Makhalidwe a umunthu

Makhalidwe a munthu payekha amadziwongolera moyo wathu ndikuwatsogolera kwambiri kuposa dziko loyandikana nalo, chifukwa tikuwonekeratu kale kupyolera mu ndende yathuyi. Ngakhale kuti okayikira amanena kuti anthu onse ali ofanana, akhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti pali kusiyana kwakukulu. Makhalidwe a umunthu mwazochitika zawo zonse zovuta zomwe ndizovuta kwambiri kubwereza. Tiyeni tione zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kusiyana kotere, ndipo ndi makhalidwe otani omwe amakhudza kwambiri moyo wathu.

Maziko a maganizo omwe amadziwa makhalidwe osiyanasiyana a munthu

Makhalidwe aumunthu angayimiridwe mwa mawonekedwe angapo, omwe ali pakati pa malo omwewo.

1. Bwalo lamkati ndilo mtundu wa chikhalidwe chokhazikitsidwa ndi chibadwidwe. Ili ndilo liwiro ndi mphamvu zokhudzana ndi maganizo, zomwe zimatsimikiziridwa ndi machitidwe a manjenje.
2. Ndiye pali zizindikiro za malingaliro, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri zomwe zilibe chikhalidwe, komanso kulera. Kuyambira ali mwana, zikhalidwe za malingaliro athu, zomverera, kulingalira, malingaliro, zamaganizo ndi zochitika zapakati, zimakula malinga ndi zomwe timachita, zomwe makolo amatiphunzitsa.
3. Chidziwitso cha munthu aliyense pa chidziwitso, maluso ndi luso lomwe ali nalo la munthu payekha.
4. Kuwongolera kumaphatikizapo makhalidwe omwe amawongolera ndi kuwongolera khalidwe laumunthu: malingaliro ake ofunika, makhalidwe abwino, maganizo a anthu, zofuna, zikhulupiliro, malingaliro ndi malingaliro onse.

Ndiko kulunjika kwa munthu yemwe mphamvu yaikulu imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu, tonsefe timakhudzidwa ndi zomwe timalandira kuchokera kunja. Choncho, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofanana ndi ena, koma maziko adakalibe.

Makhalidwe abwino komanso oipa

Ndipo kodi mukudziwa kuti ntchito yabwino ya akatswiri a maganizo amagwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso chimodzi chothandiza munthu aliyense? Iwo kwenikweni alibe malingaliro ambiri omwe amavomerezedwa abwino ndi oyipa. Amapewa kuunika kwapadera ndikuyesa kuona momwe mwambo kapena khalidwe la khalidwe limakhudza munthu wina. Pambuyo pake, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti anthu amaonedwa kuti ndi achipongwe komanso amwano, amanena kuti akuyenera kuchotsa makhalidwe amenewa, ndipo ndi chifukwa chake iwo amapindula mu ntchito yake.

N'zachidziwikiratu kuti umunthu wokha ndi umene umatsimikizira makhalidwe ake abwino komanso oipa. Ngati chinachake chikumuletsa kuti asakhale ndi moyo komanso akwaniritse zolinga zake, mukhoza kuchitapo kanthu. Koma musamakhumudwitse ngati, mwa malingaliro a mnzanu, muli ovuta kwambiri.

Koma makhalidwe ena oipa a munthuyo ndi amodzi. Izi ndi mawonetseredwe osavomerezeka ndi anthu omwe amaika moyo ndi thanzi la munthu aliyense ndi iwo omwe ali pafupi naye. Mofananamo, munthu akhoza kusiyanitsa zomwe zimalemekezedwa nthawi zonse.

Makhalidwe apamalonda

Palinso zinthu zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukweza makwerero. Ndi makhalidwe otani omwe ayenera kukhala ndi umunthu wopambana? Zimadalira pazinthu za ntchito zamaluso.

Pofotokoza za ntchito iliyonse pali mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti munthu apirire. Izi zimaphatikizapo zikhalidwe zina za thupi ndi zochitika zaumwini. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wankhondo wabwino amafunika kukhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso umunthu wamphamvu, monga kuuma kwa khalidwe, kupirira, chidaliro, ndi zina zotero. Mtsogoleri wa kampani yaikulu adzafuna makhalidwe apamwamba aumwini, omwe angakuthandizeni kukonzekera ntchito yoyenera ndikutsogolera anthu ambiri.