Iwe umawoneka wokongola ndikumverera bwino. Muli ndi maluso ambiri, ntchito yabwino komanso yokondedwa. Chirichonse mu moyo wanu ndi chabwino, ndipo moyo umawoneka kuti wachitika. Koma pali MODZI. Iwe uli wosungulumwa, ndipo mmutu mwanu cholinga chomwe chimakhudzidwa ndi lingaliro limodzi lokha: bwanji sindimakonda aliyense, palibe yemwe amandimvetsa, palibe amene amandikonda? Zomwe zidandaula zokhudzana ndi moyo komanso zosavuta komanso njira yothetsera mavuto. Ndi tsoka lalikulu chotero, mamiliyoni a anthu lero akukumana nawo. Nchiyani chikuchitika kwa anthu amakono ndi zolakwa zawo zomwe iwo akuchita, kodi iwo amasungulumwa?
Chifukwa chiyani palibe wina akumvetsa ine?
Kwenikweni mu kampani iliyonse, kaya abwenzi kapena anzako angapeze wosungulumwa yemwe sanakwatirane poyerekeza ndi ena onse, sanapeze aŵiri, ndipo ngati ali mtsikana, ndiye kuti sali pabanja, ndi zina zotero. Kwa mafunso onse chifukwa chake chinthu choterocho chikuchitika, anthuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito poyankha ndi mawu monga: "Palibe amene adzandikonda" kapena "Sindimakonda aliyense". Koma iwo okha sadziwa kwenikweni zifukwa zenizeni kuti iwo akadali okha. Pa phwando ku psychologists odwala amenewa amawoneka tsiku ndi tsiku. "Palibe yemwe akuyankhula ndi ine, palibe yemwe angayime ... Palibe yemwe amandizindikira ine, Dokotala, bwanji ine sindikusowa aliyense?", Iwo amadandaula. Ndipo dokotala akumwetulira momvetsa chisoni ndikufunsa aliyense wosakwatiwa kuti asinthe. Kuchokera apo kuti mapazi amakula mu vuto ili. Kuopa chikondi, chitsanzo cha maubwenzi osasokonezeka, zovuta zaunyamata, kudzipatula, ndi zina zotero. - zonsezi zimapereka chizindikiro pa umunthu, womwe nthawi zina umakhala wosungulumwa. Funsani ena olemera ndi olemera chifukwa chake ali okha. Ndipo ambiri mwa iwo amavomereza kuti: "Palibe amene wandikondapo." Ndipo si za ena, koma za munthuyo. Ndipo kuthetsa vutoli kwa iye ndithu ndi mphamvu. Malangizo ena amathandiza dontho la I ndikumvetsetsa nokha:
- Kufunsa funso "chifukwa chiyani palibe wina amandikonda" ndikofunikira koyamba kuti mutembenuzire nokha ndikufunsa "Ndipo ndimakonda ndani?". Kodi alipo munthu m'moyo mwanu yemwe mumamukonda kapena chifukwa chakuti ali. Ngati simukuwopa chikondi ndikukana, ndiye kubwerera kwa inu. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirira kuti mukhoza kukonda.
- Nthawi zambiri anthu amakhala pafupi ndi dziko lawo laling'ono chifukwa chakuti amawopsya chifukwa choopa kutayidwa, oiwala kapena operekedwa. Pa chifukwa chimenechi, nthawi zambiri sitidziwa kuti wina akutipatsa zizindikiro za chidwi.
- Chinthu chinanso chomwe chimayambitsa kulephera ndi chiyanjano chokwanira kwa wokondedwayo ndi cholinga chake. Pachifukwa ichi, mwa njira yomwe mabanja ambiri amakono akugwera. Mkhalidwe wa zoyembekeza za okondedwa kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake sizikugwirizana ndi zenizeni. Ndipo pamene akhungu a chikondi pokhala cohabitation ayamba kugonjera, ndiye ubale weniweni ndi omwe angafune kuti anthu asagwirizane. Kuti muchotse vutoli, muyenera kusiya kukonza ubale wanu ndi "kupita ku Earth." Mwa kuyankhula kwina, yesetsani kuganiza kuti munthu woyenerera amene inu mumamukoka mu malingaliro anu sadzakumana nanu konse, chifukwa iye kulibe.
- Ndipo potsiriza, chifukwa chomalizira chimene anthu satha kupeza theka lawo lachiwiri ndi kudzikayikira. Kodi mungayembekezere bwanji chikondi kuchokera kwa mlendo,
Ngati simukudzimverera nokha? Pamene mawu akuti: "Ngati mukufuna kusintha dziko - yambani nokha." Dzifunseni nokha zosangalatsa, muziyenda nthawi zambiri ndikusintha mkhalidwe, sintha fano, pita nawo masewera. Zosankha za momwe mungadzisokonezere ndikuchotseratu kuvutika maganizo lero ndizambiri. Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndi kudzikonda nokha, dziko lozungulira ndi zochitika zake zonse.
Kuwonjezera chimwemwe ndi chidaliro, mudzakopa anthu atsopano ndi osangalatsa ku moyo wanu. Ndipo pamodzi ndi iwo, kumverera kokondwera kudzabwera kwa inu.