Kusagwirizana - ndi chiyani?

Kusagwirizana m'nthaŵi zathu ndi khalidwe lofunika kwambiri ndi lofunikira, chifukwa kuthekera mwamsanga kupeza chinenero chofanana ndi anthu ndi kukhazikitsa osonkhana n'kofunikira zonse pamoyo wa munthu ndi ntchito. Mu ntchito zogwirira ntchito, nthawi zambiri zimatheka kukwaniritsa zofunikira ngatizo kwa wofufuza, makamaka ngati kampani ikuyang'ana wogulitsa malonda, kapitala wa anthu, wogwirizanitsa ubale, ndi ena.

Khalidwe - Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani?

Kwa iwo amene akufuna kudziwa zomwe zimatanthauza kulankhulana, ndibwino kukumbukira za anthu omwe alidi m'moyo wa aliyense wa ife. Anzanu a achinyamata kapena ogwira nawo ntchito omwe angapeze mau abwino kwa aliyense ndikugwirizana nawo mafunde a mwana wamng'ono komanso munthu wamkulu wachikulire. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi nthano kapena njinga kupita kumalo, amatha kuwongolera ulusi wa zokambirana kuti awathandize ngati akumva kuti kusagwirizana ndikumwa. Munthu wolankhulirana ndi wotsegulira dziko lapansi, ali wokoma mtima komanso wokondweretsa poyankhulana.

1. Kulankhulana kungatchedwe kukhala wothandizana kapena kukhudzana, ngati ndikulankhulana mwamwayi. "Moyo wa kampani" - kotero iwo amanena za anthu oterowo.
2. Muzokambirana za bizinesi mawu oti "kuyankhulana" amagwiritsidwa ntchito, omwe amathandiza munthu kupeza zosamvana ndikukambirana ndi anthu abwino.
3. Mmaulankhulidwe, ichi ndi khalidwe losasinthika, chifukwa popanda kupambana pa ntchitoyi sikutheka.
4. Owonetsa TV ndi wailesi, osangalatsa, DJs ndi ena ndi anthu olankhulana omwe angathe kulanda ndi kuwunikira anthu.
5. Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amapereka mipata yabwino kwa anthu ocheza nawo, makamaka ngati ali ndi mphamvu zowonetsera.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wosangalala?

Tiyenera kunena mwamsanga kuti si munthu aliyense amene ali ndi njala yolankhulana angatchedwe kulankhulana. Kodi mwana wolemala angatengere kukhala wosangalala? Wosokoneza, akungoyang'ana chifukwa chokhalitsa? Ena amalankhula momveka bwino moti samakulolani kuyika mawu. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito mopanda phindu kuti iwowo sakudziwa momwe amadyetsera nthawi yawo ya interlocutor. Zimakhalanso kuti munthu wa lacoc ndi wodzikonda amadziwonetsera yekha pa nthawi ina pamene akuganiza kuti alowa "m'munda" wake, ndipo mutu wa zokambirana ndi wokondweretsa komanso wodziwa bwino. Ndizotheka ndi kofunika kuti mumange luso lanu loyankhulana, choyamba, muyenera kuyesetsa kukhala omasuka pazowona za anthu ena.

Kusonyeza chidwi mwa anthu, kuyesa kumvetsetsa zilakolako zawo, malingaliro awo ndi mantha , m'pofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ali ndi ufulu wofotokozera maganizo awo momasuka ndikukhala okonzeka kuzindikira maganizo awo. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muwonjezeko, muwerenge zambiri ndikudzipangira nokha. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi chidaliro, chifukwa munthu amene amadziwa zambiri m'mabuku ambiri sadzaopa kuyankhulana, adzatha kuyankha mafunso ngati kuli kofunikira, kupempha kanthu kapena kufotokoza. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungakonzere luso lanu loyankhulana, yesetsani kupeza chisangalalo kulankhulana. Fotokozani chidwi pa mutu womwe mukukambirana, osati kuyankhula, koma mvetserani.

Ndikosavomerezeka kugonjera, chifukwa mungathe kukhumudwitsa mnzanuyo, komanso kumayambitsa mkangano ndi iye, kuteteza maganizo ake, komanso kupewa maganizo a mdani. Mthandizi weniweni adzasangalatsa: izo nthawi zonse zidzakuthandizani kuthetsa vutoli ndikukonzekera nokha. Perekani ana anu chitsanzo chabwino cha ubwino ndi kutseguka, ndipo adzatsata mapazi anu, kukhala anthu olankhulana.