Pafupifupi mayi aliyense wamtsogolo pamene ali ndi mimba yoyamba akuzunzidwa ndi zifukwa zambiri zosiyana. Choncho, mutasankha kudyetsa mwana wanu ndi mankhwala okhaokha - mkaka wa m'mawere, mkazi amayamba kuganiza za kugula bere nthawi yayitali asanabadwe.
Ichi ndi chipangizo chapadera chimene chimapangidwira kuti mkaka wa m'mawere umveke , ndipo ngati chida chilichonse cha pathupi chimakhala ndi ubwino ndi ubwino wake.
Mitundu
Malinga ndi mawonekedwe a mapepala apachifuwa a ntchito akhoza kugawidwa mu mitundu iwiri:
- (mawonekedwe, ogwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ya mkazi);
- Magetsi (amagwira ntchito mwachindunji pogwiritsira ntchito mphamvu: mabatire, maunyolo).
Ubwino
Chofunika kwambiri pamapope a m'mawere ndi kuti mothandizidwa ndi mayi wamng'ono akhoza kutaya kwathunthu chifuwa chake, chomwe chiri chofunikira makamaka ngati mkaka uli ndi phokoso. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, pogwiritsa ntchito mpope wamagetsi, mayi amamasula manja ake, zomwe zimamupatsa mpata wochita zinthu zofanana ndi zina.
Tikayerekezera mapepala apakati ndi magetsi , timatha kunena motsimikiza kuti bukuli ndi labwino. Kotero, amayi sadalira mphamvu, ndipo akhoza kufotokoza mabere ake ngakhale pamsewu.
M'magetsi okwera mtengo a mphamvu zamagetsi amapereka mpweya wamagetsi, womwe umakulolani kupanga kupopera ndi dzanja. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, chida chimabwera ndi waya wosiyana, womwe ungagwirizane ndi kuwala kwa ndudu ya galimotoyo.
Kawirikawiri pamapope amathandiza amayi omwe ali ndi mkaka wambiri, ndipo mwana safuna kapena sangathe (chifukwa cha matenda kapena matenda). Kawirikawiri izi zimawoneka m'mwana asanakwane omwe ali olemala kwambiri chifukwa cha kusowa kwa thupi kapena kutengeka kwa ziwalo ndi machitidwe (okhala ndi chisautso chachikulu).
Komanso, amayi ambiri amakakamizidwa kupeza ndalama zowonjezera kapena kupita kuntchito. Ndi chifukwa chake sangathe kuchita popanda kuthandizidwa ndi kapope. Kuonjezerapo, mumoyo ukhoza kukhala ndi vuto kotero kuti mayi abwere kuchipatala, kapena pali kusowa kochoka, ndipo simukufuna kusiya kuyamwitsa. Pachifukwa ichi, pampu ya m'mawere ndiyo njira yokhayo yotulukira.
Kuipa
Kuphatikiza pa zophatikiza zapamwambazi, mapezi a m'mawere, monga chipangizo, amakhalanso ndi mavuto ena. Mwina chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti pakapita nthawi, mwanayo amadziwa kuti safunikira kuika mkaka m'thupi, chifukwa amayi ake amadyetsa kale mkaka kuchokera mu botolo. Pankhaniyi, mkaka umaperekedwa mofanana ndi mtsinje waung'ono. Ndicho chifukwa chake, pamene amayi a mkaka wa m'mawere akucheperachepera, mwanayo akuyamba kuchita mantha, chifukwa zimatengera khama kwambiri kuti lichoke pachifuwa. Izi ndizomwe zimapweteka chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito kapope.
Motero, chiŵerengero chowonjezeka cha anachipatala amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito pape pamabere nthawi zina,
Choncho, n'zosatheka kunena mosadziwika ngati pamphupa ya m'mawere ndi yoopsa kapena ayi. Chirichonse chimadalira pachinthu chomwecho. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri pamakhala kutsutsana pa ubwino ndi kuvulazidwa kwa papepala, momwe mkaziyo amadzipangira ngati angagwiritse ntchito pamene akudyetsa mwana wake kapena ayi.
Koma ngati kuti panalibe, chipangizochi chimafunidwa nthawi zonse, ndipo zitsanzo zake zikukhala bwino chifukwa cha izi. Chinthu chokha, chigwiritseni ntchito bwino nthawi ndi nthawi, kuti musayambitse makhalidwe a mwanayo. Apo ayi, kuyamwa mwana kumakhala kovuta kwambiri.