Anthu amafufuza chikondi kwa zaka zambiri, nthawi zambiri sazindikira kuti ali pafupi kwambiri - ndizofunika kuti azizoloŵera! M'masiku a chisokonezo, timachepetsa mabwenzi omwe nthawi zonse amakhala okonzeka kutipatsa mapewa, kuthandiza ndikugawana nthawi zina zosangalatsa. Ngati mwamsanga mwazindikira kuti mnzako sikuti ndi munthu wabwino, komanso mwamuna wokongola, ndiye malangizo otsatirawa ndi momwe mungagwirizane ndi mnzanu.
Momwe mungagwirizane ndi mnzanu wapamtima?
- Ndani, mumadziwa bwanji atsikana anu omwe amakonda? Choncho yesetsani kufanana ndi izi. Sinthani chithunzicho kuti munthu wosirira ayang'ane pa inu ndi maso osiyana. Timamvetsa kuti muzitsamba zakutha komanso mchira wa pony wina akhoza kuonekera pamaso pa mzanga yemwe wakhala akuyesedwa kwa zaka zambiri. Koma kuyambira tsopano izi siziri zosankha zathu, kopanda momwe tingagwirizane ndi bwenzi lapamtima ndithudi tisaiwale.
- Timatenga othandizira makamaka kugonana ndi zizindikiro zina za ubale wapamtima . Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti mwamuna ayenera kuthana nawo pambuyo pake. Pogwiritsa ntchito physiology, mudzapita patapita kanthawi, pamene mnzako akuzindikira kuti simungangoseka kampaniyo, komanso mumakhala usiku umodzi pamodzi. Khalani otsimikiza, mkazi wachigololo sayenera kukhala ndi funso, momwe angagwirizane ndi chibwenzi cha bwenzi lake.
- Yesetsani kugwiritsira ntchito nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere, chifukwa simukusowa kufunafuna chifukwa chowonana. Sungani munthu wosirira muzinthu zonse, iwo amayamikira kwambiri kudzipereka ndi kukhulupirika . Nthawi zina amachita manyazi kuulula kwa atsikana awo mwanjira inayake, koma amakhala okonzeka kugawana nawo ndi abwenzi awo. Iwo okha amakhalabe osamvetseka momwe zingathere, ndipo chidziwitso cha kugonana kwaumunthu kumathandizira kukondana ndi mnzanu.
Ngati mwakhala nthawi yambiri pamodzi, agawana chimwemwe ndi chisoni chake ndi mwamuna, ndiye mukudziwa kuti theka la njira yopita ku chikondi chachikulu lapita kale. Ndipotu, theka lolimba la umunthu ndilokhazikika, ndipo nthawi zambiri ubwenzi wawo umadutsa m'moyo wonse. Inu muli kale mndandanda wa zokondedwa, zimangokhala kuti mutenge sitepe imodzi kuti mulowe mu "diso la ng'ombe" - mtima wake.