Kukula msinkhu uliwonse kumakhala kovuta kupulumuka, ndipo nthawi zambiri vutoli limabweretsa mavuto. Pali nsonga zingapo zamaganizo zomwe zimakhudza momwe mungaiwale mwamsanga munthu atagawana ndikuyamba gawo latsopano la moyo. Vuto la amayi ambiri ndilovuta kuti iwo aike mfundo zomveka, kuyembekezera kubwerera kwa wokondedwa.
Kodi mungaiwale bwanji wokondedwa wanu mutatha kupatukana?
Kulakwitsa kwakukulu kukumbukira momwe zinalili bwino ndi munthu wakale, momwe munagwiritsira ntchito nthawi pamodzi, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunika kuika maganizo anu pambali ndi kuyang'ana pazochitika kunja. Ganizirani pa nthawi yovuta, powonjezerani kuti kupatukana ndi chisankho choyenera.
Kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi cha momwe angaiwale konse wokondedwa wanu, ndi bwino kupereka uphungu umodzi wowonjezera - perekani maganizo. Akazi amachita izo mosiyana, kotero munthu amangoyamba kulira kwa bwenzi lake lapamtima, pamene ena amakonda kuponya miyendo kapena kufuula. Njira ina - lembani kalata yomwe kale munali chilembo, pamene mumanena zonse zomwe ziri mu malingaliro anu, ndiyeno muzitenthe.
Mufulumira ndikuiwala wokondedwa wanu nthawi zonse:
- Malangizo ofunikira kwambiri omwe akatswiri a maganizo amapereka ndi chikondi nokha. Kumbukirani kuti iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yopezera ulemu ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa ena.
- Chotsani danga la zinthu zomwe zili ndi mgwirizanowu ndi ubale wakale.
- Lolani chidziwitso chosintha, kotero pezani chinachake choti muchite. Zitha kukhala ntchito, zokondweretsa, kuyenda, kukonza, ndi zina zotero.
- Kupeza momwe mungaiwale mwamsanga munthu sangathe kunyalanyaza sitepe yofunika kwambiri - kusintha. Lowani pa salon yokongola kumene mungasinthe tsitsi lanu, phunzirani kupanga chokonzekera choyenera, ndi zina zotero. Pitani kukagula kuti musinthe zovala zanu. Onetsetsani kuti mugula zinthu zomwe mwalota kale.
- Musakhale payekha ndikuyesera kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yocheza ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kusokoneza ndi kumvetsetsa kuti dziko silinena za munthu mmodzi.
- Ambiri amatsatira mfundo - "ngongole imachoka", koma kwenikweni njira iyi imagwira ntchito kawirikawiri komanso ngati maganizo a wokondedwayo sakhala. Ndikofunika kuti mudzipatse nthawi kuti muchoke kumbuyo ndi kukonzekera sitepe yatsopano.
Posakhalitsa nthawi idzafika pamene kuli kofunika kufotokoza maubwenzi ena apitalo ndi kuyang'ana mkhalidwe womwe uli modzichepetsa. Ndikofunika kulingalira kuti musadzalakwitsenso kachiwiri.