Ndondomeko yamakhalidwe osatha ndi chinachake monga makonzedwe omwe sali owoneka, koma kukuthandizani kuyenda nthawi ya chisankho kapena chisankho. Makhalidwe - izi ndi zomwe zimatsimikizira njira yathu ya moyo , zolinga zathu ndi zothandizira ife nthawi zovuta.
Kuchokera
Kodi zinthu za uzimu zomwe munthu amatchula ndizo "zosatha"?
Pali zifukwa zambiri zamphamvu zokhuza. Msingaliro:
- M'mbuyomu munayamba chikhalidwe ndi malo.
- Chikhalidwe cha anthu omwe munthu uyu anabadwira.
- Maganizo ndi malingaliro ofunika a makolo, komanso achibale omwe ali ndi mwana wakula.
- Zofuna zaumwini ndi chikhalidwe cha munthuyo.
Koma, ngakhale kuti zinthu zonsezi zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri, pali miyezo yambiri ya banja yomwe mabanja ambiri okondwa amazindikira.
Miyezo ya banja losatha
- Udindo pakupanga zisankho.
- Mwayi woyankhula momasuka ndikukambirana zomwe zimakondweretsa aliyense m'banja.
- Mwayi wokhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi banja, komanso ufulu wa mamembala ake onse kukhala ndi zofuna zawo, kudalira thandizo la ena.
- Lemekezani malo anu enieni.
- Kulenga banja si cholinga, koma chiyambi chabe cha ulendo wautali.
- Chikhumbo chosonyeza chikondi chanu kwa wina ndi mzake tsiku ndi tsiku, ngakhale muzinthu zazing'ono.
Palinso malamulo amtundu wamuyaya omwe amapezeka kwa onse. Mwachitsanzo:
- khalani owona mtima mu zolinga zanu;
- khalani munthu yemwe mungadalire;
- khala wolimba mtima;
- khalani oleza mtima ndi omvetsa;
- khalani okonzeka kuyankha chifukwa cha zochita zanu ndi mawu anu.
Zina mwa "chiyero chamuyaya" zikutanthauza ntchito. Pano pali mndandanda wabwino kwambiri, umene akatswiri ambiri azafilosofi ndi aphunzitsi amachitcha kuti:
- yesetsani kupanga ntchito bwino;
- kukhala ndi ntchito yawo, nthawizonse kuyang'ana njira zowonjezera;
- khalani osokoneza ndi kuganizira za tsogolo;
- kuti tiyandikire china chirichonse;
- onyada ndi kupambana kwawo;
- taganizirani za maphunziro ndi maphunziro apamwamba monga chofunikira koposa;
- kuti azigwira ntchito ngati anthu;
- kuthandiza othandizana nawo ndi ophunzitsidwa, aziwasamalira, podziwa okha.
Kumanga moyo
Ndipo, potsiriza, "zachikhalidwe zosatha" zomwe zimakhudzana ndi moyo wamba:
- kukonda dziko;
- kulekerera ndi kufunitsitsa kuvomereza munthu wina, mosasamala mtundu wawo, mtundu, chipembedzo, kugonana;
- khalani omasuka, yang'anani nthawi zonse dziko;
- Tsatirani malamulo ndikulemekeza omwe adawalenga;
- Kusamalira omwe ali ofooka ndikuwusowa;
- Chitani kwa ena monga momwe mukufuna kuti iwo akuchitireni;
- Kukula mwauzimu ndi nzeru pa moyo wanu wonse.
Momwe mungadziwire kuti zikhalidwe za "moyo wosatha" ndizofunikira kwa inu? Lembani mfundo khumi zofunika kwambiri zomwe mumakhulupirira komanso zomwe zimakhudza moyo wanu. Ndi yani mwa iwo omwe amakhudza zosankha zanu? Kodi mukuiwala chiyani tsiku ndi tsiku?
Lembani, ngakhale mawu awa akuwoneka owoneka kapena ophweka kwa inu. Mndandandawu sayenera kukondweretsa aliyense; Akuitanidwa kuti akuthandizeni ndikulolani kuti muyanjanenso ndi maziko ozama a moyo wanu. Ndipo mukhoza kulemba mndandanda mu bukhu ndikuuwerenga zaka khumi.