Aliyense ali ndi zochitika zabwino komanso zoipa. Uwu ndi moyo, ndipo umakhala ndi nthawi zosangalatsa, komanso zokhumudwitsa, zodandaula ndi zolakwa. Sikuti aliyense amapeza mphamvu yakuvomera moyo wake wakale ndikukumana ndi mavuto, kupsa mtima, kukwiya, komanso kudzimvera yekha ku neurosis. Momwe mungadzikhululukire nokha chifukwa cha zolakwa zakale, tidzakambirana m'nkhaniyi.
Momwe mungadzikhululukire nokha chifukwa cha zolakwa zakale - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo
Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti zomwe zachitika sizingathetsedwe, choncho sikutheka kusintha chilichonse mwa kudzipangira. Komabe, mukhoza kuchepetsa malingaliro anu ngati mupempha chikhululukiro kuchokera kwa munthu amene ali ndi maganizo anu. Inde, si zophweka, makamaka ngati zitsimikiziranso kuti zidzachitapo kanthu, koma zilizonse zomwe zimayankhidwa, ndithudi zidzakhala zophweka chifukwa chakuti inuyo nokha mupanga sitepe yoyamba. Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angadzikhululukire okha chifukwa cha zolakwitsa, ngati munthu amene wakhumudwitsidwa ndi inu atasamukira kudziko lina ndipo simungapemphe kukhululukidwa, mungakulimbikitseni kuti mubwerere kwa wansembe ndikulapa machimo anu.
Adzalandira mawu otonthoza ndipo adzakhala kosavuta. Anthu ambiri saganiza za kukhululukira zolakwitsa, koma izi ndi mphatso yomwe munthu amadzichitira yekha. Permanent samoydstvo imangotengera zodwala ndi matenda ndipo choipitsitsa chimene munthu angakhoze kuchita ndikuwaza mutu wake ndi phulusa. Kukhala ndi moyo wakale, tikuwoneka kuti tikukhalabe mmenemo, kudziba tokha panopa komanso m'tsogolo. Ndi nthawi yosintha zinthu zonse, kuyang'ana dziko moyenera komanso ndi mtima womwewo wokhululukira ena chifukwa cha zolakwitsa zawo, chifukwa timakonda wina aliyense kudziwa kuti zimakhala zovuta bwanji kukhala ndi katundu pamtima.
Mwa kulekerera zoperewera ndi mantha enieni, munthu amakhala wopanda ufulu ndipo amadzuka pamwamba pa vuto. Amasiya kukhumudwa, ndipo akuthokoza chifukwa cha phunzirolo komanso zomwe akuphunzira zimaphunzitsidwa ndikukhulupirira kuti zambiri za moyo wake sizidzachitika.