Ukwati mu chaka chotsatira

O, anthu okhulupirira zamatsenga ali madzulo a ukwati, ndipo ngakhale iwo omwe sanapunthitse khungu lakuda ndi katchi yakuda, akukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zizindikiro zonse zaukwati. Makamaka kwambiri pakati pa anthu ndi zikhulupiliro za chaka chotsatira - amati, ndizosatheka kuti azichita ukwati chaka chomwecho, banja lidzawonongedwa ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Kodi n'zotheka kukwatira chaka chotsatira kapena kusewera ukwati? Ndipo pali umboni wina wa chikhulupiliro ichi?

Kodi ndi chaka choipa chotani?

Kuti tiyankhe funso ngati zingatheke kuti tigwire ukwati mu chaka chotsatira, wina ayenera kumvetsa, ndipo ndi cholakwika ndi chiyani kuti m'chaka chaka chosaoneka chikuwonekera? Mwachikhalidwe, chaka chotsitsika chinkaonedwa ngati choipa, chinali chogwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti woyang'anira chaka chino ndi Kasyan. Wopatulika uyu mwa anthu ankaonedwa kuti ndi wamwano, wochitira nsanje, wodzikonda komanso wokhumudwitsa, omwe amachititsa anthu mavuto okha. Ndipo ndi wotsogolera wotere wa ubwino wa chaka chodikira? Koma malingaliro otchuka awa satsimikiziridwa ndi ziwerengero - chisangalalo sichitha zaka zokha.

Palinso malingaliro omwe chaka chotsatira chimati chimachititsa anthu ambiri kufa kuposa zaka zina, osati olemedwa ndi tsiku "lowonjezera". Koma zikhulupiliro zimenezi sizinatsimikizidwe ndi sayansi - mliri, chaka chilichonse chachabe sichidziwika.

Nchifukwa chiyani, zikunenedwa kuti pali mavuto ochulukirapo m'chaka chachiwopsezo, kodi makolo athu akhala akuwona mwachidule? Ayi, mwa njira zina iwo ali olondola, pali zowonjezera tsiku limodzi mu chaka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zochitika zikhoza kuchitika pang'ono. Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani anadalira zochitika zoipa? Ndi anthu okha amene amakonda kukhulupirira zinthu zoipa ndipo amamva zambiri za tsoka, osati kusangalala mokondwera.

Kodi n'zotheka kukonzekera ukwati mu chaka chotsatira?

Kodi pali zizindikiro zilizonse zokhudzana ndi ukwati komanso chaka chotsatira, kodi n'zotheka kukwatira chaka chino? Anthu amakhulupirira kuti n'zotheka kukwatirana chaka chilichonse, koma ndi bwino kuti musakhale ndi chaka chotsatira. Chifukwa chikwati, chomaliza chaka chomwecho, chidzagwa. Koma zamatsenga sizinthu zomwe asayansi samatsimikizira, ngakhale miyambo ya anthu sichichirikiza.

Mudzanena kuti kuyambira nthawi zakale pamene anthu ophatikizanawo sanapite kunyumba ya mkwatibwi, chifukwa chaka chino sankasangalala? Inde, m'chaka chokwanira m'nyumba za okwatirana, palibe chifukwa cha chaka choipa, koma chifukwa chaka chino ochita masewerawa amapita kumalo ena. Chaka chokhacho mkwatibwi amatha kutumiza mkwatibwi kwa mkwati, ndipo sakanakhoza kukana iye, ndi zochepa zochepa. Kotero mbiriyakale sikutsimikizira zamatsenga zakwati osakondwa mu chaka chotsatira.

Ndipo mpingo umawoneka bwanji, mwinamwake amaletsa ukwatiwo mu chaka chotsatira? Ndiyeno kulakwitsa - mpingo wachikhristu sikuti umangotsutsa kukwatirana mu chaka chotsatira, umachititsanso manyazi anthu amakhulupirira malingaliro onse, kuwatengera iwo kwa Amitundu. Ndipo kwenikweni, ngati chirichonse chiri chifuniro cha Mulungu, kodi mwinamwake chingasokoneze maonekedwe a tsiku lina limodzi mu chaka ngati banja? Ngati cholinga chake chikhala moyo wokondwa kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti chidzakhalapo ndipo zaka sizidzasokoneza, koma ngati wina adya m'banja, ndiye kuti palibe pemphero lomwe lingathandize. Ndipo umboni wa chizoloŵezi cha ukwati mu chaka chotsatira ndi tchalitchi cha kanema. Mwa iwo, pali masiku pamene mwambo waukwati siwuchitidwa - madzulo a maholide aakulu, Lachitatu, Lachisanu ndi masiku ambiri akusala. Monga momwe tikuonera, palibe chomwe chinanenedwa pazotsutsana ndi ukwati wa mpingo muzaka zambiri.

Zikuwoneka kuti kuopa kukwatira mu chaka chotsatira sikoyenera, zikhulupiriro zonse ndizolowetsa mdima ndipo mwinamwake sichidakondwa kwambiri ndi makolo athu. Ife, anthu amakono, iwo sachita mantha, ndipo kodi chikondi chenicheni sichigonjetsa zopinga zonse?