Momwe mungakhalire wochuluka?

Tsiku lililonse timamva pamagulu ofala kuti wina sangawone ndi fi, ndipo wina ali ndi taluso yochuluka. Kumvetsetsa funso - kodi kutanthauza chiyani, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ichi ndi khalidwe lachibadwa limene limapatsidwa moyo wonse. Wit ndi mphamvu ya munthu kufotokoza malingaliro ake mwanjira yosazolowereka, yomwe ili chizindikiro cha gawo laling'ono la anthu.

Ndi anthu amatsenga nthawi zonse zimakhala zokondweretsa kulankhulana, mwamsanga zimakhala moyo wa kampani, zikuwoneka kukopa anthu ozungulira. Choncho, achinyamata nthawi zambiri amadzifunsa momwe angaphunzire kuti amachokera ku gulu la abwenzi, koma zopangidwe za talente imeneyi ziyenera kukhala ndi ma genetic. Kukulitsa talente ya "chinenero chakuthwa" kumathandiza nthawi zonse kulankhulana ndi anthu anzeru omwe adzatha kudziwitsa zambiri.

Momwe mungakhalire wochuluka?

Kuwerenga kwanu kudzakuthandizani kuti muwonetsere mukulankhula kwanu, pamene mukuwerenga kwambiri mabuku ndi mawu okondwa "amphamvu", makamaka "mawu anu ochepa" akuwonjezera. Sankhani mabuku otchuka omwe amalembedwa pamasewerowa, werengani zolemba za anthu otchuka - Faina Ranevskaya, katswiri wafilosofi wa Omar Khayam wa zaka za zana la 11, ndi zina zotero.

Pambuyo powerenga mawu a mapiko ndikuwerenga nthabwala zamatsenga, phunzirani kuzigwiritsa ntchito panthawi yokambirana. Kuikidwa mosayenerera, ngakhale nthabwala zoopsa kwambiri komanso zanzeru, mwachiwonekere sizikuwonjezera kwa inu mfundo zozindikiritsa anthu, koma m'malo mosiyana - zidzachepetsa chiwerengero cha abwenzi. Kumvetsetsa chimodzi mwa zolankhula zanu mosayembekezereka, kuti athetse mawuwo motere kuti anapitirizabe nkhaniyo, koma anasintha tanthauzo lake. Mwachitsanzo, mawu akuti Mark Twain: "Kusiya kusuta n'kosavuta. Ndinaponya maulendo makumi asanu. " Izi ndizakuti, mapeto a mawuwo amangopitiliza kuganiza, komanso amapanga tanthawuzo kawiri.

Chilengedwe ndi malingaliro m'zinenero zikuwonetseredwa bwino mwachidule m'mawu "ochititsa chidwi". Palibe amene angakhale ndi chidwi chomvetsera kuyankhula kwautali, kosasangalatsa, koma mndandanda wa masewero ophatikizidwa nawo udzakhala chiwonetsero cha wit.