Kodi anthu onse amasintha?

Kodi anthu onse amasintha? Mosakayikira mkazi aliyense adadzifunsa yekha funso ili, mosasamala kanthu kuti wakhala akukumana ndi kusakhulupirika kapena ayi. Ndipotu, kawirikawiri amayi amakhala pafupi kukambilana za abambo ndi momwe amachitira zosokoneza atsikana ena omwe miyendo yawo yayitali, mawere ndi akuluakulu komanso owonjezera mndandanda. Ndipotu, amuna amakonda maso, ndipo maso awo amathamanga kwambiri. Koma kodi zilidi choncho? Kodi anthu onse amasintha, monga amakhulupirira kale? Kapena kodi sichoncho? Tiyeni tione izi mwatsatanetsatane.

Kodi amuna onse amasintha akazi?

Inde, kulankhula momveka bwino, munthu aliyense akhoza kuchita chiwembu . Koma "akhoza kuchita" ndi "kudzipereka" izi ndizinthu zosiyana kwambiri. Kwenikweni, si zachilendo kuti malingaliro ena amanyazi angayambe mumutu mwanu, omwe mumakhala nawo manyazi. Koma malingaliro ndi chinthu chimodzi, nthawizina iwo amatha ngakhale kupanda kanthu. Koma zochitazo nthawi zonse zimazindikira. Choncho, ndibwino kumvetsetsa kuti ngakhale kuti munthu aliyense angathe kusintha, sikuti anthu onse amasintha akazi awo.

Kawirikawiri, kuyankhula ngati amuna onse amasintha akazi, ndi bwino kuyang'ana pa ziwerengerozo. Ndipo, pakati pazinthu zina, chiŵerengero cha chigololo ndi chakuti amayi ali otheka kwambiri "kupita kumanzere" kusiyana ndi oimira chilakolako chogonana.

Momwemo, pokhala ndi munthu kwa nthawi yambiri, mbali imodzi mumayidziwa ndikuyamba kumvetsa zomwe zingathe, ndi zomwe - mosatsimikizika ayi. Inde, nthawi zina anthu amafuna kupereka zosayembekezereka komanso zosangalatsa nthawi zonse. Koma komabe, nthawi zambiri munthu amachita zochitika mu umunthu wake, umunthu wake. Kusankha wokondedwa mu moyo, ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti anthu ena sasintha, ndipo okondedwa a atsikana akhoza kukhalabe mpaka atakalamba.

Momwemo, zonse Kodi anthu amasintha, amamvetsa, koma chifukwa chiyani amachita izo? Chifukwa chachikulu ndicho kudzikweza. Chisokonezo ndi chidziwitso cha chizolowezi cha moyo wa banja chingathe kupha onse chikondi ndi chilakolako. Ubale ndi ntchito yaikulu ndipo ngati mukufuna kuwasunga, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kutero. Musalole kuti phokoso liloŵe m'moyo wanu. Izi zimagwira ntchito usiku wa banja losatha, ndi usiku usiku. Kawirikawiri amuna amapita ku chiwonongeko, pamene mwamuna amasiya kugonana nawo. Choncho, nkofunika kugwira ntchito pa maubwenzi ngati ali ofunikira komanso ofunikira. Pankhaniyi, ndipo palibe kusintha komwe sikudzakhala, chifukwa mwamunayo sangakhale ndi chifukwa chilichonse, kapena kuti akufuna "kupita kumanzere."