kuchokera m'kamwa mwawo kuwuluka kuwopseza, kunyoza, kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi. Ndipo chifukwa cha "kukhumbitsa" kotero pafupifupi aliyense amapereka, osakayikira kuti iwowo amadzikweza okha ku udindo wa nkhanza.

Pali mitundu itatu ya ozunza maganizo:

1. "Wachibwibwi" akufuna kuwonetsera kosadziwika. Amachita mwankhanza, pokwaniritsa cholinga chake, ali wolimbika, osati kumupweteka mwayi wokana. Kuchita mwankhanza zoopseza: "Yesetsani kuchita izo ..." kapena "Ndikuchenjezani nthawi yotsiriza ...", atsogolere womenyedwayo kukhala mkhalidwe wa kuponderezana ndi kupsinjika maganizo.
2. "Wozunzika" . Mtundu uwu wa blackmailers ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi woyamba. Kufooka kwachinyengo, kupsinjika, kupsinjika maganizo kumatsogolera achibale omwe alibe chidwi kuti ayende nawo. Kawirikawiri, kulankhula kosalekeza kumathera ndi mawu okhudza matenda aakulu kapena chikhumbo chakufa, kudzipha kudzikonzekera kapena mawu akuti "palibe amene amandikonda, samvetsa, sindikusamala za aliyense" kuti akwaniritse zofunikira za mphamvu ya vampire .
3. "Wolakwa wopanda mlandu" . Anthu oterewa ndi osokoneza maganizo omwe amatha kulimbikitsa anthu omwe amachitira nawo chilakolako chodziimba mlandu kapena udindo wawo kwa iwo. "Olakwa" amadziyendetsa okha mu ukapolo wotere ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense akuchita zabwino, ndikupempha kuti azimvetse.

Kugonana kwachiwerewere

Mu ubale pakati pa anthu, kugonana kwachinsinsi kumatha kuchitika, koma kugawidwa mu mitundu yosiyanasiyana:

1. Kusokonezeka mu chibwenzi . Iye ali wokwiya, iye sali kwambiri. Chifukwa cha kuwonetsera kwa zizindikiro, posakhalitsa chiwonongeko chidzayamba: "osati ndi inu, kotero ndi wina." Muzochitika izi, ubalewo umatha kulephera, chifukwa nthawi zonse kuyanjana ndi chibwenzi kumangotengera kukhumudwa ndi kunyansidwa.
2. Kulimbikitsidwa kugonana pogonana . Izi ndizochitika kawirikawiri pa maubwenzi ambiri, pogwiritsa ntchito chibwenzi kapena pa maphwando. Monga lamulo a blackmailers muzochitikazi ndi amuna, akufunsira kwa abwenzi apamtima, ndipo achiwiriwo angagwirizane popanda kukhumba kwakukulu chifukwa cha mantha a kusowa mkwati wolonjezedwa. Komabe, musaiwale kuti anthu ambiri amatha kusewera basi, motero ndikuwona kuti mayiyo amakonda kwambiri kupeza.
3. Kulimbikitsidwa kuti ukhale wapafupi kapena kupatsa mtundu wina wa utumiki, kapena ngati malipiro obisa kubisala . Uwu ndiwo mtundu woipa kwambiri wokhudzana ndi kugonana wokhudzana ndi chiwawa.

Zizindikiro zosasamala

Chida chofunika kwambiri cha blackmailer ndizofotokozedwa, zothandizidwa ndi umboni. Izi zikhoza kukhala chithunzi choyera, kunyalanyaza zojambula zojambula kapena vidiyo. Mu ubale waumwini, munthu wotchedwa blackmailer akhoza kusewera pakumverera kwa iye, mwachitsanzo, kuopseza ndi kudzipha, kusokoneza maubwenzi , kuvutika kwa makhalidwe. Kawirikawiri wogwidwayo samadziwa kuti amadalira munthu wodalirika. Dziwani kuti izi ndizotheka pazinthu zotsatirazi:

• kufunafuna chifukwa chochitira zochita pa blackmailer;
• kuchita zinthu zokondweretsa wina;
• kutsatila mosaganizira;
• kuchitapo kanthu kochitidwa motsutsana ndi chifuniro chake, kuthetsa kuzunzika kwa wokondedwa;

• kusowa chifuniro ndi kugonjera kwathunthu.

Bwanji ngati mukukhala wakuda?

Kuphatikizidwa ndi kulanda, kwenikweni, ndizophwanya malamulo omwe ali ndi chifukwa chimodzi - chofunikira cha dipo. Tifunika kudziŵika mwamsanga kuti anthu ambiri ochita zachiwawa kapena nyumba "magulu achigawenga" samaima, atapeza zomwe akufuna, ndikupitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo pa ozunzidwa kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo . Choncho, muyenera kudziwa zoyenera kuchita ndi chithunzithunzi ndi momwe mungakhalire ndi wozunza.

Mmene mungakhalire ndi blackmailer?

1. Musawope konse. Mukuyenera kudzikweza nokha ndikuganiza mofatsa.
2. Musaganizire zomwe wakupha akukuuzani, chifukwa cholinga chake chachikulu ndichokuopseza ndi kutenga chilichonse chimene chili pansi pake. Khalani mwamtendere, chifukwa cha khalidwe ili lochokera kwa inu ndithu sayembekezera khalidwe lotere.
3. Musayese kukambirana ndi wofunkha ndipo musamupatse zomwe akufunayo. Muzochitika izi, ndi bwino kutenga nthawi kuti azimayi apamtundu amvetsetse nkhaniyi.
4. Ngati mukudetsedwa ndi chidziwitso, ndi bwino kuuza achibale anu za "machimo" anu kwa achibale anu. Kotero inu mudzapereka chidziwitso momwe icho chiriri, popanda kujambula ndi kusalankhula inu simudzakhala ndi kanthu.

Kodi kuchotsa blackmailer?

Kuwongolera kwakukulu kusamenyana ndikumanyalanyaza kwathunthu blackmailer. Ngati simunayambe kuopseza, ndiye kuti chiwombankhanga chidzatha, chifukwa cholinga cha blackmailer sichidzasokoneza, koma kupindula. Tiyeneranso kukumbukiridwa kuti chitetezo chabwino kwambiri ndi kuukira, ndiko kuti, kubweretsa milandu, ndi chilango chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kumaphatikizapo ndondomeko yeniyeni yowonongeka m'ndondomeko zingapo, malingana ndi kuopsa kwake. Taganizirani udindo wotsutsana ndi chitsanzo cha malamulo a Russian Federation:

• Art. 163 a Criminal Code - kulanda, kufikira zaka 15 m'ndende ndi zabwino kwa ruble 250,000;
• Art. 138 ya Code Criminal - kuphwanya chinsinsi cha malembo ndi kulangidwa ndi zabwino za ruble 80,000;
• Art. 137 a Criminal Code - kuphwanya ufulu. Chilango cha zaka 2 m'ndende ndi zabwino za makasitomala 250,000.

Kodi mungatsimikizire bwanji kuti ndinu wotani?

Chinyengo ndi kusokoneza maganizo ndizo ziganizo ziwiri zomwe zimayendera limodzi ndi chigawenga, ndipo umboni umene uli nawo umakhala ndi zovuta zambiri. Momwe, pambuyo pa zonse, kutsimikizira zoona za blackmail:

1. Yesani kupanga zojambulajambula za makalata kapena kujambula kukambirana ndi blackmailer.
2. Pamene wovutayo akulengeza zofuna zake, yesetsani kuchepetsa kusamutsidwa kwa ndalama kapena zomwe zimafunidwa. Ndipo mulimonsemo musamangopitirira zachinyengo popanda chitetezo pazofukufuku, mwinamwake mfundo ya blackmail idzakhala yosatheka.
3. Chotsatira, muyenera kulankhulana ndi malamulo ndi ndondomeko yowonjezereka ndikupereka umboni wonse wa zowonongeka ndi zochitika zina zowononga.
4. Pambuyo pa kuyambika kwa milandu yamalamulo, zitsatirani zofunikira zonse za apolisi. N'zotheka kuti izi zidzafika ku zithunzithunzi zamagetsi (wiretapping, covert shotbill) ndi tagged bili.
5. Mukamalankhula ndi blackmailer, chitani mwachibadwa kuti "nsomba zisasiye chigamulo cha chilungamo", poyikira kuti chinachake chalakwika.
6. Mukamaliza kufufuza ndikupeza umboni wofunikira, mutha kukhala wotsimikiza kuti wobwezera adzalandira chigamulo chenicheni cholemba.

Mafilimu okhudza masewera

Chimodzi mwa mitundu yapamwamba kwambiri mu filimuyi ndi mafilimu ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kulanda:

1. "Onyenga okondeka . " Zochitika za mndandandawu zakhudzana ndi atsikana anayi, omwe chaka chimodzi pambuyo pa imfa ya mnzawo wamba, Alison akuyamba kufotokoza zosadziwika. Mu manja a blackmailer pali zinsinsi zawo zambiri ndi zinsinsi, ngakhale zomwe zimadziwika kwa wakufa basi.
2. "Mdani wa boma . " Pamene mwadzidzidzi muli mwini wa umboni woonekera kwa mkulu wa maudindo, sizikuwonekeratu kuti ndi ndani yemwe ali woyenera kumenyana ndi vutoli, chifukwa kusaka kwenikweni kumayamba pa iwe.
3. "Kukongola ndi Chirombo . " Kodi mwakonzeka kupulumutsa moyo wa abambo anu kundende? Gawo lalikulu lomwe lidzasintha kotheratu tsogolo la Belle wokongola.