Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukhala moyo wathunthu?

Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti moyo wanu wonse umakhala ndi zochitika zina zakutchire zomwe zinalembedwa ndi lunatic? Ngati inde, ndiye funso loti mungayambe kukhala wodzaza ndi moyo wanu wonse, simunadzifunsepo kamodzi. Nthawi zina yankho liri lokha, koma zimachitika kuti n'zosatheka kupeza yankho, moyo umapitirira, ndipo timapitiriza kuchita chiopsezo cha "kunyumba-nyumba", kuchitapo kanthu pazokha. Dziko, ndithudi, si losangalatsa, koma chirichonse chingasinthidwe, koma tidzakambirana njira zingapo tsopano.

Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukhala moyo wathunthu?

Izi zimachitika kuti anthu amapereka miyoyo yawo ku bizinesi kapena munthu wina (mwachitsanzo, akazi a akatswiri ojambula ndi asayansi), komabe palibe aliyense wa iwo amene amamverera kuti ndizosiyana ndi zofunikira zawo. Ndipo onse chifukwa chosankha chawo ndi chidziwitso, apanga chisankho chotero ndipo sadandaula. Koma palibe ochuluka kwambiri, omwe ambiri amakhalabe osakhutiritsa zolinga zawo chifukwa sakudziwa momwe angayambire moyo wawo. Ganizirani ngati iwo asankha okha zomwe akufuna kapena kuti azigonjera zofuna za anthu ena: makolo, abwenzi, anthu. Aliyense yemwe anali mphunzitsi wanu, sangathe "kukutsogolerani pa njira yolondola," munthu wina sangathe kudziwa zomwe mukufunikira. Ngati zolinga zanu sizigwirizana ndi zenizeni, dzifunseni funso lakuti "Chifukwa chiyani ndikuchita izi"? Timadzikondweretsa tokha tokha, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti njira yokhutira iponso m'manja mwathu: kusintha gawo la ntchito, kusamukira kumzinda wina, kufunafuna mwamuna wina. Musawope kusintha, popanda iwo, zovuta zowonazi zidzatulutsa mphamvu zonse, osati kukulolani inu kumva kukoma kwa moyo.

Koma zosankha zazikuluzikulu sizinali zofunikira nthawi zonse, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofunikira kumvetsetsa momwe mungayambire moyo watsopano, ndi zomwe ziyenera kuwonjezeredwa pazochitika zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Izi zimachitika, chirichonse chikuwoneka kuti chiri chabwino kuntchito ndi kunyumba, koma kumverera kuti mbali ina ya moyo imadutsa sikutuluka. Pankhaniyi, kawirikawiri chizoloŵezi chatsopano chimakhala chokwanira, chomwe chidzawonjezera mitundu yatsopano ku nkhawa za tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma kuti muzindikire momwe mungayambire moyo wokondweretsa, mwa njira yatsopano, mungathe nokha, winawake akuwoneka kuti ndi zosangalatsa zosankha puzzles, ndipo wina akumva kuti ali ndi moyo, ndikudumphira ndi parachute. Kuti chizoloŵezi chibweretse phindu lenileni, ganizirani za zomwe zikusoweka pamoyo wanu.

Wodala, ngati malingaliro athu, maganizo ndi thupi lidzakhala mukulinganiza. Mwamsanga mukangowonjezereka mu njira ina, nthawi yomweyo pali kumverera kosakhutira. Choncho, kuti muyambe kukhala moyo wamphumphu, muyenera kumvetsetsa momwe mungakhazikitsirenso. Mwinamwake sikusowa kokondweretsa kokondweretsa, koma nkhawa zambiri, ndipo mwinamwake zonse ndizowona malingaliro anu pa moyo. Ngati mwakhalapo nthawi yaitali kuti mukhale ndi chidwi, mungaiwale kuti mungadabwe bwanji ndikusangalala ndi chatsopano, ndiye kuti mungakhale ndi chimwemwe chotani? Musaiwale za kufunikira kopatsa maphunziro ndi malingaliro anu, kukwaniritsa zosowa zathupi ndi zakuthupi n'kosavuta, koma njira yosatsutsika siidzatsogolera zotsatira.