Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'maganizo kwa munthu amene akudandaula kuti akudzivulaza ndi funso: "Chifukwa chiyani ine?". Ndipo funso ili ndi lolemekezeka, pakuti, ndithudi, kuti ndipewe kubwereza mobwerezabwereza, ndiyenera kusintha chinachake m'moyo wanga, koma, tsoka, anthu amalingalira funso ili mosamalitsa, ngati kuti ali ndi mwayi wodzidandaula kachiwiri.
Ndikhulupirire, zizindikiro za diso loyipa ndi kuwonongeka zimawoneka pa munthuyo pa chifukwa. Mphamvu ziyenera kubwera kuchokera ku chinachake, ndipo, kawirikawiri, mphamvu zolakwika za munthu wachitatu zimangokhalapo pamene ife tamutumiza munthuyu zokhumba zathu zabwino. Mipatuko, mabodza, kukwiyitsa kwa ife, kungosandulika kukhala chilango chobwezera chotsutsana ndi aura yathu yomwe.
Momwe mungazindikire kuwononga?
Kotero, ngati mukuganiza kuti pali chinachake, musapite mwamsanga kwa amatsenga, yesetsani kudziwa ngati pali zizindikiro za diso loyipa kapena kuti mudzipusitse nokha. Tsoka, matsenga ndiwonso osayeruzika, ndipo ndi kopindulitsa kwambiri kwa iwo kuti azindikire kuwonongeka kwanu, osati kuchotsa mantha anu. Zili ngati mankhwala: pitani, yesani, ndipo tiwone matendawa!
Choyamba, zizindikiro zowonongeka pa munthu zimayambira (mosasamala kanthu za kuwonongeka) ndi matenda. Kungakhale matenda ofatsa, ozizira chifukwa cha kuzizira, pakhoza kukhala zovuta zosazizwitsa, kapena mwinamwake kwambiri - matenda aakulu a matenda, pamene madokotala amachiritsa matenda amodzi, kupeza china chatsopano.
Ndipo chizindikiro cha khalidwe loti chiwonongeko ndi diso loyipa ndilo "losokonezeka" sakufuna kupita kwa dokotala, ngakhale kuti ali ndi thanzi labwino. Pali kukhumudwa, mantha, mantha, kupweteka , kupanikizika . Munthu woteroyo safuna kuona chiwonetsero chake pagalasi, akuwopa ndikudutsa malo ozungulira.
M'nyumba ya tizilombo "taonongeka" (nyerere, ntchentche) zimabzalidwa, koma oyandikana nawo sali.
Diso loyipa pa nyumba
Mwina, zowonongeka sizinayambike pa inu nokha, koma kunyumba kwanu. Izi zimachitika mutapempha anthu achisoni kuti aziyendera, ndipo iwo, powona chuma chanu, chitonthozo, ubwino,
Kenaka kumverera kwa mantha, kusowa chitonthozo kumayambira onse m'banja. Pansi pa ndondomeko zanu zapanyumba zapamwamba zimayamba kuphika, kumvetsetsa kumatayika. Chizindikiro chodziwikiratu cha kuwonongeka koyambitsa ndi khalidwe la ziweto: amphaka amafuna kuchoka panyumba "yowonongeka", ndipo agalu amafuula popanda chifukwa.
Pali nthawizonse yokambirana yolondola yomwe wina akugogoda pakhomo kapena kuyitana, ngakhale kuti palibe wina pamenepo.
Ngati madzi oyera amawasungira m'nyumba ngati imeneyi, akhoza kutha. Ndipo pa makoma akhoza kuwonekera zojambula zosiyana.