Islam ndi chipembedzo chomwe chimapezeka m'mayiko ambiri. Palibe chabwino chomwe chimanena za miyambo ndi miyambo ya anthu kapena chipembedzo kusiyana ndi ukwati. Choncho, pa mpata wokwanira, m'pofunikira kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza ukwati wa Muslim. Iyi ndi mwambo wokongola kwambiri, wotchedwa Chiurdu "Nika". Pafupifupi miyambo yonse yakale ya ukwati wa Muslim idasungidwa mpaka lero, iwo ali okhutira ndi okongola kotero kuti posakhalitsa sadzasinthidwa ndi zochitika zapitazo zamakono zamakono. Kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti m'dziko lachi Islam, akazi alibe mphamvu ndipo samalankhula, ndipo amuna amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndi mphamvu. Komabe, izi ndizolakwika kwambiri. Ufulu wa amuna ndi akazi m'mayiko achi Muslim ndi ofanana, ntchito zawo ndizosiyana. Ndipo kwa amuna, panjira, pali ntchito zambiri kuposa akazi. Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane zomwe ukwati wa Muslim ndi momwe umakondwerera.
Maganizo a ukwati ndi chikhalidwe choyambirira
Ukwati kwa Asilamu ndi wopatulika. Mukakwatirana, okwatirana amayesetsa kutetezana wina ndi mzake, kuti aziwotha ndi kutonthoza, kuti akhale okongoletsana wina ndi mnzake, monga zovala. Izi ndi zomwe zikunenedwa mu Quran: "Akazi ndi amuna ndizovala wina ndi mnzake". Asanakwatirane, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi alibe ufulu wokhala pawokha, makamaka kukhalapo kwa anthu ena. Mkwati akuletsedwa kugwira wosankhidwayo, ndipo malinga ndi zofunikira za zovala zazimayi mu Islam, iye adzawona nkhope yake ndi manja ake asanakwatirane.
Miyambo ya ukwati wa Muslim imakhala ndi mtundu wofanana ndi nkhuku ndi maphwando, monga m'mayiko a ku Ulaya. Uwu ndi "Usiku wa Henna", pamene mkwatibwi ali wokongoletsedwa ndi maonekedwe a ukwati mu thupi lonse ndi henna. M'nyumba ya mtsikanayo abwenzi ake ndi achibale ake amasonkhana, amakonzekera kuchita zinthu mwatsatanetsatane ndikugawana mauthenga ndi nkhani. Mkwatibwi pa nthawi ino amalandira abambo achimuna, amasangalala ndi kuyamikira mwamuna wam'tsogolo. Pamanja mwake palinso chitsanzo chapadera ndi zojambulajambula.
Mwambo wa Ukwati
Malemba a ukwati wa Muslim amaphatikizapo miyambo iwiri - yachipembedzo ndi yachipembedzo, monga mu dziko lachikhristu. Zojambulazo mu ofesi yolembera sizinayesedwe kukhala zowona popanda chifaniziro cha mwambo waukwati mu ukwati wa Muslim. Kawirikawiri zokongolazi ndi zodzaza ndi miyambo yachiyero zimachitika masiku angapo, masabata, kapena miyezi isanayambe mwambowu. Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane momwe maukwati achi Muslim akuchitikira.
Kawirikawiri chochitika ichi chikuchitikira mu kachisi wachisilamu - mzikiti, pa mwambowu pali mboni ziwiri zazimuna, komanso abambo a mkwatibwi kapena womusamalira. Zovala za anthu okwatirana kumene amakhala ndi miyambo ya dziko komanso zimakhala ndi tanthauzo lopatulika. Wansembe amawerenga mutu wa Koran, womwe umatchula ntchito zazikulu za mkwatibwi, ndipo mkwati akulengeza kuchuluka kwa mphatsoyo, yomwe akuyenera kulipira mpaka kutha kwa moyo wokhudzana kapena ngati banja litha. Kalata yochokera m'kachisi ndi chikalata chovomerezeka m'mayiko ambiri.
Mbali yosakongola ndi yochititsa chidwi ya ukwati wachisilamu ndi phwando la chikondwerero. Iye amaloledwa kuitana abwenzi onse ndi achibale, ngakhale kudzinenera chipembedzo china, koma kupezeka kwawo m'kachisi kudzaloledwa. Amuna ndi amai, monga lamulo, khalani pa matebulo mosiyana. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti asilamu omwe amamenyera ukwatiwo sakhala akumwa ndi zakumwa zoledzeretsa - izi ndizoletsedwa ndi chipembedzo. Asilamu okondwa chifukwa cha ukwatiwo amavomerezedwa ndi aliyense amene akufuna kuyamika mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, ngakhale osauka ndi opemphapempha. Alendo amatha kudya zakudya zamakono, zakumwa zofewa zabwino, maswiti akummawa. Mwambo wodula keke yaukwati pamodzi ndi kuwachiritsa omwe analipo anabwera ku Ulaya kuchokera ku ukwati wa Muslim.