Amayi ambiri amafunsa amayi, abwenzi, ndi alendo chabe kuchokera ku Network funso lomwelo: "Mungadabwe bwanji mwamuna wanu?". Mayankho amakhala ngati chiwerengero chachikulu, pomwe adzalumikizana ndi magawo osiyanasiyana a moyo: kuyambira tsiku ndi tsiku kufika pafupi. Komabe, kumayamba ndi kuzindikira kuti munthu nthawi zonse amakhala mwana mu moyo, ndipo ngati akufuna kudya kapena kugona, sali wokondwa, ndipo ziribe kanthu zaka za msinkhu wanu, ndi udindo wake womwe ali nawo. Izi ndizofunika kwambiri. Chifukwa chake zimakhala zomveka zodabwitsa mwamuna ngati ali ndi njala.
Ndi zakudya ziti zomwe zingadabwe ndi munthu?
M'dziko muli maphikidwe ochuluka kwambiri omwe maso okha amathamanga ndi phula kutuluka. Kodi ndingasankhe kukonda chiyani? Pofuna kusankha zakudya zomwe zingadabwitse mwamuna, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti zomwe amakonda zimakhala zosiyana ndi zanu. Choncho, ngakhale kuganizira kuti chilakolako chofuna "kutsanulira" 1 kg ya broccoli kwa mwamuna wake wosauka, pamene akulota mdulidwe, ndikulingalira chifukwa cha thanzi lake, sitingayesedwe kuti tipitirizebe mumzimu womwewo. Pambuyo pa zonse, ntchito yathu ndi kuyankha funso lakuti "Ndibwino bwanji kudabwa mwamuna?".
"Kudya nyama" kungakonde chakudya chilichonse chokoma chochokera ku mankhwalawa. Ngati kusakaniza za masamba sikukupumulitseni, yesetsani kukonzekera chakudya chophatikizana, monga tsabola wophikidwa .
Kwa tsiku lililonse
Inde, sizingatheke kuti mkazi wamakono ali ndi nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu kuti apange zojambula zokhala tsiku ndi tsiku. Komabe, nthawi ndi nthawi lingaliro "Ndikufuna kudabwitsa mwamuna wanga" komabe limabwera mitu yowala ya amayi okongola. Ndipo izi ndizodabwitsa, chifukwa palibe amene waletsa njira yopita ku mtima wachikondi mwa njira ya pamlomo. Kusankha zomwe zimadabwitsa mwamuna wake pa chakudya chamadzulo, chonde onani kuti kuti musamugwire, sikofunika kuti nthawi zonse, chifukwa cha maola ambiri osakhala pakhomo, kuyesa kuphika mbale yodabwitsa ndi dzina losamvetsetseka. Pali chinsinsi chimodzi chochepa. Mwamuna, akadali pa ufulu wa "mfulu" ndikukhala yekha, kuphika, sakonda, nthawi zambiri osati chifukwa sakudziwa, koma chifukwa ndi waulesi, ndipo amadya makamaka chakudya chofulumira. Akazi, podabwa ndi momwe angadabwe mwamuna wake wokondedwa, yesetsani kumuchitira ndi chakudya chake chopangidwa kunyumba. Kuti asamangokhalira kumenyana ndi mkazi wamtengo wapatali "kumbali", ndiko kuti, m'chihema chokhala ndi mapepala a "osaganiziridwa," pamper ndi pizza yokonzekera kapena kukonzekera yekha .
Kulandira zokoma sikungokhala mbale yovuta, yofuna luso. Pali zochitika pamene, mwachitsanzo, munabwerera kwanu palimodzi, ndipo ngati mwayi ukanakhala nawo, palibe chokonzekera. Kodi mungadabwe bwanji mwamuna wake? Kuthamanga! Pali maphikidwe, kuperedwa kwake sikukufuna nthawi yambiri, mwachitsanzo, pasta ndi nyama yosungunuka .
Nthawi zovuta
Kudabwitsa mwamuna wake pa tsiku lake lobadwa kungatheke mothandizidwa ndi kuphatikiza "table posh komanso wokongola mkazi". Choncho, pazochitika zoterozo, sankhani maphikidwe omwe ayesedwa (pakuphika, komanso pa mwamuna). Ndi bwino kuti "otentha" alibe nthawi zonse kuyima zosangalatsa. Zakudya zabwino zomwe zophikidwa mu uvuni. Ngakhale bakha, nkhuku, tsekwe kapena nyama ina imasandulika kukongoletsa tebulo, ndizotheka kupanga tsitsi, kupanga, kuvala chovala chokongola.
Lamulo lomwelo likugwiranso ntchito pa maholide ena - pambuyo pa zonse, kudabwa kwamunthu mwamuna, mwachitsanzo, pa tsiku lachikumbutso, ngati mkazi wokoma kwambiri samangoyendayenda ndi zakudya zokoma?
Kuwonjezera pa kudya, amuna ambiri ali ndi vuto lina laling'ono - chokhumba kumwa pang'ono pa holide. Chabwino, galasi la zakumwa zoledzeretsa sizingapweteke, makamaka popeza pali chifukwa. Ndipo pochitika kuti pokonza phwando la chikondwerero kunali kuchedwa kusiyana ndi kuzunzika mwamuna poyembekeza, kusakaniza ndi malo okoma monga mojito , mwachitsanzo.
Pali njira ina yodziwika kuti mungadabwe bwanji mwamuna wanu wokondedwa pa tsiku lovuta, ngakhale kuti amafunikira luso linalake. Ikani keke ndikuikongoletsa m'njira yoyambirira - simukuyenera kukhala wophika wapamwamba kuti mupange cholembera chabwino chanu.
Tikukhulupirira kuti tsopano, mothandizidwa ndi uphungu wathu, mudzakhala ndi mayankho a funsoli: "Ndiphika kuphika kuti ndidabwitse mwamuna wanga?"