Mkazi wopambana angathe kudziwika pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo sizowonjezera zokhazokha, mawonekedwe okwera ndi zovala. Ali ndi aura yapadera ndipo imatulutsa kudzidalira kwathunthu, zomwe sizingakhoze koma zimayambitsa kaduka ndi chikhumbo chotsanzira. Anthu ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi yankho la funso la momwe angakhalire wolemera komanso wopambana. Koma amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kupambana kotereku kulibe mphamvu zawo. Ngakhale siziri choncho, muyenera kungosiya kukayika kwanu ndikuyamba kuchita.
Momwe mungakhalire wolemera ndi wopambana - psychology ya mapindu anu
Choyamba, muyenera kudziyika nokha cholinga - kodi mukufuna kukwaniritsa chiyani? Awa ndi malangizo oyamba omwe akatswiri a maganizo amapereka kwa omwe asankha kusintha miyoyo yawo ndikukhala opambana. Mvetserani ku intuition yanu, musamamvetsere maganizo a ena ndi ziwonetsero za anthu. Ganizirani zofuna zanu zokha ndi luso lanu.
Amene akufuna kuphunzira kukhala munthu wopambana ndi wolemera, akatswiri a maganizo akulangiza kuti:
- Kukonzekera ndondomeko ya zokwaniritsa, muyenera kulemba ntchito zomwe mukufuna kuthetsa kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu;
- musayese "kutengera bwalo" mofulumira, khalani ndi chipiriro ndipo musafulumire;
- Musayese kudumphira pamutu panu - zolinga zomwe ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa ziyenera kukhala zenizeni;
- khulupirirani mwayi wanu, musawope mavuto - mudzapambanadi;
- muli ndi nthawi yobwerera, dzipatseni nthawi yopumula;
- yesetsani kuwonjezeka nthawi zonse - pang'onopang'ono kulimbikitsa ntchito zomwe mukuchita, kuwonjezera zofunikira zanu;
- Fufuzani njira zatsopano - kayendetsedwe kowakulungidwa sikungapangitse zotsatira zoyenera;
- musawope kutenga zoopsa ndi kulakwitsa.
Kuonjezera apo, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti chikhulupiliro cha mzimayi mwa luso lake chimadalira maonekedwe. Osasamala, ovala, osowa kapena, mosiyana, munthu wonyansa kwambiri sangachite bwino. Mayiyo ayenera kukhala wokongola, kukhala ndi zovala mu zovala, amalankhula momveka bwino, osalankhula mawu achipongwe, osalankhula mawu, osayankhula, sakudziwa kapena kukopa. Amamudziwa kuti amtengo wapatali ndipo amachititsa ena kudziyamikira kwambiri.
Momwe mungakhalire wolemera komanso wopambana
Amayi ena amathetsa vuto la momwe angakhalire olemera ndi opambana, angathandize kuthandizira kukonda ndalama ndi mwayi. Werengani izi ziyenera kukhala Lolemba, m'nyumba yomwe muyenera kukhala nokha. Ndikofunika kuima pawindo lomwe likuyang'ana kum'maŵa kapena kummawa kwa nyumba (nyumba), mutenge ndalama zatsopano 10 ndi zonyezimira, kenako muwerenge kapena kuwerengera kasanu ndi kawiri mowirikiza kuti: "Eliya mneneri wa akuluakulu akuluakulu a chiwombankhanga amaika, golidi ndi siliva amasungunuka. Chitsulo chimagwirira pamodzi, zabwino zimabwerera kunyumba ya kapolo wa Mulungu (dzina lake) . " Ndalamazo ziyenera kuchotsedwa ku thumba la ndalama, zophikidwa mmenemo kosatha, kwa wina aliyense
Momwe mungakhalire wolemera ndi wopambana mothandizidwa ndi matsenga?
Pezani yankho la funso la momwe mungakhalire mkazi wachuma ndi wopambana angakhale ndi chithandizo cha miyambo yonyenga. Mwachitsanzo, tambani chingwe cha matsenga kuti mukhale ndi mwayi: Tengani ulusi wofiira kuti mukhale wofiira ndi wa buluu, muwapange ngati nkhumba zambiri, muganize kuti mumasula zilakolako zanu mmenemo, kenaka muike dzanja lanu lamanzere (kapena pa bondo lanu). Muyenera kuvala chingwe kuti wina asathe kuziwona. Mukhozanso kulipira mwayi wa pini wamba: kutsanulira mu supuni ya supuni zitatu za mpunga, shuga ndi mchere, tumizani pini lotseguka ndikuchoka usiku. M'mawa, pani ku zovala zomwe simukuziwona. Iye adzabweretsa kupambana mu bizinesi.