Wachigwirizano wamwamuna - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo

Amuna omwe amagonjetsa amuna - izi ndizochitika zachizoloŵezi. Mzimayi nthawi zambiri amabisala kuti mwamuna wake ndi wankhanza, koma amafunikira malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo kuti adziwe momwe angakhalire naye.

Kodi mungamutsutse bwanji mwamuna - wolamulira wankhanza ndi wogwiritsira ntchito?

Wopondereza ndi wamwano, wokhala ndi mphamvu zovuta komanso zogwirizana ndi ena. Iye sangathe kuika patsogolo pazochitika zilizonse, koma ngati muzimitsa ludzu lanu la mphamvu kuntchito, sikugwira ntchito, amayamba "kumanga" banja. Mkazi aliyense amene amatsimikizira kuti mwamuna wake ndi woopsa , wina ayenera kupeza yankho la funso la momwe angakhalire naye.

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsa kuti atsatire malamulo ena omwe angathandize kukana mwamuna wankhanza:

• munthu ayenera kuvomereza kuti mwamuna ndi wankhanza ndi wogwiritsira ntchito, sizothandiza kulikonza, izo zimayambitsa ukali ndi chiwawa;
• munthu sayenera kukhululukira kulemekeza kwa mwamuna wake ndi chiwawa, ayenera kumadzudzulidwa, kukakamizidwa kuti aziwerengera yekha, ndipo ngati yankho lake ndilowetsa - ndikofunikira kugawana naye mwamuna;
• Muyenera kusunga malo anu, ngakhale achibale ndi abwenzi a mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sakonda mwamuna wanu, ndi anthu awa muvuto lomwe lingakhale chithandizo ndi chithandizo;
• Ndikofunika kudziwa nambala ya foni ya ntchito zothandiza anthu kuti alandire mwamsanga uphungu wa akatswiri a zamaganizo kuti athetse malingaliro oipa ndi kuthetsa mkangano.

Kodi mwamuna wankhanza amalekerera kapena kuchotsa?

Pambuyo pake, mkazi aliyense wa chiwopsezo amadzifunsa ngati angamulekerere kapena kupambana. Khoti la chilengedwe chonse pa nkhaniyi sizingatheke, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti, ngakhale kuti mwamuna wake ali ndi chikhalidwe chonyansa, pali malingaliro okondana komanso kukumbukira pakati pa okwatirana.

Kuonjezerapo, palinso zifukwa zina zosungira banja, zomwe ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Choyamba, ndi kupezeka kwa ana. Mulimonsemo, abambo adzatha kusamalira banja kusiyana ndi amayi amodzi. Chinthu china chofunikira ndi udindo wa mkazi wokwatira, yemwe sikuti mayi aliyense amasankha kugawana nawo.

Kodi mungathe bwanji kuchotsa wolamulira wa mwamuna wake?

Ngati moyo wokhala ndi wozunza komanso wogonjetsa sungathe kupirira, m'pofunika kuchokapo. Popeza kuti mwamuna woteroyo sangalole kuti mkazi wake apite mwamtendere, mayi ayenera kukonzekera.

Choyamba, ndikofunikira kusamalira chuma: kupanga ndalama, kusonkhanitsa zinthu zamtengo wapatali, kupeza ntchito. Chachiwiri, kuthawa kwa wozunza kuyenera kukonzedweratu panthawi imene iye sali kunyumba, mwinamwake mwamuna akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zida zamphamvu komanso zamaganizo - kuchonderera, kuchonderera, kuopseza.

Kawirikawiri, patapita nthawi, mwamuna wankhanza amayamba kumvetsa zolakwa zake ndikufuna kukhazikitsa maubwenzi ndikubwezeretsa mkazi wake. Mayi amene ali pachigamulo ayenera kudalira nzeru komanso zomwe amadziwa. Mwinamwake mwamunayo amadziwa kuti mkazi wake sangadzipweteke yekha ndipo akhoza kupereka mwayi wachiwiri.