Ngati zaka mazana angapo zapitazo chidziwitso chachikulu chazimayi chinkaonedwa ngati chopusitsa, oimira zachiwerewere masiku ano ndi ovuta kwambiri kutcha odwala. Ife tokha timayendetsa magalimoto, maulendo ndi ndege, kupeza ndalama, kukhala ndi maudindo aubusa, kusewera mpira ndi njuga. Koma ndi zonse izi, pafupifupi ife tonse tikulota mwachinsinsi kuti tikumane ndi mphamvu yolimba komanso yolimba mtima yomwe ingatiteteze ku zovuta zonse za moyo, kupereka maluwa ndi onse - kukonda chidziwitso. Choncho, ngakhale zaka zambiri zapitazo, funso lakuti "Kodi mungachepetse bwanji munthu kuchokera m'malingaliro ndi kukhala naye wapaderadera komanso osasamala?" Zidakalibe pamaphunziro.
"Zimakhulupirira kuti mkazi akhoza kupambana mwa kungomupatsa mayamiko angapo. Nanga bwanji za oimira za kugonana kolimba? Kodi wina amadziwa mawu angapo omwe amakufunirani kuti kalonga wanu akhale okonzeka kuthawa ndi inu kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi? "
Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zisanu zomwe zimayendetsa anthu amisala:
- "Sindinamvepo bwino kwambiri." Komanso, mawuwa akhoza kutchulidwa osati kokha pambuyo pochita zachiwerewere, koma komanso pambuyo poti amatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito usiku wonse m'kafa kapena kuyenda mu paki.
- "Ndiwe munthu wodabwitsa kwambiri amene ndakhalapo naye." Pambuyo pake, yesetsani kutsimikizira mawu anu ndi zitsanzo zina zenizeni, kotero kuti woyimilira anu asaganize kuti mumamukongoletsa.
- "Ndili wokonzeka kuti ndikhale ndi misala!". Panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndi bwino kuyang'ana kwambiri pa osankhidwa anu ndi kumwetulira mwachidwi. Komabe, izi ndizofunika kunena ngati mumakhulupiriradi munthu ndipo simukutsutsana naye.
- "Mwinamwake mungagwe ndi khofi?" Ndizowona, koma mu chiwerengero cha njira zothetsera malingaliro a munthu mawu awa akadali kutsogolera. Komabe, zimagwira ntchito pokhapokha ngati pali china chake mumasewera anu okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe, kupatula khofi.
- "Ndimakukondani." Zakale za mtunduwo. Zingakuchititseni misala, pokhapokha mutagwirizana ndi chiyanjano chenicheni, muzochitika zina zilizonse, kuwonetseredwa koteroko kungathe kuopseza.
Koma izi ndizo zonse zomwe mungasankhe, ndithudi, ndizoyankha yankho la funsoli: "Momwe mungayendetsere wokonda wopenga?" Koma mungachite chiyani ngati mwamunayo mwakhala pamodzi kwa zaka zingapo ndikudziwa zonse za wina ndi mzake, ndi zina zambiri. Kodi sizodabwitsa pa nkhaniyi?
"Takhala m'banja zaka zisanu ndi zitatu. Posachedwa, ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti ubale wathu ndi mwamuna wake udakhala woziziritsira - chikondi, chilakolako chinawonongeka, zonse zidakhala zachilendo. Koma ndi zonsezi ndikudziwa kuti timakondana. Kodi kachiwiri kumayendetsa bwanji mwamuna wamisala ndi kumutsitsimula? "
Ndipotu, ngakhale patatha zaka zambiri tikukhala pamodzi tili ndi chinachake chodabwitsa moyo wathu wokondedwa, chifukwa cha ichi tiyenera kukhala ndi chilakolako chopita patsogolo pa moyo ndikufuna kuchita chinthu chosazolowereka. Nazi njira zingapo zomwe, malinga ndi amayi ambiri, zimakhala zogwira mtima pazochitika zoterezi.
- Muzimusokoneza pabedi ... Pezani chovala chovala chodabwitsa komanso chodabwitsa, kuphika chinachake chokoma kuti mudye, kugula CD ndi filimu yosangalatsa, iitaneni mwamuna wanu kuntchito ndikumuitanani tsiku.
- Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yambiri. Pitani ku cinema kapena kubwalo la usiku pamodzi, tenga tsiku kuntchito ndikukonzekera kukondana kupita ku park yapafupi kapena ku ayezi.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti maubwenzi ndi ogwira ntchito mwakhama, choncho sangathe kusintha mosavuta
Pambuyo pa zonse, poyankha funsoli: "Ndi akazi otani omwe ali openga kwambiri?" Ambiri mwa ophatikizana aamuna samazengereza kuyankha kuti: "Amene amakondwera naye kukambirana naye osati kunjenjemera pabedi." Kutsiliza: molingana ndi zosavuta izi, mungathe kukhala mulungu wamkazi wamoyo, wokongola komanso wosatheka kupeza mwamuna wanu.