Wina amanjenjemera kuti akhale pa malo ogwira ntchito, wina - kuwerenga buku, ndi wina - kukhala ndi moyo. Chizolowezi chimadziwonetsera mwa njira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo aliyense wa ife wakumana naye kangapo kamodzi mmoyo mwathu, koma sikuti onse adatha kupeza mankhwala ogwira ntchito kuchokera kwa iye.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti zifukwa zowonetsera malingaliro oipawa ndizopanda chidwi pa zomwe munthuyo akuchita. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, zimadziwonetsera nthawi yomwe simungathe kusankha zomwe mukufuna kuti mukhalepo panthawi ino.
Kuwonetsera kwakumva chisoni kapena kukhumudwa
Chizoloŵezi chimenechi chimakhalapo nthawi zonse, ndipo mizu yake imapangidwa ali mwana, pamene makolo samasamala za mwana wawo. Nthawi zambiri amazisiya okhaokha, popanda kutenga chilichonse chochititsa chidwi, popanda kusonyeza chidwi pa moyo wawo, poiwala kuthandiza mwana kudzipeza yekha.
Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli?
Pali njira imodzi yothandiza kwambiri: dziperekeni ku chinthu chosangalatsa kwa inu panokha. Sankhani kuchokera pa zomwe zilipo kapena mukhale ndi chidwi, bizinesi yomwe ingakulimbikitseni, kukulimbikitsani, mudzaze moyo wanu ndikutanthauzira, yonjezerani kukhudzidwa kwa moyo wanu tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma chinthu chachikulu mwa njira yodzikweza ndi gawo la kulenga. Pezani chinachake chomwe mungasonyeze chidziwitso chanu, phunzirani zomwe mungathe kuchita, zomwe mukufunikira kusunthira. Pangani, pezani mbali zatsopano za umunthu wanu.
Koma momwe mungagwirire ndi kudzipweteka, ngati osati mukumverera? Ndiye mu nkhaniyi ingosintha maganizo anu. Yang'anani kuchokera kumbali inayo ku chikhalidwe chanu. Kodi izi zingakhale zokhutira moyo wamba? Ngati simukufuna kuchita chirichonse, ganizirani njira yomwe ili yosangalatsa. Munthu wakhala akuzoloŵera mphindi iliyonse kuti agwire ntchito, kuchokera ku izi ndi mantha, pokhala yekha ndi maganizo ake, kukumana ndi iyemwini.