Aliyense wokhala mu nyumba yamanyumba yambiri amayenera kugogoda kamodzi pansi kapena batri, akuyitana oyandikana nawo dongosolo. Koma momwe mungabwezere chiwombankhanga cha oyandikana nawo kuchokera kumwamba, musamenyane chimodzimodzi padenga? Njira iyi siili yothandiza kwambiri, ndipo sivuta kufika padenga. Kotero ndi bwino kuyang'ana njira zina zobwezera chilungamo.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji kubwezeretsa anthu oyandikana nawo kuchokera pamwamba?
Mwachibadwa, mikangano yonse yomwe ikukambitsirana imathetsedwa bwino ndi njira zamtendere, koma izi sizigwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Anthu ena samangolankhulana, ena - amalonjeza kuti adzakhala ochepa, koma nthawi zonse amatsutsana ndi mawu operekedwa. Ndiye momwe mungabwezere choipa kwa oyandikana nawo kuchokera kumwamba chifukwa cha phokoso?
- Ngati simungathe kuthetsa vutoli mwamtendere, ndipo oyandikana nawo sakugwirizana ndi ndemanga zanu zambiri, ndikupitirizabe kusokoneza usiku, aitaneni apolisi. Mwina kuyendera kwa mkulu wa malamulo sikuwoneka ngati chisankho choyambirira, koma zotsatira zake ndi zofunika kwambiri.
- Njira yina yopindulira kubwezera ndikupangitsa anansi anu kumverera mofanana ndi inu. Nthawi zambiri, kujambula kwa zida zogwirira ntchito kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu izi, koma ndiye kuti uyenera kuchoka m'nyumbayo. Palinso njira ina yopangira phokoso popanda kudzidetsa nokha. Tengani supu yaikulu (8 malita) ndikutsanulira madzi mmenemo, ndikusiya masentimenti a masentimita m'mphepete mwake. Ikani pa bwalo lamilandu lapamwamba kuti malire azingidwe molimba. Kuti muchite izi, mukhoza kuika mabuku kapena magazini ovuta pansi pa mphika. Valani poto lalikulu la headphones ndi kuyimba nyimbo, simukumva, koma oyandikana nawo "amasangalala" ndi mabasi.
- Kuti athetse anthu ophwanya malamulo kuti azibwezeretsa anthu oyandikana nawo kuchokera kumtunda, sangathe kuwathandiza, koma amachititsa kuti azikhala osangalala.
Lembani zingano zing'onozing'ono ndi timagulu tambirimbiri ndi kuzikongoletsera ndi chingwe chokhala moyandikana nawo. Kuti mukhale ndi zotsatira zabwino, muthe kutsanulira ammonia pansi pa khomo, zimamveketsa zodabwitsa. - Ngati ndi nkhani ya maholide okhazikika, okonzeka kunja kwa ora, njira yabwino ndikutseka kuwala. Izi zikhoza kuchitika mwakumangirira mpaka kutsogolo ndi kuchepetsa chiwindi cha makina.
Zoonadi, njira zonsezi, kubwezera phokoso la oyandikana nawo kuchokera kumwamba, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito kokha ngati muli nalo. Sikoyenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti mukhale ndi chikhumbo chachibadwa chokonzekera kunyumba kapena kukondwerera Chaka Chatsopano.