Ndi kangati komwe mungamve kuchokera kwa akazi: "Ndimadana ndi mwamuna wanga"! Ndipo mawu awa akhoza kubisa zambiri - ndi masewero, ndi zokondweretsa, ndi chikondi, ndi udani, ndi tchimo, ndi chiwombolo.
Chitetezo - m'njira yoyenera
Malangizo opanda nzeru pa zomwe mungachite ngati mumadana ndi mwamuna wanu, mwachionekere ayi. Zifukwa za chidani zikhoza kukhala zambiri - zizoloŵezi, kununkhiza, kusagwedezeka, zosasamala, zochita. Kuphatikizana ndi maubwenzi okha, nkhani zakuthupi, komanso, achibale. Choyamba, yankhani funso lakuti: "Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikudana ndi mwamuna wanga?" Kwa ine ndekha. Kenaka-khalani chete, ngakhale kuti ndi kovuta, ndikuchitapo kanthu, koma mwanzeru ndi mosamala. Ndikofunika kufufuza zochitika zonse kuti musankhe momwe mungapitirire.
Mwamuna ndi mwana wamkulu
Kwa mbali zambiri, amuna ndi ana aakulu basi. Pamene, kudana ndi mwamuna wanu, mukuganiza zoyenera kuchita, kumbukirani zomwe maubwenzi osagwirizana ali ana ali ndi zaka 5-7. Pano pa mlingo uwu amuna amalankhulana miyoyo yawo yonse. Ndi ochepa chabe omwe amakula mpaka zaka 14 mpaka 15. Ndipo akazi akhoza kukula moyo wawo wonse. Ndipo, pokhala ndi mwana, amakulira spasmodically - amangoyang'ana pa chirichonse ndi maso osiyana. Kotero, inu simunamwetulire poyankha kumwetulira - musadane mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha ichi, chifukwa wamkulu wa mwana nthawizonse amaposa. Poyankha chikondi chanu, okhulupirika akukweza dzanja lake - kumbukirani kuti ana amakhala ndi nkhanza zopanda chilungamo kuposa anthu akuluakulu.
Chidani chiyenera kukuthandizani
Onetsetsani ngati pali zomwe zimamukhudza maganizo anu. Nthawi zina, kuyamba kudana ndi mwamuna wanu, simumamupweteka, koma m'malo mwake, pangani zinthu, kuti "mukhale bwino" kuti amve bwino. Pa nthawi yomweyo, kudana ndi mwamuna wanu, simukupeza chilichonse kupatula nokha kuvulaza. Komanso, mwamunayo akhoza kudana mwadala mwadani mwa inu - izi zimapangitsanso zifukwa zomveka bwino kwa iye. Mfundo yaikulu: Ngati mumadana ndi mwamuna wanu, zimakhala zabwino - ndiye muyenera kudziletsa nokha popanda kusokonezeka maganizo ndi maganizo anu. Kumene mungapeze chipiriro? Ndipo simusowa kuti mutenge malo alionse - ingoyang'anirani ntchito zina - mulole gawo ili la chilengedwe lanu lisasokoneze dziko lonse lapansi kuchokera kwa inu.
Ngati mwatsutsa
Ngati chidani chanu chimachitika chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwa mwamuna wanu - izi ndizo zowononga kwambiri. Kunyenga kwa izi ndikuti, kudana ndi mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha chiwembu, mumakulitsa kudzidalira kwake, zomwe sizikuwonekera bwino. Ponyalanyaza chinyengo, mumadziŵa tanthauzo lonse la chochitikachi, kuphatikizapo mwamuna. Ndipo kwa munthu wanzeru, udani supindula. Kaya mutha kusudzulana kapena kuganiza momwe mungasiyire kudana ndi mwamuna wanu, kukhala ndi maganizo oyenera komanso oyenera, mulimonsemo, kudzakuthandizani kwambiri.
Kulimbana ndi mphamvu
Nthawi zina chidani chimayambitsidwa ndi chikhumbo cholamulira banja. Bwanji ngati mumadana ndi mwamuna wanu chifukwa chokonda malo omwe mumawakonda pa kompyuta, ndikusamba maola awiri, kapena mumanyalanyaza, mosasamala zamatsutsano anu? Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti munazindikira kumverera kwa chidani ndi chifukwa chomwe chinayambitsa. Tsopano muli ndi zidziwitso - zochitika izi ziyenera kunyalanyazidwa, kusinthidwa kuchokera ku ntchito ina, fufuzani m'malo.
Mutasudzulana
Si chinsinsi kuti ngakhale pambuyo pa chisudzulo, anthu ambiri amadana ndi mwamuna wawo wakale. Chifukwa chake chikhonza kukhala chakuti maganizo anu sanathenso. Choncho, m'pofunika kuchita, ndipo palibe chifukwa chodandaula, kukhumudwa, kusalumbira komanso kusakhala wamanjenje. Ndiwe mfulu - ichi ndicho chinthu chachikulu. Tsopano sambani nokha pa zosangalatsa zomwe mungakwanitse - sanatoria, masewera olimbitsa thupi, zipinda zamakono, ma libraries, museums, malo owonetserako, mabuku omwe mumawakonda, maluwa kapena zojambulajambula (kapena mwinamwake maulendo?) - chirichonse chikukuitanani, kuyembekezera chidwi chanu,
Chikondi chidali ndi moyo
Mkazi akamanena kuti amakonda ndi kudana ndi mwamuna wake, izi zimasonyeza kuti maubwenzi akukumana ndi mavuto okhaokha. Ndipotu chikondi chimatha kuchita chirichonse. Mwa njira, zimatsimikiziridwa kuti chikondi ndi zokhazikika zamagetsi, kapangidwe kake kachitidwe koyambitsa mankhwala. Ndipo chemistry, ndiko kuti, chinthu, chingakhudzidwe kwambiri - choyika cha mankhwala ogwiritsidwa ntchito. Limbikitsani zakudya zanu ndi mavitamini, makamaka gulu B, kudya zakudya zomanga thupi kwambiri, osati shuga, koma pitirirani uchi, chokoleti, musati mutha kusokoneza khofi - zimatonthoza. Pewani kuvutika maganizo, ngati mutakopeka nawo, yonjezerani kudzidalira kwanu - ndipo zonse zidzasintha. Bwino!