Njira yokambirana

Tsiku lililonse padziko lapansi pali mikangano yosiyana, nthawi zina zotsatira zake zingakhale zogwira mtima kwa mmodzi wa maphwando, ndipo nthawi zina njira yochokera ku mgwirizano wophatikizana ndi magulu omenyana angathe kuchitika mwabwino kwa onse awiri. Kotero njira imodzi yothetsera kusamvana, ndi kutenga gawo lachitatu, lomwe sililowerera, lomwe likufuna kuthetsa mkangano, ndiyo njira yokambirana.

Zolondola, kuyanjanitsa ndi imodzi mwa njira zawo zothetsera kusamvana kwa nkhondo. Wachitatu ndiye mkhalapakati omwe maphwando amapanga mgwirizano wapadera pa vutoli. Maphwando amachititsa njira yothetsera njira yothetsera vutoli.

Mfundo zogwirizana ndi izi:

1. Chinsinsi.
2. Kulemekezana.
3. Kudzipereka.
4. Kuwonetsetsa komanso kuwongolera njirayi.
5. Kufanana kwa maphwando.
6. Kusalowerera ndale kwa mkhalapakati.

Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti lingaliro la kusamvana linayambira kale. M'mbuyomu, zochitika zofananako pakati pa anthu a ku Babulo ndi a Foinike zimadziwika.

Monga njira yamakono yothetsera kusamvana, kuyanjanitsa kwakhala kulikulira kuyambira theka lachiwiri la zaka za zana la 20, ku Australia, United States, ndi United Kingdom.

Mitundu ndi njira zothandizira:

1. Kusintha. Ophunzira angathe kudziimira okhaokha kuti adziwe njira yothetsera mgwirizano. Wachitatu, mkhalapakati amawatsatira. Zachidule za mtundu uwu ndi kumva ndi kumva. Chifukwa chake, ophunzira ayenera kumvetsetsa zofuna za wina ndi mzake, yesetsani kumvetsa.
2. Kubwezera. Makhalidwe apangidwa kuti akambirane, cholinga chachikulu chimene chikubwezeretsa mgwirizano pakati pa magulu omenyana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ntchito yaikulu ya mkhalapakati ndiyo kukhazikitsa zofunikira kwa maphwando ndi zokambirana zawo
3. Kusamvana kuthetsa mavuto. Kuganizira zofuna za maphwando, osati pamalo awo. Mkhalapakati poyamba akusonyeza kuti maphwando amasonyeza malo awo, ndiye amawathandiza kupeza ndi kuzindikira zofunikila.
4. Kusamalira. Mkhalapakati ndi maphwando otsutsana akupitirizabe kuthandizana wina ndi mzake pa zokambirana.
5. Cholinga cha banja. Mitunduyi imayenderana ndi kayendetsedwe ka mikangano ya m'banja, chikhalidwe ndi mikangano pakati pa mibadwo yosiyanasiyana.

Taganizirani magawo a mgwirizanowu omwe amapanga ndondomeko yokha.

1. Kudalira ndi kukonza (kuchokera pa sitejiyi kumayika maziko a chiyanjano cha maphwando, omwe adzawonedwe panthawi ya mgwirizano).
2. Kusanthula mfundo ndikudziwitsa mavuto omwe alipo (gawo ili likuwunika kufotokoza mfundo zomwe zili zofunikira pozindikira mavuto, njirayi imachokera kumapeto kwa siteji yoyamba).
3. Fufuzani njira zothetsera mavuto (kufotokozera mwachidule mavuto onse, tanthauzo la njira zazikulu ndi kufufuza njira zomwe zingabisike pazofunikira ndi mavuto a mbali zonse ziwiri).
4. Kupanga zisankho (ntchito yayikulu pamsasa uno ndi ntchito yogwirizana ya ophunzira pakupanga chisankho, yomwe idzakhala yawo mulingo woyenera).
5. Kukonzekera kwa chikalata chomaliza (mgwirizano, ndondomeko kapena zolembazo zimapangidwa momwe ziganizo zomwe magulu otsutsanawo abwera zimatsimikiziridwa momveka bwino).

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti njira yothetsera mgwirizano imathandiza kuthetsa mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano wina popanda kukhazikitsidwa kwa mkangano watsopano pakati pa maphwando, ndiko kuti, potsutsana ndi maphwando wina ndi mnzake. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti kuvomerezana kumathandizira ulamuliro wa chipani chilichonse chotsutsana ndipo nthawi zina chimakhala choloweza mmalo mwawongolera.