Pakalipano, pamene odzipereka m'midzi yosiyanasiyana amapanga kayendetsedwe kapadera kwa kuwerengera ndi kulephera kwa amuna omwe ali ndi abambo, monga mutu wa amayi omwe amadziwika kuti pedophilia sakhala wotchuka. Kawirikawiri, pedophilia ndi mtundu wa kupotoka kwa chiwerewere , komwe kumakhala kokopa kwa ana, ndipo sizosadabwitsa kuti zingakhale zachilendo kwa amuna ndi akazi.
Pedophilia ndi matenda
Pedophilia (kapena infantosexualism, paederosis) ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo lokhudzana ndi zolakwa za kugonana. M'magulu osiyanasiyana a matenda, matendawa amachitidwa ngati matenda a chiwerewere. M'malo mokopeka kwambiri ndi anthu a msinkhu wake, abambo achichepere amakopeka ndi anyamata kapena atsikana (ndipo nthawi zina onse) ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi kapena 13 (ziwerengerozi zimasiyana). Pankhani ya female pedophilia, kawirikawiri amatanthauza kuti akukumana ndi msinkhu waunyamata wa zaka 13-17.
Zimakhulupirira kuti kupotoka kotereku kumakhala kwa anthu angapo. Kuonjezera apo, osati munthu aliyense wobwera pakhomo ndi wokwatira kapena wonyenga. Pedophilia mwa amayi akhoza kudziwonetsera okha ngati kugonana kapena malingaliro pa kugonana kwa maliseche komanso osapitirira malire awa. Komanso, pedophilia ikhoza kutsanulira ndi kungolankhula ndi ana kapena kulankhula nawo pa intaneti. Pedophilia mwa amayi nthawi zambiri sagwirizana kwambiri ndi pedophilia mwa amuna - mwinamwake izi ndi chifukwa chakuti amuna safuna kuchepetsa zofuna zawo zowawa.
Kuchiza kwa pedophilia
Chithandizo ndi kupewa pedophilia pakalipano sichikhala ndi mbiri yolondola. Kukonza njira zoterezi ndizovuta kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, kusintha kumachitika pokhapokha ngati munthuyo akufunitsitsa kuti achiritsidwe. Nthaŵi zambiri, zowonongeka ndi zokayikitsa.
Zifukwa za pedophilia
Pedophilia si nthawi zonse matenda osiyana. Nthawi zina, ndi chimodzi mwa machitidwe a schizophrenia, maganizo, chikhalidwe kapena maphunziro opotoka. Kawirikawiri pamaganizo awa aumaganizo amalankhula za matenda a chilengedwe, chifukwa abambo ambiri amadziwa bwino kuti zochita zawo sizochilendo, zowonongeka ndipo zingachititse mwanayo kusokonezeka maganizo.
Chifukwa china chotheka chikhoza kukhala chidziwitso cha kudzidzidzimutsa - ndiko kuti, ngakhale kuti mayiyo ali kale wamkulu, akudzigwirizanitsa ndi ana ndipo amawopa amuna akuluakulu. Nthawi zina pedophilia imayamba kuchokera ku banal sitingathe kuyanjana ndi akuluakulu. Motero, pedophilia ikhoza kuwonetseredwa ngati kuwonetsetsa kwa maganizo, kuchedwa kwa chitukuko cha kugonana.
Vuto la amayi pedophilia
Akazi a pedophilia amakhala opanda chifukwa chimodzi chokha: pamene mkazi amayamba kukomana ndi mnyamata, zonse zimakhala mwaufulu. Ndicho chifukwa chake anyamata oterewa saganiziridwa kuti ndi ozunzidwa, ndipo zaka zawo zakhala zikudziwika kale. Ichi ndi kusiyana kwakukulu mu psychology ya pedophilia, mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Mmene mungagwirire ndi pedophilia?
Monga lamulo, ngati ayamba kukamba za kumenyana ndi chiwembu, tikukamba za amuna okwatira. Ngati mkazi atha kukomana ndi mnyamata, sangathe kuchita izi popanda chilakolako chake, zomwe zikutanthawuza kuti n'zovuta kuona zomwe zikuchitika pa mlanduwu. Ndipo mnyamatayo, mwachiwonekere, samavomereza, koma amangodzitama ndi anzake akusukulu.
Kuonjezera apo, ngati mwamuna wamwamuna, mwamuna akuopsezedwa ndi kuchitidwa, ndiye momwe angagwirire ndi amayi? Ngati iye mwini savomereza kuvomereza kwa maganizo, palibe amene angadziwe kuti ali ndi vuto lopanda nzeru. Ndipo ngati kumenyana ndi amuna apamtima amakhala ndi vector, ndiye chochita ndi amayi omwe amachititsa kuti mwanayo asadziwike.