Ndizodziwika bwino kuti amai ambiri amakonda kulankhula ngakhale panthawi yogonana. Koma nthawi zambiri mukhoza kunena kuti mwamuna sakufuna kuti apitilizebe, ndipo adzathawa mpaka kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi. Choncho, ndi bwino kukhala ndi zida zankhondo ndikudziwa bwino mawu omwe sungamuuze mwamuna nthawi yogonana.
Mawu osaloledwa pa nthawi yogonana
" Tiyeni tigone pansi ". Mawu awa amachititsa munthu kugwa pansi ndikukhumudwitsa chikhumbo chilichonse. Tsatanetsatane wa mawuwo sikuti mukutopa ndipo mukufuna kugona, koma mfundo yakuti mwamunayo sakukukoka. Chokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti munthu adzakumbukira izi ndipo angaganize kuti mkazi wina angafunike kukhala pa ubwenzi ndi iye nthawi zonse.
" Kodi tizitulutsa kuwala?" ". Pamene munthu amva mawu awa kwa nthawi yoyamba, sadzawathandiza. Koma ngati mumamuuza zimenezi nthawi zonse, akhoza kuganiza kuti pali chinachake cholakwika. Amuna ngati maso ndipo amafuna kuyang'ana akazi awo amaliseche, kotero simusowa manyazi.
" Bwera lero, iwe wekha ." Pazifukwa zina, amai ambiri amaona kuti ndi zachilendo kugona pabedi, ndipo mwamunayo amatha kupotoka monga momwe amafunira. Kodi mukuganiza kuti akumva bwanji panthawiyi ndipo akufuna kuti mukakhale nanu pabedi limodzi?
" Ndiwe wabwino kwambiri ." Zikuwoneka ngati zikuwoneka ngati kutamandidwa, koma ndi mawu awa mukuwoneka kuti mukuzifananitsa ndi anzanu akale. Palibe munthu amene angalekerere kufanana ndi aliyense, makamaka pabedi. Popeza akuganiza kuti muzochitika zina mumaganiza za anyamata ena ndikuziyerekeza ndi iwo.
" Musati muchite izi kwa ine ." Ndikofunikira kulankhula za izi pasadakhale, koma osati pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Mawu amenewa adzasokoneza malingaliro ndi zosangalatsa za kugonana .
" Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule ." Pafupifupi amayi onse amafuna kugonana kuti agwiritsidwe ndi kugawana chinachake chokondana. Koma taganizirani za munthu pa nthawi ino, kodi tsopano akufuna kuyankhula?
" Kodi muli kale mwa ine? ". Kodi iye angaganize bwanji pa nthawi ino kuti ulemu wake ndi wawung'ono kwambiri moti simumamumvera ndipo mumagwiritsa ntchito kukula kwake.
" Tiuzeni kuti tidzakhala pamodzi?" ". Mawu awa akhoza kuthetsa ubale wanu, monga amuna ambiri amawopsezera mawu awa.
" Ndizo zonsezo? ". Uku ndikunyozetsa mwamunthu ulemu, pamene adayesa, adachita zonse zomwe zingatheke kukondweretsa, ndipo funso lanu lidzamutsimikizira kuti zoyesayesa zonse ndi zopanda pake ndipo simunalandire chisangalalo chilichonse.
" Bwerani. Bwerani . " Ngati mukufuna kuonera zolaula, ndiye kuti simuyenera kupirira zomwe mwawona. Kwa munthu aliyense, izi zikumveka ngati zovuta, koma ndani akufuna kulamulidwa?
" Kodi mumandikonda?" ". Mafunso oterewa pa nthawi yogonana sali okonzeka, pomwe akugwedezeka kuchokera ku zofunikira ndi chikhalidwe. Kukambirana kulikonse kumachitika nthawi ina iliyonse, koma osati m'chipinda chogona.
Komanso, musamuuze mwamuna wanu za zolakwitsa, mwachitsanzo, "pang'onopang'ono", "musamamwe mowa", "pitani mofulumira", "musagwedezeke" ndi zina zotero, mawu onsewa adzamukwiyitsa ndipo zosangalatsa ziyenera kukumbukira nthawi ino. Musati mutsogolere ndondomeko, mwamunayo mwiniyo ayenera kudziwa,
Kumbukirani kamodzi kokha, kambiranani ndi wokondedwa wanu pa chakudya chamadzulo, mukuwonerera TV, koma osati pabedi. Choncho, mwamsanga mutalowa m'chipinda chogona, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa zonse zomwe mumanena.