Kutsekedwa kumawoneka ngati khalidwe loipa la khalidwe, zomwe zimayambitsa zovuta zambiri kwa mwini wake. Munthu wotsekedwa ndi wovuta kulankhulana, akudziwitsani atsopano, amawopa anthu osadziŵa, amamasintha kwambiri ku gulu latsopano, ndipo amavutika kuti atsegule moyo wake kwa ena. Ndipo zonsezi sizingakhalepo ndi chikondi cha kukhala ndekha: nthawi zina anthu oterewa amafunitsitsa kulankhulana ndi ena, koma ndizovuta zokha.
Zifukwa za kudzipatula
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amaonedwa ngati vuto la ubwana. Ndiyetu, monga lamulo, anyamata amayamba kusonkhana komanso kumasulidwa, pamene ena - amanyazi komanso amachotsedwa. Komabe, mwanayo amakula, ndipo mavuto amakula ndi iye, ndipo nthawi zambiri kusungulumwa ndi kudzipatula kumayendera limodzi.
Kawirikawiri, ana amakhala otsekedwa mwa iwo okha chifukwa cha mikangano yomwe makolo amakumana nawo nthawi zonse. Ndipo ngati mwanayo atakopeka ndi zida zoterozo, mavutowa akhoza kukhala ovuta kwambiri. Mwanayo akhoza kuyesa kukhala wosawoneka, wobisika, kuti akumane ndi mavuto mukulankhulana. Pofuna kuteteza mtundu uwu wa kudzipatula, nthawi zambiri kumangokwanira kuti mukhale ndi microclimate m'banja.
Ana omwe amavutika chifukwa chosowa kulankhulana amakula kwambiri. Ana omwe ankakhala moyandikana ndi ana ena nthawi zonse amapita kukayenda kapena kupita ku sukulu, monga lamulo, alibe mavuto ngati amenewo. Koma ngati mwana amathera nthawi yochuluka ndi achikulire omwe nthawi zonse amakhala otanganidwa ndi zofuna zawo ndipo, moipa, amamuvulaza mwanayo, ndiye kudzipatula ndiko kusiyana kwakukulu kwambiri kwa chitukuko cha zochitika. Amadziwika kuti palibe amene amamuganizira, ndipo amayamba kusewera naye.
Ndi bwino kuyamba kukonzekera kudzipatula ngakhale pamene chizindikiro choyamba chikuwonekera - mwanayo amakana kulankhulana ndi makolo ndi wina aliyense. Komanso, kuopa anthu osadziwika ndi mavuto aakulu m'tsogolomu kungapangitse. Nthawi zina, thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo ndilofunika.
Kodi mungachotsedwe bwanji?
Tsoka ilo, palibe yankho limodzi ku funso la momwe mungagonjetsere kudzipatula. Choyamba muyenera kuyesa kufufuza kumene unachokera, nthawi komanso momwe zikuyendera. Ngati mavuto amachokera ku ubwana, ndiye kuti popanda thandizo la psychoanalyst simungathe kupirira.
Kawirikawiri khalidwe ngati limeneli lingagwirizane ndi makompyuta anu. Mwachitsanzo, kukwanira ndi kusungulumwa kumayang'ana koyambirira, koma zoona zake zonse ndizovuta kwambiri: chifukwa cha mantha a chiweruzo, mumakhala ochepa. Pachifukwa ichi nkofunika kulimbana ndi makompyuta, ndipo motero kuti athetse kulephera kwawo kuyankhulana.
Kawirikawiri atsikana, ngakhale omwe amaoneka okongola, sangathe kuzindikira izi, ndipo chifukwa cha zimenezi amachepetsa kulankhulana kwawo. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kusintha maonekedwe, chitani zonse kuti zithandizani monga momwe zingathere, ndiyeno kudzipatula kwanu kudzatha paokha.
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Munthu aliyense amalankhulana mosavuta ndi anthu omwe zofuna zake zikufanana. Choncho, chinthu chokakamizidwa ndikutenga nawo mbali pa zochitika zosiyanasiyana, kupita ku maphunziro kapena maphunziro. Kumeneku mungapeze anthu oganiza bwino ndipo mumalankhulana nawo mosavuta. Ndipo mutatha kuwona kuti chiyanjano chanu chidzawonjezeka kwambiri, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muyankhule ndi anthu ena.
Njira yopambana, koma yogwira mtima yogonjetsa kutsekedwa, imakhala mukudzidzidzimutsa chifukwa cha mantha. Ngati mukuwopa kulankhula ndi mlendo, yesani anthu mumsewu ndikufunseni nthawi. Ngati mumakana kukadziwana bwino - kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kuchita zomwe mumachita mantha, mumagonjetsa mantha anu.