Nthawi zina amai amakumana ndi zochitika zotere monga chikondi chawo pa amuna awo, chifukwa kaduka umatha kwambiri ndipo pakati pa okwatirana pali maubwenzi abwino , amatha kusweka ndi razluchnitsa pogwiritsa ntchito matsenga. Cholinga chachikulu pa chikhumbo chochotsa mnzanuyo chingakhale bwino. Kodi mbuye angakondweretse mwamuna, ngati iwe umamukonda, inde, inde! Ngati mwamunayo apambana, moyo wanu umakhala wosasunthika, wodekha ndi wodekha, ubale ndi wabwino ndipo anthu ambiri amadziwa za izi, ndizowona kuti munthu wansanje amasowa munthu wosadziwika akhoza kukhala chida chokoma chomwe amalota pa moyo wake. Pofuna kupeĊµa chinthu choterocho, nkosafunikira kunena momwe mukuchitira bwino. Nkhani zabwino zonse zimayambitsa kaduka kokha, kotero ngati mumalankhula zambiri za momwe zinthu zilili bwino, musadabwe kuti mwamuna wake walosedwera ndipo anasiya banja. Pali njira zambiri zamatsenga, ndipo sizidzatha popanda tsatanetsatane, ndipo posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, woswekayo adzabwerera. Koma kodi chotsalira kwa mkazi amene asiyidwa yekha?
Nanga bwanji ngati mbuyeyo anakonza mwamuna wake kwa mwezi umodzi?
Mungathe kubwerera mmbuyo, pamene akunena kuti: "Pakhomo lakugwedeza," tembenuzirani kwa mayi wodziwa bwino yemwe angakuthandizeni kuthetsa vutoli. Akatswiri m'munda umenewu nthawi zambiri amadziwa choti achite. Poyamba, lapelinapangidwa kuchokera kwa ambuye, kenaka spell imapangidwanso kwa mkazi wake. Zonsezi zimatenga nthawi yaitali, koma zimapereka zotsatira. Komabe, ganizirani mosamala ngati kuli koyenera kutenga chiopsezo ndipo, monga akunena, mutenge tchimo pamtima.
Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti mabala amphamvu amaonedwa ngati chikondi cha mwezi umodzi. Ngati simukukhulupirira ma lapels, mauthenga ndi miyambo ina yamatsenga, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kupita kutchalitchi kuti mukatumikire, kuyika makandulo kwa thanzi la aliyense ndikupemphera. N'kofunikanso kuganizira mozama za spell ndikusintha malingaliro anu osamvetsetseka kokha kwa mafunde abwino.