Atsikana ambiri samadziwa momwe angalankhulire molondola ndi abambo omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, choncho amaopa kukanidwa. Pankhaniyi, njira zamaganizo zokopa anthu zidzakhala zothandiza. Malangizo omwe alipo alipo aperekedwa ndi akatswiri, atatha zaka zofufuza za khalidwe la amuna.
Njira zamaganizo, momwe mungagwirizane ndi mwamuna
Cholinga cha amayi ndi kukopa chidwi cha munthu amene amamukonda, kotero kuti iye mwiniyo akufuna kuchigonjetsa. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti oimira ogonana kwambiri ndi osaka omwe sawakonda pamene ozunzidwawo amapita kwa iwo.
Njira zamaganizo zokhuza munthu:
- Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti anthu amatsutsa kuyamikira ndi kukondweretsa ngakhale kuposa akazi. Ndibwino kuti tiwone zonse zomwe adazichita. Ndikofunika kwambiri kutamanda munthu ndi akunja, koma chofunika kwambiri, chitani zosavuta.
- Imodzi mwa njira zowonongeka zowonongeka ndi kuwonetseredwa kofooka. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti munthu ali wokonzeka kutsogozedwa ndi "ofooka", choncho kwa akazi njira iyi ikugwirizana ndi momwe zingathere. Yesetsani kuyandikira munthu kuti athandizidwe, ngakhale muzinthu zing'onozing'ono, ndipo izi zidzakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chomuyang'anira ndi kumusamalira.
- Malinga ndi njira zokhudzana ndi maganizo, kuyankhulana ndi munthu kumakhala kosavuta komanso kosavuta. Kwa anthu ogonana kwambiri, nkofunika kuti woyimilira naye ayang'ane molunjika pamaso, pokhapokha atha kunyenga.
- Mukhoza kuchita ndi nsanje , koma chitani izi mosamala, kuti musadwale. Ndikofunika kumusunga mwamunthu kuti adziwe kuti akhoza kutaya mkazi wake. Mu mkhalidwe umenewu, munthu amayesera kuti adziwonetseke ndi omenyana naye, kukondweretsa wokondedwa wake.
- Pakukambirana, m'pofunikira kusintha kwa wokondedwayo, kubwereza manja ake ndi nkhope yake. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti mwanjira imeneyi munthu akhoza kuika munthu payekha.