Palibe aliyense amene amaganizira za izi, koma kupsompsona, ndizofunikira zomwe thupi lathu likunena monga chakudya kapena madzi. Tiyenera kumverera kuti timafunikira komanso timakonda. Sitingathe kukhala opanda chikondi, popanda chikumbumtima, komanso, popanda kupsompsona.
Mitundu yopsompsona, ngati ndinganene choncho, pali zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, kupsompsonana kwa kholo, ana, abale, achibale, okondana ndi ena ambiri. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi chithumwa chake. Koma amakoka kwambiri ndi kuledzera chikondi chilichonse chopsompsona.
"Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kupsompsona ndi mnyamata?" - Yankho la funso limeneli nthawi zonse likuyang'ana mtsikana aliyense amene amamva chikondi. Ndani wa ife amene sanagwiritsire ntchito (usiku kapena nthawi) usiku, ndikuganiza zachitachi, ndipo, m'kupita kwanthawi, osakumbukira kamodzi.
Kodi mumalota nthawi yomwe milomo yake imakhudza milomo yanu, ndipo inu mudzaphimbidwa ndi mafunde, monga momwe akulembera m'mabuku awa a chikondi, osangalala? Koma apa ndi momwe mungasokoneze chisangalalo ichi ndi manja anu, kapena mmalo mwa milomo yanu. Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kumpsompsona mnyamata asanapsompsone, kuti sanazindikire kuti simungathe kupsompsona? Soviet, momwe mungaphunzire kupsompsona, sikuyenera kudikirira kuchokera kwa amayi anga. Tiyeni tigwire ntchito limodzi pa izi, osati funso losavuta.
Mfundo yaikulu ndi yofunikira, ngati mukufuna kupsompsona mnyamata - chitani. Musaganize kuti njirayo iyenera kubwera kuchokera kwa iye kapena kuti atapsompsonana, iye adzakuonani kuti ndinu mphepo komanso sizowopsa. Izi ndi zochitika za maphunziro a amayi athu ndi agogo aakazi.
Kwa kupsompsona kunabweretsedwa ku mawonekedwe awiri abwino, mukufunikira, choyamba, kusankha malo abwino ndi nthawi yake! Sizingakhale zosangalatsa, ngati mutangoyamba kumpsompsona, m'mawa m'ma benchi yaima basi, ndipo pafupi ndi agogo anu aakazi (kapena agogo awo aamuna kapena aakazi awo) adzakwiya kwambiri ndikuyamba nkhani yayitali yokhudzana ndi chiwerewere cha anyamata amakono. Kupsompsona kotero sikubweretsa chimwemwe chochuluka. Choncho, malowa ayenera kusankhidwa, ngati n'kotheka, osakanikizika.
Chachiwiri, mkhalidwewo. Gwirizanani, nkokayikitsa kuti mnyamata angakonde ngati mumpsyopsyona pamene akukuuzani mwachidwi za ulendo wake, kapena za zokondweretsa. Mnyamatayo, mwachiwonekere, angaganize kuti sakukondweretsa inu. Kwa chipsompsone choyamba, ndibwino kuti mutenge mphindi, pa nthawi yopumula. Tsopano, iye anatsogolera inu pakhomo ndipo ali pafupi kuchoka. Mlekeni iye, pang'onopang'ono mutenge dzanja, yang'anani m'maso anu ndi kuchita!
Inde, ndizofunika kuti musaiwale za mbali yokondweretsa. Zikanakhala bwino kuti musakhale ndi adyo kapena anyezi pa tsiku la X. Kawirikawiri, sikungapweteke kuti mpweya wanu ukhale watsopano komanso wokondweretsa, ndipo mwachimake munamva zonunkhira. Inu simukuzikonda izo, ngati mmalo mwa kukhudza kwabwino ndi kokondweretsa kwa milomo yanu, mumamva fungo ndi ndudu. Mnyamata ameneyu sangafune kuti azikonda.
Chinthu china chowonjezera. Mphepete amafunika ndi munthu kuti athandize chakudya kudutsa m'mimba. Choncho, mawu akuti ndi bwino kwambiri - izi siziri za ife. Simukusowa, pepani chifukwa cha mawu, oblyunuvlyvat wokondedwa. Sichidzakondweretsa inu kapena iye.
Chabwino, kodi munasankha zonse: ndi nthawi, malo ndi zofunikira? Kenaka khudza milomo yako mwachidwi pamilomo yake. Ndi wamantha, wopsompsonana, pamwamba pamtunda ndi pansi pamilomo yake. Kenaka yesetsani kwambiri. Mukhoza kuyesa milomo yanu ndi lilime, ndipo akatsegula pang'ono, finyani kamodzi kake, ziribe kanthu, pakati pa milomo yanu. Mverani kwa mnzanuyo, chifukwa kupsompsona ndi nkhani ziwiri. Ndipo ngati kukupsopsona kumakupatsani chisangalalo - mukuchita zonse bwino!
Tsopano inu mukudziwa momwe mungaphunzirire kumpsompsona mnyamata! Ndipo njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwira zovuta zonse ndi nzeru zakumpsompsona ndizochita nthawi zonse!