Kulankhulana bwino

Kulankhulana sikudzatha konse. Anthu nthawi zonse amakondwera kuchita ndi omwe samangokhalira kukongola ndi kukongola kwa mkati, komanso amatha kupereka maganizo awo molankhulidwe. Kuonjezera apo, kulankhula momveka bwino sikuli ngati mphatso ya chirengedwe. Ikhoza ndipo iyenera kukonzedwa.

Kulankhulidwa ndi mawu olembedwa ndi olembedwa

Chilankhulo chirichonse chili ndi chuma chapadera chomwe chili chodziwika kwa iye ndi kuchimwa kuti asapindule nazo. Izi ndizo makamaka makamaka m'chinenero chomwe chimachokera kwa munthu. Mukamamva chilankhulo chovomerezeka, kapena ngati muli ndi ndondomeko yoyenera pamaso panu, popanda kulakwitsa kalikonse, nthawi yomweyo mumapanga chidwi cha wolemba, interlocutor.

Khalani ndi chikhalidwe cha mawu olembedwa ndi olankhula - ntchito ya aliyense. Ndipo zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku mukulankhulana, maphunziro. Sizomwe akunena kuti ndi munthu wanzeru si zabwino kulankhula, koma kungokhala chete.

Mfundo Zophunzitsa Kuwerenga

Ngati tifotokoza mwatsatanetsatane za lingaliro limeneli, tiyenera kudziŵa kuti mawu oti "chikhalidwe" amatanthauza:

Apo ayi, umphaŵi sungathe kuthetseratu munthu wothandizana nawo, koma ukhozanso kukhumudwitsa. Komanso, podzilola kukhala ndi malirime, ngakhale kunyumba, palibe amene akutsimikizira kuti kulankhula mokwanira kudzaonekera modzidzimutsa pamsonkhano wa bizinesi, pokambirana ndi mutu, ndi zina zotero. Izi zidzawonjezeretsanso kuti ana ang'ono omwe akuzungulira anthu oterowo adzabwereza mawu omwe amachititsa tizilombo toyambitsa matenda.

Kusadziwa luso la kulankhula

Ngati palibe, ndiye kuti zolakwika zowonjezereka zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mawu osiyanasiyana a parasitic omwe amatha kungosintha zomwe zinanenedwa (mwachidule, monga, etc.). Zina mwaziganizidwe monga "zowonjezera", slang mawu (kusinthika, devaysy, wogwiritsa ntchito, ngati sikunena za kuyankhulana m'bwalo lina), kugwiritsa ntchito mau ndi mawu olakwika sikungowika "wokamba nkhani" mopanda pake, komanso kuchepetsa pamaso pa interlocutor, zolakwika za dongosolo la orthoepic (drushlag, risetka), zolembedwa mwachidule (comp, laptop).

Zolakwitsa zonsezi zimadula kumva ndipo sizikhala ndi mfundo zenizeni zenizeni zokhudza wokamba nkhani, sizimapanga fano la munthu wodalirika.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi malankhulidwe abwino?

Kulankhulana kwa kuŵerenga kumayenera kusintha tsiku ndi tsiku, kukhala wangwiro. Ndipotu, ngakhale munthu ataphunzira mwaluso, amawerengedwa bwino, ali ndi dziko lapansi lakuya, koma, tsoka, sangathe kufotokozera momveka bwino, ndiye amadziwa zomwe akunena.

Choncho, kukonzekera kulankhulana bwino kumafuna kukhazikitsidwa kwa malamulo angapo osavuta:

  1. Kuŵerenga mabuku pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana, kuyambira mpira wa mpira ndikumaliza ndi mafashoni atsopano. Werengani ayenera kukhala wodekha, akudziwa mawu onse.
  2. Tsiku lililonse, ndibwino kuti muzitsatira. Musananene chilichonse, muyenera kuganizira mozama. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuchotsa mau-zizindikiro.
  3. Kulankhulana kumathandizanso kwambiri. Choncho, panthawi yomwe mukukambirana, m'pofunikira kuti muime panthawi inayake, kuti mupatse mtundu waung'ono.
  4. Miyambo, aphorisms satha kungolankhula zokha, komanso kukongoletsa.
  5. Kuyankhulana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, kuyankhulana kosiyanasiyana kungapangitse kulankhula kwa mlingo woyenera.