Kusintha mwamuna wake

NthaƔi zambiri, pamene mkazi anasintha mwamuna wake, amakhala ndi chisoni nthawi zonse, kufikira atavomereza. Pambuyo pake, khalidwe la mkazi pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika limasintha kwambiri, lomwe liri chifukwa cha malingaliro ake. Koma ngati mkazi atapereka mwamuna wake kwa nthawi yoyamba, mwachidwi amafuna kuiwala za chirichonse ndi kupulumutsa banja, akatswiri a maganizo akulangiza kuti asauze mwamuna wake zomwe zinachitika. Ngati mkazi avomereza kuti wapereka mwamuna wake, kunyada kwake kudzakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri, ndipo, ngakhale akufuna kukhululukira, adzakayikira wokondedwa wake mosalekeza, popanda ngakhale kuzindikira. Pamapeto pake, banjali lidzatopa ndi chibwenzi choterocho, ndipo ukwatiwo udzawonongedwa. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake chiwembu chiyenera kusungidwa mosamala, kapena dzikhululukire nokha ntchitoyi ndi kuiwala.

Ukwati waulere

Koma nthawi zina mwamuna amakulolani kuti musinthe. Pankhaniyi, banja limamangidwa pamaziko a ubale wawo, pamene okwatirana amakondana ndipo amakhala osangalala palimodzi, komanso samakana kulandira maganizo atsopano kumbali. Ngati onse awiri akugwirizana ndi udindo umenewu, ndiye kuti banja lidzakhala lamphamvu kwambiri. Koma ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti zochitika sizingatheke ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi adzamva kumverera kwa mnzake wotsatira. Ndipo mwayi wotero ndi waukulu kwambiri.

Maubale osatha m'mbuyomu

Kawirikawiri pali zochitika pamene mkazi anasintha mwamuna wake kwa mnyamata wakale. Msonkhano wokhala ndi munthu wina wakale, kukambirana mu mtima wamtima kumakhudza kukumbukira komanso kukumbukira zakale. Msonkhano woterewu ukhoza kutsogolera mwatsatanetsatane, chifukwa alipo kale, koma munthu wobadwa. Azimayi amangochita zinthu mopupuluma ndipo amangokhalira kugonjetsedwa. Za kusintha kwachisoni nthawi zambiri. Mkazi akasintha mwamuna wake kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, chibwenzi chenicheni chikuchitika, chifukwa maubwenziwa sakhala ogonana okha, komanso amalingaliro a chikondi, chikondi ndi chikondi.

Anzanu apamtima

Nchifukwa chiyani amai nthawi zambiri amasintha mwamuna ndi bwenzi lake? Bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wake limangokhala bwenzi la banja, omwe amalankhulana bwino ndi onse awiri. Mwamuna nthawi zonse amatsimikiza kuti ubwenzi ndi wopatulika, choncho bwenzi silidzapereka. "Inde, samayang'ana mkazi wake ngati mkazi," nthawi zambiri amuna amaganiza. Musaiwale kuti ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zonse umachokera ku chiyanjano ndi kukhudzidwa. Palibe chibwenzi chophweka, wina akukondabebe. Bwenzi la banja likhoza kuthetsa mkazi wake panthawi ya mikangano yambiri ndi kukhumudwa, kumudandaula, kumudetsa nkhawa. Ndipo iyeyo sangazindikire momwe iye waperekera kale mwamuna wake ndi bwenzi lake.

Kuchita mwano

Mayi akhoza kusintha mwamuna wake mwangozi. Choopsa kwambiri ndi nthawi yong'ung'udza, pamene mkaziyo ali pachiopsezo ndipo amafuna kuti akhale ndi mapewa amphamvu ndi odalirika pafupi naye. Monga lamulo, muzochitika zoterozo, mzimayi amasintha mwamuna wake kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndipo izi zingakhale munthu wosadziwika bwino, yemwe anangomakomana naye pa bar. Kuyankhulana kwachinsinsi ndi kotheka kunyamula ndikusintha nthawi yopuma. Buku la tchuthi ndilochidule cha mtundu wonse wa chigololo. Ngati mkazi wasintha mwamuna wake pa tchuthi, ndiye kosavuta kwa iye kuti abise chochitika ichi ndikuiwala zomwe zinachitika. Kupuma nthawi zonse kumaphatikizapo mowa ndi kusangalala, chabwino, ngati mkazi akomana ndi munthu wokondweretsa, ndiye zomwe sangakwanitse.

Kuchita ziwembu mwatsatanetsatane

Ngati mkazi nthawi zambiri amasintha mwamuna wake, ndiye kuti mmoyo wake munali wotchuka watsopano, amene amakhala ndi malo enaake mu moyo ndi malingaliro. Msonkhano woterewu ndi mwamuna wina umamuthandiza mkazi kuti azikonda chikondi, ataiwalika muukwati wake. Ndikofunika kuti mkazi afunidwe komanso ngati ena, zokhudzidwa ndizofunikira kwa achinyamata ake osatha. Mkazi akamanyengerera mwamuna wake ndi wokondedwa wake, pali mwayi waukulu kuti mkaziyo adziwe za ubalewu. Ndipotu, mulimonsemo, mwamunayo amayamba kuganiza kuti mkazi akusintha, akuzindikira khalidwe lake losintha, nkhope yowala, maso akuwala.

Kusintha mwamuna wake, momwe angabwerere?

Pamene mkazi wapereka kale mwamuna wake, ndichedwa kuti mudandaule zomwe zachitika, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungachepetsere vutoli ndipo musamapweteke kwambiri mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Muyenera kupatsa mwamuna wanu nthawi kuti azizizira, ndipo akhoza kulankhula nanu momasuka. Pambuyo pake, mkazi amatha kumvetsa ngati mwamuna wake amakonda mpaka pano komanso ngati angakhululukire. Njira yoyamba yomwe anthu amachitira chiwembu ndi kubwezera komweku, ndipo mkazi ayenera kukhala wokonzeka.

Mzimayi akuganiza kuti amupereke chifukwa cha zokhudzidwa zatsopano kapena kukhumudwa muukwati, koma ndibwino kukumbukira kuti zonsezi zidzapulumuka bwanji atatha kufooketsa.