Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani popanda chochita? Ambiri pa tsamba ili ndi grin, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti palibe chochita, ndiye kungakhale mphindi kuti mupeze mfulu! Koma ayi, palinso anthu omwe amavutika chifukwa chodzikweza, osadziwa choti achite nawo okha. Ndipo panthawiyi, madokotala amatiuza kuti vutoli, pamene palibe chochita ndipo sadziwa choti tichite, ndi loopsa pa thanzi lathu. Osati chifukwa chakuti anthu akhoza kuchita zinthu zodabwitsa kuchokera ku dongo, koma chifukwa ubongo wathu umafuna zochitika zatsopano tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo ngati iwo sali, ndiye kuti "Ndimasokonezeka kwambiri, palibe chilichonse choti ndichite" chidzakula ndikuvutika maganizo kwambiri. Pofuna kupewa izi, tiyeni tiganizire pamodzi zomwe zingatheke ngati palibe chochita.
Kodi mungatani ngati muli ndi nthawi yocheza?
1. Choyamba, muyenera kulemba mndandanda wa zilakolako zanu. Tengani cholembera, pepala, khalani bwino ndikuyamba kufunitsitsa - lembani zonse zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo, chifukwa ndithudi pali zinthu zomwe mwakhala mukulakalaka kuti muchite, koma mwazifukwa zina mwasokoneza zilakolako zawo za moyo kosatha. Chabwino, tsopano mphindi yomwe yabwera pamene inu mungathe, ngati inu simukuchita chirichonse chomwe chiti chichitike, ndiye kumbukirani kumbukirani zolinga zanu. Mwinamwake mukufuna kulumpha ndi parachute, kuphunzira kusewera mabilididi, kuwerenga bukhu? Kapena mwinamwake mwakhala mukufuna kumvetsera nyimbo za ojambula omwe mumawakonda kwa nthawi yaitali, koma manja onse sanafike - ndiye palibe nthawi, ndiye intaneti siigwira bwino moyenera?
Mwinamwake, mndandanda umene munapanga, chabwino, choti muchite chotsatira? Chotsani zovuta kuti mukwaniritse zilakolako, monga kuthawa mumalo ndi usana ndi Johnny Depp. Inu munachitanso chimodzimodzi? Zabwino, onani momwe mwasankhira nthawi yambiri. Zimangokhala kusankha komwe mungayambire ndi kudzikweza, momwe mungachotsere dzanja.
2. Ngati palibe chochita, masewera adzawathandiza. Momwe mungadzifunire nokha - kodi idzakhala masewera a tenisi, masewera a chess kapena masewera a "ng'ona", imene mumasewera ndi anzanu. Palibe gulu la masewera, osati loopsya pamene palibe chochita, Intaneti ndi bwenzi lapamtima. Kumeneku mungapeze chidole chomwe mukufuna - okwera, kuwombera, kuchita masewera a pa intaneti. Chabwino, mukufuna kuti zithunzizo zikhale zovuta kwambiri, pitani ku sitolo ku masewera a pakompyuta ndipo pitirizani kupha nthawi yotsatira. Ngakhale simunayambe kusewera masewera a pakompyuta, yesetsani kuti mutaya, palibenso chochita.
3. Mwa njira, ngati simukufuna kusewera, mukhoza kupeza mabuku pa intaneti ndi mafilimu. Choyenera kuwona, pamene palibe chochita? Chabwino, ziri kwa inu kusankha chomwe mumakonda kwambiri, ndiye yang'anani. Ndipo ngati mukufunadi kutenga mutu wanu, mukangane ndi anthu oseketsa, omwe pulogalamuyi ikuwonetseratu, kapena kulavulira pakhungu - yang'anani zachabechabe zosagwirizana ndi sayansi, zomwe zakhala zikuchitika posachedwapa pa TV ndi pa intaneti. Tsopano ngakhale kugwedeza galimoto kapena pie yopsereza ikhoza kutayidwa pa alendo, ndipo iwo amayamba kutsimikizira malingaliro awa ndi thovu pakamwa. Onani, sangalalani.
4. Kodi muli ndi ana, mwinamwake osati anu, mchimwene wanu kapena mchimwene wanu, mwachitsanzo? Funsani, mwinamwake mwanayo alibe chochita.
5. Palibe ana pafupi, koma palibe amene angachite nawo. Kufunafuna mwachangu banja, kwa moyo kapena masabata angapo, izi ndi momwe mungathere. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti kupeza njira yatsopano yodzikondera kukupulumutsani kukhumudwa, ndikudandaula kuti palibe chimene mungachite usiku, simungathe.
6. Theka lina ndilo, koma osangalatsa kwa inu nonse? Ndiye kuti mufufuze zosangalatsa zomwe mukufunikira kuti mukope wachiwiri. Ganizilani zomwe mukufuna kuchita pamodzi, ganizirani nokha mwambo kamodzi pamwezi kuti muchite zina zatsopano. Mukuwoneka ndi zokondweretsa, zomwe zidzatengere maganizo anu oipa ndi zonyansa, zidzapezedwa.