Potsatira malangizo athu ophweka, mukhoza kupanga khalidwe lanu lolimba ndikukwiyitsa chifuniro chanu. Lamulo lofunikira: muyenera kutsatira malamulo awa nthawi zonse. Muyenera kufotokozera makhalidwe amphamvu kwambiri mwa inu nokha, komanso kukhala ndi ulemu ndi chikondi kwa iwo omwe akuzungulira. Yesetsani kukhala odziimira pazinthu za ena. Kumvetsetsani ndi kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsetsa kuti khalidwe lamphamvu siliyenera kuvulaza ena, kapena inu, chifukwa anthu amphamvu, poyamba, ali owolowa manja ndipo amatha kumvetsetsa, koma musalole kuti maganizowa asokoneze miyoyo yawo.
Malangizo kwa omwe akufuna kukhala ndi khalidwe lamphamvu
- Phunzirani kudzilimbikitsa. Ngati mukukulitsa mphamvu za khalidwe, zidzakuthandizani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu mofulumira. Mudzatha kuzindikira zolakwa zanu pamene mukupitirizabe. Zosokoneza sizidzakulepheretsani. Musaope kudziwa choonadi. Munthu wokhumba mwamphamvu amadziwa momwe angapezere uthenga wolandila.
- Yesani kukhala mtsogoleri. Maganizo abwino adzakuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto. Dziyesetse wekha ndi zosowa zanu, musati muzichita zofooka zanu. Maonekedwe enieni ndi ofunika kwambiri.
- Onetsetsani kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo. Ganizirani zomwe muli nazo panopa. Samalani kutseka anthu. Yesetsani kukhala olimba mtima ndi otsimikizika, chifukwa kulimba mtima ndi chizindikiro cha munthu wofuna kwambiri. Musawope kutenga zoopsa.
- Musalole maganizo anu pa ena. Kumbukiraninso kuti simungakonde anthu onse mosasamala. Fufuzani njira yanu ndipo yesani zolinga zomwe mwasankha. Yambani moyenera. Perekani zabwino kwa anthu, thandizani omwe akusowa thandizo lanu ndi chithandizo. Musayang'ane phindu lanu. Chitani zokhazokha zabwino.
- Phunzirani kulamulira maganizo anu ndikumverera kwanu. Ndipotu, izi sizovuta, choncho perekani nthawi yambiri. Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire, yesetsani kukhala osasinthasintha komanso bata. Yang'anani mu matanthauzo onse a golide ndipo musaponyedwe mbali ndi mbali. Popanda mtendere, simudzakhala ndi khalidwe lamphamvu. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi zonse, ndipo zotsatira zake sizikupangitsani kuti mudikire nthawi yaitali.