Chikhalidwe cha kusungunula ndikulankhula za anthu ojambula omwe amadzimva mwachidziwitso, amawona chochitika chilichonse mwakuya, amatha kumvetsa komanso kumvetsetsa mwamphamvu kwambiri. Monga lamulo, anthu onse osungunuka ndi oganiza bwino, akatswiri afilosofi, anthu omwe amamvetsera zojambulajambula, zinthu zokongola ndi zikhazikitso za umunthu ndi zachilengedwe.
Zizindikiro za mtundu wa "zotsekemera"
Anthu otere amavomereza kuti aganizire za chirichonse, amafunitsitsa kuonongeka, amakonda kusokoneza chirichonse m'mbali, akugwira ntchito "kukumba". Monga lamulo, onse amakhala osatetezeka, ndipo mawu achipongwe angawachititse kuti azikhala mwaokha kwa nthawi yayitali, atalowa mu chisokonezo ndi zovuta. Pofuna kupewa izi, anthu oterewa amachotsedwa ndipo salola kuti aliyense alowe m'dziko lawo.
Anthu ambiri osungunuka amakhala okongola kwambiri mwachibadwa. Iwo ali ndi ubwino wokongola, wokwanira komanso wogwirizana. M'khamulo, mawonekedwe awo osamveka amaonekera. Mawu aliwonse a munthu wotero amalingalira ndi kuyeza, kumbuyo kwa wina pali lingaliro, samanena chilichonse monga choncho.
Ngati tikulankhula za ubwino ndi kuipa kwa makhalidwe a chiwombankhanga, ndiye kuti khalidwe lawo lalikulu ndi luso lodzimva bwino, ndipo kuyambira kwakukulu ndi chizoloŵezi choyandikana kwambiri ndi mtima. Ndipotu, khalidwe lawo ndi lachiwiri, limapereka mphamvu zawo zonse, komanso nthawi yomweyo - chifukwa cha zochitika.
Maganizo a makhalidwe a melancholia
Anthu oterewa ali ndi mitsempha yofooka, samatsutsana kwambiri, kotero anthu awa amakhala nthawi zonse pakati pa akatswiri a maganizo, odwala matenda a maganizo ndi odwala matenda a maganizo. Zimasinthidwa kusintha kuti zisinthe, chifukwa zimakhala zosamala mwachilengedwe - zimakhala zokhazikika pamene chirichonse chozungulira chikudziwika bwino. Sakonda kukasuntha, kusinthika mu ubale wachikondi, kapena kusunthira mmwamba ntchito, chifukwa zonsezi zimapangitsa kusintha kwa moyo wamba.
Maganizo a anthu oterewa amasiyana mobwerezabwereza patsiku, koma podziwa chinthu ichi, munthu woteroyo adzabisala mumtima mwake. Izi ndizo zimayambitsa matenda osiyanasiyana. Kukhumudwitsa munthu wotere kumakhala kosavuta, ndicho chifukwa chake nkoyenera kukhala wochenjera kwambiri ndi kusamala za iye, chifukwa mawu ovuta akhoza kukhala pansi kwa nthawi yaitali mkatikati, mu mtima wa munthu woteroyo, ndipo amavulaza kwa nthawi yaitali.
Ponena za maubwenzi, anthu oterewa ndi osasamala, amafuna kukhala osankhidwa, kukwaniritsa, ndipo ubalewo umadutsa wokha. Amapanga zofunikira kwambiri kwa wokondedwa wawo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti banja lawo likhale lovuta.
Kodi mukusungunuka?
Pali mayesero ambiri a maganizo omwe amakulolani kudziwa kuti ndinu a mtundu wina wa chikhalidwe. Tikukupatsani mayeso ophweka, pafunso lirilonse lomwe mukufuna kuyankha moona mtima "inde" kapena "ayi".
- Kodi mumakayikira komanso mumamvetsera?
- Kodi ndinu ovuta kukhumudwitsa, kukhumudwa, kodi mumakhala wovuta?
- Kodi zimakuvuta kuti mutha kusintha zinthu zatsopano, zomwe simukuzidziwa?
- Kodi simukudziwa bwino luso lanu?
- Kodi nthawi zambiri mumanyazi, ndinu wamantha?
- Kawirikawiri mumalankhula m'malo mwakachetechete, ngati osasintha?
- Kodi mumakhala wokondwa komanso wokondweretsa, mumakonda lusoli?
- Kodi mumakonda kudzifunira nokha ndi ena?
- Kusungulumwa sikukuvutitsani, koma simukukonda makampani akulira?
- Chinthu chilichonse chaching'ono chingasokoneze maganizo anu kwa nthawi yaitali?
Ngati muli ndi mayankho 8 kapena "inde", mukusungunuka. Ngati 5-7 - ndiye muli ndi zinthu zambiri zamanyazi. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kuyesedwa mowonjezereka ndikuyang'ana zowonongeka: Mwachitsanzo, choleric kapena khansa yotchedwa melancholic. Ngati 1-4 akutanthauza kuti muli ndi zofooka kwambiri.