Kodi mumadana ndi kugonana? Kodi mukuganiza kuti ntchitoyi ndi yonyansa kwambiri, ndipo mumamva kuti mukudwala? Kodi mungadziwe bwanji kuti ndinu wokonda kwambiri, ngati simukuvomereza kugonana kotereku? Amuna ambiri amakhulupirira kuti njira zogonana zogwiritsira ntchito ndi njira yabwino yowasangalatsa. Komanso, ambiri a iwo, nthawi zonse amasamala za ziwalo zawo zobereka ndikudandaula chifukwa cha kukula kwake, amatsanzira maganizo a amayi ku ulemu wawo kwa momwe amai amaonera iwo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti: Ngati sakufuna kupereka nthawi yosonyeza chikondi choterocho, sali okonzeka kwa iwo, ndiye kuti maganizo sali amphamvu. Ndicho chifukwa njira iyi yokhudza kugonana kwa amayi ndi amuna ndi nthawi yofunikira kwambiri ya moyo wapamtima wokondwa.
Zingakhale zoyenera kuti muyambe kudziwana ndi njira zogonana zogonana, muyenera choyamba kuwerenga malamulo ake.
Malamulo oletsa kugonana amamwa
- Cholinga. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa munthu kuti iwe uchita zokhumba zenizeni, osati mokakamizidwa. Pofuna kuthana ndi vutoli, talingalirani kuti mbolo ndi kabuku kakang'ono ka wokondedwa wanu ndikumufotokozera chikondi chanu ndi kuyamikira kwa mitundu yonse yachisomo ndi kupsompsona.
- Musasokonezedwe. Musaganize pa mphindi ino za chirichonse chosamveka kupatula kukondweretsa mwamuna wanu, kondwerani ndi kuti panthaŵi imeneyo iye ndi kwathunthu ndi kwathunthu, ndipo zina zilibe kanthu.
- Limbikitsani kudalira. Munthu yemwe amakukhulupirirani, chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe ali nacho, ndiye chifukwa chake mubiseni kogotochki yanu ndi mano anu, mwinamwake chisangalalo chimaika chiopsezo chotembenukira ku ululu.
- Kukonzekera maganizo. Yambani ndi inu nokha poyamba, taganizirani momwe amakondwera penis, ndikuganiza kuti silky ndi kutentha, zomwe ziri zabwino kwambiri kukhudza. Kenaka, konzekerani ndi mwamuna wanu, mutseke maganizo ake, ubongo wake, ndikuuzeni mmene jekeseni likukukonderani, musaiwale zambiri za zomwe mukufuna kuchita naye tsopano.
Kugonana kwabwino kwa amayi
Sikoyenera kupikisana ndi ochita masewera achiwerewere ndikumeza mbolo yake kwathunthu. Malo omvetsa bwino kwambiri angathe kufika. Kotero:
- Ndi bwino ngati wokondedwa wanu akuima kapena atakhala pansi.
- Yambani ndi mutu wa mbolo wa wokondedwa wanu, nugwedeze, yang'anani mitsempha kumbali yake ya kumunsi, kuyendayenda nayo ndi nsonga ya lilime.
- Phimbani mano anu ndi milomo yanu, pewani mbolo mofatsa, perekani kanthawi kuti mubwerere m'chinenero chanu.
- Pang'onopang'ono, mokoma mtima, koma pitirizani kuwongolera mutu wanu pansi.
- Ponyani mbolo m'kamwa mwanu, musaiwale kuti muyang'ane mosamalitsa ndi mau ake ndi lilime lanu. Lembani mbolo mu kuyenda kozungulira, kusunthira mmwamba ndi pansi.
- Mukhoza kuwonjezera kirimu, madzi pang'ono, kusungunuka chokoleti kuti izi zikhale zosangalatsa.
- Mukhozanso kuyesa musanayambe kugwira ntchitoyi kuti muthamangitse mano anu ndi malingaliro a menthol. Koma musasokoneze phala lotero ndi phala lokhala ndi puloteni, ilo lingapangitse kugwedeza.
- Nthawi zambiri mukupuma, yang'anirani maso ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikudzithandizira ndi manja anu.
- Tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti abambo amakonda pamene abambo amachititsa kugonana mpaka kumapeto ndikumeza umuna, koma ngati inu muli nawo
zosavomerezeka, mukhoza kupeŵa.
Kulowerera Kwambiri
Ngati mukufunabe kuphunzira njira yowopsa kwambiri, musaiwale kuti pakamwa panu ndi pakhosi panu muyenera kukhala pamzere umodzi wowongoka, njira yabwino kwambiri ngati mugona pabedi ndikupachika mutu wanu. Poyamba, muyenera kuphunzira kupuma mozama ndi pang'onopang'ono. Konzekerani kuti mbolo idzalepheretsa mlengalenga mpweya.
Chilichonse chomwe chinali, kusintha kwa njira iyi yokhudza kugonana n'kofunika ndi mnzanu wodalirika, wodalirika, yemwe mumamukhulupirira komanso wofunika kwambiri - simulibe chidwi naye.