Aliyense wa ife, pokhala pa nthawi yeniyeni ndi nthawi, ali mu maganizo ena, chifukwa chaichi, pamutu wa zochitika zomwezo, anthu awiri akhoza kuwunika mosiyana.
Kuphatikiza kapena kuchepetsa?
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, munthu mmodzi galasi akhoza kukhala theka opanda kanthu, ndipo wina adzasangalala kuti akudzaza pakati ndi madzi ndipo pali chinachake chotsitsa ludzu lanu. Ndipotu, mu chitsanzo chophwekachi, tanthauzo la chikhalidwe cha umunthu wa munthu limatsimikiziridwa: timakhala osangalala kapena ayi. Ngakhale kuti njirayi yothetsera vutoli ndi yowonjezereka ndipo malire okhutira ndi momwe zinthu ziliri panopa komanso momwe zinthu ziliri pakali pano nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti ndizovuta kudziwa momwe zimakhalire zabwino. Chinthu chomwe chiripo pakali pano ndi chosangalatsa, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, mbali yotsatira ya ndondomeko ikhoza kutifooketsa ife ndi kunena mosatsimikizika kuti muzochitika paliponse palimodzi kapena, mosiyana, sitingathe konse. Mwachitsanzo, muli ndi ntchito yodalirika, yokhala ndi malipiro komanso malipiro anu kuposa suti yanu, koma kumbali ina muyenera kugwira ntchito maola 10-12 patsiku, osasiya mwayi pa moyo wanu wokhazikika, choncho, mumadzimva kuti mulibe vuto.
Kodi mzere uli kuti?
Pali mitundu yambiri yamaganizo: mantha, kukhumudwa, kukhumudwa, kukhumudwa, kukhumudwa (mungathe kulemba mosalekeza ndikuyesera kufotokozera madigiri awo osiyanasiyana), koma nthawi zonse iwo, mwa njira imodzi, amatsutsana ndi maganizo awo "othandizana nawo", nthawizina mozama kwambiri kuti n'zosatheka kupatukana wina ndi mzake. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amakhala ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo, lomwe, pofuna kuti asasokoneze yekha, nthawi yomweyo amaitana ku "phwando", kusowa tulo, kutopa ndi kusowa kwa njala, ndipo izi ndizovuta maganizo, ndikukhulupirira, mwamsanga pamene moyo wanu ubwera gulu lowala , "alendo" onsewa ngati mphepo ikuwomba.
Kodi mungathandize bwanji?
Mpaka pano, pali njira zambiri, njira ndi mauthenga omwe amayankha funso la momwe mungakonzekeretse maganizo a munthu. Thandizo lothandiza kuthana ndi maganizo ovutika maganizo a kusinkhasinkha kapena yoga. Masabata angapo akuchita mwaluso wokopa osanasana mosavuta ndipo iwe udzayang'ana kale mafilosofi padziko lonse lapansi lamisala pozungulira iwe, ndi mtendere wa Buddha. Njira yabwino kwambiri ndiyo kusintha zinthu, ndipo ndibwino kusankha malo omwe simunayambepopo. Ubongo wanu umasintha ku ntchito yothetsera malo atsopano ndi kuphunzitsa "kuchepetsa kugonana" kwa malo omwe ali ndi udindo wopereka malingaliro oipa. Mukhoza kuyendayenda kwambiri.
Zoonadi, zinthu zambiri zimakhudza maganizo a munthuyo, koma timapatsidwa chifukwa chotha kusiyanitsa nyembazo ndi mankhusu ndikupereka kulingalira bwino kwa mkhalidwewu kuti tidziwe ngati zili zoyenera maselo athu okhala ndi zisa kapena ayi. Kuchokera pazochitika zilizonse nthawi zonse zimakhala njira yopitilira, ndizoti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi malo omwe tinayesera kuzipeza. Yang'anani vutoli mosiyana, ndipo mwina mudzadabwa kuona kuti madzi a galasi lanu ndi oledzeretsa.