Ngati pali chikhumbo chokwatirana, mukhoza kuwonjezera mwayi wanu womanga ubale wamphamvu ndi wokondwa, pogwiritsa ntchito ziwembu mu Utatu kuti mukwatirane. Miyambo yonse ndi yophweka komanso yosavuta, koma kuti ikhale yoyenera ikhale ndi zolinga zabwino ndikukhulupilira kwakukulu mu zotsatira zabwino. Apo ayi, sikuyenera kuwerengera thandizo la Mphamvu Zapamwamba.
Kodi miyambo ya Utatu ndi yotani?
Kuti mudziwe kuchokera kumbali yomwe mkazi wam'tsogolo adzawonekere, muyenera kumanga nsalu ndi manja anu ndikuyiyika pamadzi. Mu njira yomwe iye aziyandama, kuchokera kumeneko ndi kuyembekezera chikondi.
Pali mchitidwe wosavuta kuti banja lanu likhale Utatu, omwe musanapite kuntchito muyenera kuthyola masamba ambiri a birch ndi kuwaika pachifuwa chanu. Pangani msonkhano wonse popanda kuwatenga, ndipo mutabwerera kunyumba kuchokera ku masamba kukonzekera msuzi pa moto wochepa. Pakukonzekera, nenani chiwembu chotere:
"Momwe anthu amakukondera Utatu, kotero lolani mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) andisamalire, atenthe mtima wanga, ayambe ndi thupi langa, ndipatseni chikondi".
Tiyeni tikambirane mwambo wina wophweka womwe udzaloledwa kukwaniritsa theka lachiwiri. Pogwiritsa ntchito njira yopita ku tchalitchi, nkofunikira kuswa maluwa a zamasamba ndi zitsamba. M'kachisi amadzipatulira, ndipo kumapeto kwa ntchitoyi amaika makandulo atatu kutsogolo kwa mafano ndi zithunzi zachikazi. Mukabwera kunyumba, sulani zomera, zitsanulirani ndi madzi otentha ndikukonzekeretsani. Pamene madzi akumwa, ayenera kudzichapa, pokonza chiphunzitso cha Utatu kuti akwatirane ndi chikondi:
"Travushka-mug, inu munakulira mmunda, inu munasamalira njira. Ndibweretseni ine mkwati (kapena mkwatibwi), kuti moyo uziwotchedwa ndi chikondi, kuti moyo uziwira ndi fungulo. "
Pali mwambo wina wophweka umene umabweretsa msonkhano pafupi ndi theka lachiwiri. Kuti izi zitheke, nkofunikira kuyamba mwambowu pakati pausiku usanachitike phwando la Utatu. Tengani maluwa a msipu wamtchire ndi kukulumikiza nsalu kuchokera kwa iwo, ndiyeno muwoloke iwo. Kumugwira mmanja mwanu, werengani chiwembu ichi:
"M'munda mwathu atsikana akubirira akuyenda, akunyamula maluwa, mphete zokhotakhota ndi kuponyedwa m'madzi. Wopambana-mummer, iwe umagwira nsonga, undipatse ine, wantchito wa Mulungu (dzina). Kwa nthawi zonse. Amen. "
Pambuyo pa izi, muyenera kupita ku dziwe lachilengedwe ndikuponya nkhata mmenemo, kotero kuti imatengedwa ndi zamakono. Pitani kunyumba ndipo musayambe kutembenuka ndipo musalankhule ndi wina aliyense.
Zizindikiro zaukwati kwa Utatu
Pali zikhulupiriro ndi miyambo yochepa imene imakhudza atsikana osakwatiwa okha. Mwachitsanzo, kuti mudziwe ngati zingatheke kukwatira chaka chomwe chikubwerayo, m'pofunika kupita ku malo ozungulira pafupi ndi Utatu ndi "kupiringa" mtengo wachitsamba. Ngati nthambi zikufota kapena zikukula panthawi ya tchuthi, ndiye kuti simuyenera kuyembekezera kukumana ndi abwenzi, koma ngati atasokonezeka, ndiye kuti ukwati udzakhala, ndipo banja lidzakhala losangalala. Malingana ndi vesi lina, ngati muika nthambi zatsopano pansi pa pillow, mungathe kumuwona mnzanu wam'tsogolo mumaloto.