Miyambo yaukwati m'nthaŵi yathu ino

M'masiku oyambirira a agogo athu, ukwatiwo unali miyambo yovuta komanso yofunika kwambiri. Ena afika panthawi yathu, koma m'mabaibulo apamwamba kwambiri. Lero, ukwati ndi chikondwerero chomwe aliyense amakonza mogwirizana ndi chidziwitso, zikhumbo ndi mwayi wawo. Ndipo miyambo, nthawi zambiri, imangokhala phwando losangalatsa ku phwando losangalatsa. Pali miyambo yambiri ya ukwati: chiyanjano cha achibale, phwando la phwando ndi phwando la nkhuku, mtengo wa mkwatibwi, ukwati ndi ena ambiri. Tidzawafotokozera mwatsatanetsatane.

Miyambo, miyambo ndi miyambo yamakono

Miyambo yambiri yogwirizana ndi ukwati yadza kumoyo wamakono. Choncho, chikondwererochi chisanakwane, makolo a achinyamata ayenera kudziwa bwino. Patsikuli, pa phwando lachikondwerero, achibale akukambirana zambiri zokhudza chochitikacho, bungwe lake ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Chinthu china chodziwikiratu ndi phwando la nkhuku ndi nkhuku madzulo a mwambowu. Amakhulupirira kuti mwanjira imeneyi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kuyankhula kwaulere moyo wawo waufulu, ndikukonzekera banja.

Chimodzi mwa miyambo yayikulu ya ukwati, yomwe ikukhudzana ndi nthawi yathu ndi dipo la mkwatibwi. Kuti apeze dzanja ndi mtima wa okondedwa ake, komanso kuvomereza kwa mkwatibwi wake, mkwati ayenera kuyesedwa mayesero ena. Mwa iwo iye akuyenera kuti asonyeze nzeru zake ndi mphamvu. Poyambirira, mwambo uwu unayandikira kwambiri, ndipo mkwati, yemwe sankakhoza kudziwonetsa yekha, angachoke wopanda kanthu. Lero ndi mpikisano wokondweretsa.

Chofunika kwambiri ndi ukwati wa achinyamata. Ndi chikhumbo cha mwamuna ndi mkazi kuti agwirizanenso pamaso pa Mulungu.

Zizindikiro za Ukwati ndi miyambo

1. Mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kufika pa malo olembetsa ukwati mu magalimoto osiyanasiyana. Njira yothandizira imaphatikizapo kupatukana mwamsanga.
2. Pa khonde la ofesi yolembera, achinyamata ayenera kumwa mkaka, pambuyo pake, atapanga zolakalaka, akuswa magalasi.
3. Atachoka ku REGISTRY OFFICE, achinyamata amawaza ndi tirigu kapena maluwa, kuti moyo wawo ukhale wolemera komanso wokongola kwambiri.
4. Mkwati ayenera kumunyamula mkwatibwi wake kudutsa mlatho kuti akakhale mosangalala palimodzi moyo wake wonse.